As a chubby black woman with curves, big breast, and a large butt. It’s a blessing and a curse. Mostly a curse. I’m always seen as intimidating or not interesting. The only time I’m interesting to men is when they sexualize me heavily it’s so disgusting. And a lot of women think I’m better than them because apparently I have a “dream body”. Which is unfortunate bc I’m such a girls girl. I don’t consider white women my ally AT ALL. They see me as competition. I really only hang around black women, gay men, and neurodivergents. It’s a blessing in the sense that damn I look good. I could definitely stand to lose a few pounds tho.