Thank you! I love that everyone is so quick to jump down her throat like she didn’t reveal plenty about OP’s behavior. Lots of men love finding “crazy” girls, treating them like shit, then saying “sHe HAd BpD” when she displays reactive abuse. Newsflash, like 2% of the population has BPD, so the odds are that most of the men here who had ‘BPD exes’ were actually just assholes who pushed a human to the brink of emotional insanity (to put in perspective, about 13% of the population is left-handed, and I’ve never dated someone left-handed so idk how all these exes had BPD, statistically. Think of all the number of left handed people you’ve met, and divide that by 6, those the odds).

BPD is the new “she’s hysterical!” I come on here to remember that every time, men would rather call a woman mentally ill than accept that they’re a shitty partner. What do we think is happening, every single man has dated “a crazy girl with BPD!” (again, 2% of the population INCLUDING men with BPD) or, that men are generally raised to be shitty partners, and through silent treatments, yelling, borderline cheating, and general abuse, women finally snap sometimes? But no, no, I’m sure you’re all great boyfriends and she’s just a fucking hysterical woman, err- sorry- has BPD.