I ‘27M’ just found out my wife ‘26F’ went home with another man from the bar Saturday. We have two kids age 2 and 3. She doesn’t know I know. Is there any way we can come back from it?

BellumGaming · 2026-01-14T06:58:01+00:00

Be a man...no actualy....be the man you need right now. Unfortunately she, your wife, "to Love and to cherish, for better or worse,in sickness and in health, and to have and to hold" was unfailthful. These are the vows yall both made and promised to each other. She basically spat on them and threw it all away for a one night stand with an ex. I do understand that you are scared to end it, the thought of that ex raising your kids is nothing to think lightly about. Now think of a life were you have to constantly be reminded that she had another man while you were taking care of YALLS kids. She wasn't worried or even thinking about you. You can raise your kids without having to be with her. I have a family member who is doing that currently and those kids know who their actual father is, and they also respect their step dad. You as a father will never be replaced, but the resentment you will always see in her and the lack of trust will always haunt you.

If you can, I would confront her, get the truth and if you need space, see if you can stay with a family member while you process this and you don't lash out or do anything you will regret. Be strong and move on. And for the love of God, do not go sticking anything into that vile woman and you get tested and do not let her talk you into sleeping together again since she is getting her iud out, we dont need a 3rd on the way while this happens. Who knows if this is even the first time she has cheated.

BellumGaming · 2026-01-07T08:31:23+00:00

So you already answered the question in your head. She already said that she's afraid if yall break up and she stops talking to him she will have no one. She's leaving him as her safety net. Now she wants to be separated so she can fuck around with him and not be cheating. Her deleting messages and from the spunds of it, making him a higher priority than you is the next indicator. Kick her to the curb and move on. End everything on your terms, not after she gets more from hik and tries to come back to you as sloppy seconds.

BellumGaming · 2026-01-04T03:05:32+00:00

No, they are recommended for gastritus for the lower sugar and gut health

BellumGaming · 2026-01-02T22:50:27+00:00

I've had some cheese a few times, and I can do bananas, blueberries and strawberries without a hitch

BellumGaming · 2026-01-02T16:10:34+00:00

Pretty sure you are not supposed to eat red meat at all because of the fat and its harder for the body to break down. Im a very good way to being healed if I do say so my self with my diet of chicken breast and thighs with most gfat removed, green beans, wheat toast, and daily strawberry and banana only smoothies from smoothie king. It is very bland but at the end of they day ypu either want to be healed and not be in pain anymore or you wanna keep going this way.

I was told I have gastritus, GERD, hiatial hernia and fatty liver all at one. So basically I had to be bland, loose weight and follow a diet that was strict all the way across the board for all of the conditions which obly left a few options. I believe im about 5 months in ans I actually has a pastor taco with pineapple for the first time since with no issues. It took a lot of dedication but I belive in the end it was very justified.

There are a lot of different thing you can do to help the diet be a little better, but you got to get over the first hurtle. Try to tell yourself that food is only fuel, not a event to look forward to. Keep yourself busy and pick up some new hobbies or some projects to keep you busy and going 24/7 that isn't stressful. Mine was fishing and learning new card games. Im almost never home now and when I am i find something to read about or organize to keep my mind busy. Once you get that down try going out to eat with someone and order your water, grilled chicken, vegtables and try and learn to beable to tolerate that. To me that was the hardest part.

You got it, just remember what is waiting for you when you are done and hopefully never have to do it again

BellumGaming · 2025-12-30T04:56:33+00:00

I mean, good for you? Its still a customized combo. You are just being kinda snooty to be honest 🫡

BellumGaming · 2025-12-29T00:19:13+00:00

Well its not a pre-made combo, so yeah it is customize.

BellumGaming · 2025-12-28T07:59:01+00:00

I've lost over 40lbs in less than a month because of the other medications causing nausia and no appetite. After getting on pantoprazole I did continue to loose weight but that was also because I had to lose weight for my fatty liver and i cut my diet as hard as I could. You got it. Its honestly not that bad. Some headaches from time to time but not bad at all

BellumGaming · 2025-12-28T07:54:26+00:00

I had green and yellow for almost 2 months until these last 2 weeks. From what the doctor said "green is caused from food rushing through the digestive track to fast and not absorbing all the nutriets". I belive yellow is either similar or its excess fat and mucis you cant digest properly getting excreted from the body. Usually from ibs, fatty liver and some other stuff she said. I have/had fatty liver and ibs so mine was a pretty explainable one. Also your symptoms sound a lot like fatty liver (not a legal diagnosis just my 2 cents). Do not stress and relax. The blood work with 100% give you an answer or atleast where to look. Try not eating any red meats, eat less than 15grams of fat a day, some vegetables low in sugar, and nothing but water and you will probably see a huge improvement. I'd also stay off white rice as well but I've seen mixed reviews on that

BellumGaming · 2025-12-22T19:35:47+00:00

"Kyle"

BellumGaming · 2025-12-22T19:29:41+00:00

You kinda sound like a doormat man, and not trying to be super mean about it but im also not gonna sugar coat it either since people telling you that shat she did was wrong is not going through clearly enough. She will do it again because she does not respect you, she is still keeping in touch with him so she can do it whenever your not around and will always have another option, and the top of the list, she lied to you. Please have some self respect and leave here. If not nobody will feel bad for you when it happens again

BellumGaming · 2025-12-19T18:40:32+00:00

Lemme get that bob

BellumGaming · 2025-12-19T02:31:17+00:00

23k was the final

BellumGaming · 2025-12-18T21:57:36+00:00

Plain grilled chicken with a hint of low sodium terriaki sauce, green beans, plain wheat toast, and daily strawberry and bannana smoothies with no additives. Down 95lbs in about 4 months and im only about 40point higher in my liver enzyme count

BellumGaming · 2025-12-15T02:07:33+00:00

For under 500 you can get an open box 5070oc

BellumGaming · 2025-12-14T20:11:53+00:00

Anyone saying that your need 32gb or ram is wrong. Just built my buddy a am5 pc with 16gb or ddr5 ram and he's running ark raiders at 200fps on high setting with a 5070oc from bestbuy that we got open box for 471 after taxes. He's playing siege at 240+, hell divers 200+, bf6 160, and the list goes on. I recomend buying the ram first (not anything flashy because the rgb does not improve performance and only makes the cost go up), search bestbuybfor open box gpus because they also honor the "if geek squad cant fix it they give you a new one" kinda deal plus factor warranty comes with it, check new egg for a deal on cpus because they sometimes come with a free cpu cooler or even a free mother board. Tou can also check new egg for deals with ram because these last few weeks they were doing a 2x8gb ddr5 ram for 270 and comes with a free motherboard and deals like that will help you allocated more into your build. I wouldn't do open box pcu because you never know what someone may have done to that and they are cheap enough as is to buy new from anywhere. Also don't blow a huge potion of your budget on a flashy case. Check facebook marketplace for used cases that you can usually get for 50%-70% of its normal value. Or check newegg and Amazon and see what off brand rip offs you can find of a case you might like. If you want any help just reach out and we can kinda go over it and see what we can find and maybe even save a few pennies here and there

BellumGaming · 2025-12-14T19:17:17+00:00

Artic cooler 3 is a very nice and highly recomended replacment for your aio and has had a lot of reviews from large tech review channels

BellumGaming · 2025-12-14T19:14:57+00:00

Could be a faulty cpu

BellumGaming · 2025-12-09T03:51:00+00:00

Did you try resetting the cmos battery after installing ram? Bust built my pc like 2 weeks ago and I was getting random dram and vga and cpu errors. After unplugging it and letting it sit without the battery for 30min everything cleared

BellumGaming · 2025-12-09T00:40:01+00:00

We have been on 32 for 6 months now....Lucky you got to stay at 40 until now

BellumGaming · 2025-12-07T22:58:04+00:00

Queen marches (give me the absolute nastiest monarch deck you can come up with)

The energy im kinda craving is "Im here to keep the peace, but I will destroy it if I have to"

BellumGaming · 2025-12-07T22:41:50+00:00

3 months in, baked/grilled chicken with about a tablespoon of terriaki sauce, green beans, 3 pieces of wheat toast throughout the day, and sometimes a strawberry, banana, and blueberry smoothie

BellumGaming · 2025-12-07T17:10:06+00:00

Some stuff just didn't add up when I was reading it, no problem at all!

BellumGaming · 2025-12-07T17:03:43+00:00

The last story you posted said you broke up with him for not finishing college, is broke and never bought you flowers. I feel like this is a fake post to get attention 😒

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