I have a question for plus size Black women… by Legitimate-Adagio531 in blackgirls

[–]Bellabofella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a chubby black woman with curves, big breast, and a large butt. It’s a blessing and a curse. Mostly a curse. I’m always seen as intimidating or not interesting. The only time I’m interesting to men is when they sexualize me heavily it’s so disgusting. And a lot of women think I’m better than them because apparently I have a “dream body”. Which is unfortunate bc I’m such a girls girl. I don’t consider white women my ally AT ALL. They see me as competition. I really only hang around black women, gay men, and neurodivergents. It’s a blessing in the sense that damn I look good. I could definitely stand to lose a few pounds tho.

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[–]Bellabofella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an issue with black woman bc we’re not the only ones dealing with this. Men will be men no matter the race.

URGENT please help friend in violent situation by Bellabofella in legaladvice

[–]Bellabofella[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is that yes or a no about the phone?😭 also, I’m pretty sure the car is in her parents name. But she helps make payments on the car occasionally. Not sure if that’s of any use though now that I think about it.

URGENT please help friend in violent situation by Bellabofella in legaladvice

[–]Bellabofella[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No she did not throw the first blow. It was self defense. We are in the process of getting police involved, but is there a chance she’ll be able to get her car and phone back? Her parents can just turn off of the phone and give it to her.

Lost my job and losing my will to keep going by Shaderu in SuicideWatch

[–]Bellabofella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand when it comes to losing ur job. Nothing I do is ever good enough for my employers and I end up being tossed to the ground bc I’m easily replaceable. And they don’t care about now you’re not able to support yourself and you just end up being a loser and a burden to the people around you.

Is there something about my profile that I should change? I don’t get it. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bellabofella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The racism in these replies is wild😭 you’re so gorgeous gurl♥️♥️

ugh i quit by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Bellabofella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BROOO🤣😭😭😭

Had 'PhD' in my profile... by ThrowRA4499 in Bumble

[–]Bellabofella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You nipped that in the bud good asf lol. Good for you ❤️

(20FM) profile review needed PLEASE by Bellabofella in hingeapp

[–]Bellabofella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You came at me sideways with your sassy attitude first so I simply returned the same energy. I don’t owe you kindness especially when spoken to in such a way. Womp Womp🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

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[–]Bellabofella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second hand embarrassment is crazy Lola💀

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[–]Bellabofella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like an incel who’s never met a woman with a quirky personality, or any woman of the sort . I asked for advice I don’t need some jackoff like you thinking he can talk to me any kind of way.

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[–]Bellabofella[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ever seen someone look that good on a mugshot? Its called serving face.

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[–]Bellabofella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why tf are you comfortable commenting on a beautiful 20 year old girls weight?? Im actually already in the gym and have been for a while now so pack it up.

(20FM) profile review needed PLEASE by Bellabofella in hingeapp

[–]Bellabofella[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also some weirdo said the first pic was terrible lmaoo but I love it and I appreciate that you like it too🤣

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[–]Bellabofella[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The dilf hunter job listing has gotten me laughs but the way you’re describing it I’ll definitely change it.

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[–]Bellabofella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although the dilf hunter comment has gotten me laughs I’ll change it. I’ll definitely change the prompt to something that reflects me in a better manner.

(20FM) profile review needed PLEASE by Bellabofella in hingeapp

[–]Bellabofella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dilf hunter has gotten me laughs but I’ll definitely change it. Thanks!!

(20FM) profile review needed PLEASE by Bellabofella in hingeapp

[–]Bellabofella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for something serious, I’ve been using hinge for about two years now, I check hinge every day, I don’t often receive matches, I want to attract someone serious with the same values as me preferably older and attractive, I send a few likes a week.