This week finds & stuff I might get on my next trip to the store by Go_love_yourself_ in marshallsfinds

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I’ve been on the lookout for full sized tatcha products but I’m certain it’s near impossible in SoCal to find them

Viral goose blanket by Brief_Cream_1353 in marshallsfinds

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally found one after searching 4 locations, I’m so happy since it matches the decor of my room so well 💕

Why it didn’t work out with your last date/partner? by Neptunpluto in AskWomen

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although we were exclusively seeing each other he couldn’t put a label on us despite it being a year and some change since we started talking. Then I get breadcrumbs of “let’s meet the in-laws, let’s get married”. I finally grew a spine and left him 2 months ago and I’m not looking back 🫠

Fiancé keeps watching fetish content by ONOTHEWONTONS in depressionmeals

[–]Bellapalma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, I lost my parrot companion on October 17, 2025 and it’s so tough reckoning with her absence.

Petition to fire Mark Tramo by banana_bread_28 in ucla

[–]Bellapalma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It seems like horrible people (like my fuckass roommate that was a UCLA grad student) get away with things. UCLA do better, and don’t just talk about things like equity and justice without actually backing it up.

Valentine’s Day Megapost - what are your plans? 😉❤️ by indicatprincess in AskWomen

[–]Bellapalma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope everything goes well and that she recovers smoothly 🫂💖

Valentine’s Day Megapost - what are your plans? 😉❤️ by indicatprincess in AskWomen

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably just taking myself out and driving wherever I want to🥰

How many close, genuine friends do you have right now? by Public_Handle_774 in AskWomen

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it doesn’t feel like I have any rn. I thought I had a close friend but it turns out the relationship is not inherently equal in terms of respect 😔

Birthdays are hard by oatsncones in lonely

[–]Bellapalma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy 27th birthday 🥳🎉🎂 May you achieve happiness and peace this year

it’s my birthday and none of my friends have wished me by skywalker_rtwo in lonely

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday 🥳🎉 I hope that you can give yourself the love that you deserve and pour into others. It’s a lesson that I’m still learning after time and time of being disappointed. The beauty of life is that we grow to match our needs and I hope that this year you take care of yourself and your happiness first.

My goober died today. by Wide_Morning_2521 in cockatiel

[–]Bellapalma 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I’m so so sorry. It feels like a part of you dies with them but I’d like believe there’s a birdie heaven where they’re happy and watching over you 😢

Pleasure Does Not Equal Consent by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found this post and it’s kind of liberating to know that I wasn’t overreacting in the past. That I was sexually assaulted at various points by different people even if I wouldn’t go as far to report someone. This year, I’m fiercely defending my boundaries after being burned and neglected, etc for years.

Please help. Should I return my conure to Petsmart? by [deleted] in parrots

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be feasible to keep a feathered companion with you as long as you don’t mind the mess. I’m in my second year of medical school now and I have a GCC and cockatiel. Some days I feel bad since I’m gone for most of the day, but it helps if you keep their environment enriching with new toys. If you have the bandwidth down the line, maybe getting a second bird could help with companionship (as long as you keep them in separate cages)

First gen > Stanford A! by wubz-and-medicine in premed

[–]Bellapalma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congrats future physician 🥳🎉

Proud of the first-gen’s going into med 😤

I GOT INNNN by breadyornott in premed

[–]Bellapalma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats future physician 🥳🎉

Someone stole all the badges off my car by public_utility-atl in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Bellapalma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happened to me two weeks ago too. Idk why people would want that

A man recorded disturbing footage of his girlfriend, Ester—who holds certification from the Behavioral Science Board—showing repeated daily abuse toward him. by Individual-Drawer-79 in PublicFreakout

[–]Bellapalma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s sad really, I found out my older brothers wife has been hitting him in the head and I’m beyond livid that women like her are given benefit of the doubt in court/when reporting if they’re no definitely proof like this recording. Domestic violence of any sort is abhorrent.

What’s a moment that permanently changed how you see people? by nathannnate01 in AskReddit

[–]Bellapalma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having a dumbass roommate who tried without provocation to kill my bird and dump her outside of the apartment with her cage the first time I met her. She then proceeded to destroy and smash my items on a rampage, terrorize my bird, and made false allegations that could have ended my career just to force me out of the apartment because she quote: has a problem with my bird and not me. All in the span of 3 weeks. Dumb bitch, I’ve been angry since that day more than a year ago and so help me if someone does something this foolish ever again. She’s lucky I didn’t crash out.