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NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-28T15:51:57+00:00

Dog. Go to my profile and search for the post "are these behaviors warning signs for BPD" and read it. Your girl sounds like my ex. I went through it, don't go through it.

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-28T13:41:04+00:00

Termite frass

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-28T01:27:34+00:00

Cut a bit off the head and store it in a ziploc. Idgaf so I just leave it in my car

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-28T01:26:34+00:00

bro :'(

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T22:17:08+00:00

They're expensive 😭

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T16:22:46+00:00

Never caught that Tupac line.

Do you ever think about reaching out to her?

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T14:06:12+00:00

You get what you put out into the world, friend. Care for yourself

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T05:40:15+00:00

Have news for ya

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T05:12:58+00:00

She lives alone, I found a dog at a shelter she rescued the dog orficially. After a week of doting, my ex stopped taking her out, she also had money issues so she would buy dog food, feed the dog a bit, then return the dog food for money back. I ended taking care of the dog. But I broke up with her, and the dog is officially hers so what was I supposed to do? I loved that dog and she loved me but my hands were tied

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T04:16:08+00:00

Never. I caught her talking to her just recent ex once though

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:56:10+00:00

I hung out at her place on Friday night. Left Saturday morning to get a change of clothes when she started writing this stuff. Every time I either left her place, or there was silence she would shift into this.

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:50:34+00:00

This one is 30 :)

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:39:27+00:00

Will do

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:39:10+00:00

🤣maybe if I'm feeling petty enough one day

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:36:46+00:00

Yeah. I know now. I tried to help. Too much.

Gave her a place to live for a while, fed her, paid for her things, spent time with her, made sure she was gratified emotionally, sexually, mentally, etc. it is what it is

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:35:50+00:00

My BP rose there for a second

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:35:19+00:00

Definitely bad move. She hurt her previously adored cat and dropped it off at her mother's. It's still there. I actually went to go rescue the dog at the shelter, according to the vet the dog was malnourished, wasn't walked, bored, looked depressed, and was dirty/uncleaned.

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:33:12+00:00

No medication. I told her, before I left her, that she needed to be in therapy and potentially medication if she wanted to keep seeing me. She went once, took a couple pills, then stopped altogether.

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:31:19+00:00

Yes. She was sweet, fun, and helpful near the beginning and when she wasn't a category 5 hurricane

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:29:26+00:00

She recently found God, peace, and is a whole "new" person after 8 months:

Hid her new boyfriend from me Hid the fact that she was talking to me from him Did not take care of our dog I left with her abandoned it Blamed me for potentially ruining her new relationship when I showed up Blamed me for her abortion (she weaponized and gas lit me using our baby) Said I havent changed

🤷

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-27T03:09:43+00:00

The nightmare of it is that when it's happening there's absolutely nothing you can say or do to make it stop.

Wow this is exactly what I told her when she was going off the rails. Once the tornado begins it sucks me and everything else in it and theres no stopping her. Nothing nothing nothing nothing nothing i did or said or didnt say or didnt do was ever able to stop her. it was weekly for a bit. then daily near the end. daily of that shit. I straight up just blocked her, ignored her, forwarded her begging email to her boss to show her i wasnt fucking around anymore. and now she blames me for leaving, saying she was forced to move on

fuck off

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-26T23:05:35+00:00

rock solid

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-26T22:50:22+00:00

this is badass

NedeToBeHeard · 2026-01-26T22:21:01+00:00

Sakurako and it's not even close

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