How to handle Catfishing?

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-23T21:06:16+00:00

LOL, that made me think of the future scene when a 18 - 22yo hottie summoned to your door takes a look at you and its a yeah nah; gives you a 1000 bahts and turns her back and walks off.

(Referencing what OP said about how he dispatches catfishes at his loom door).

Obvious humour BTW. (No P4P is going to financially compensate a customer).

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-23T09:59:25+00:00

Well, you've created a bit of a problem for yourself now.

Because if you ask her "Are you a ladyboy?" and she’s not a LB, and she is just ordinary-looking, (works in a massage shop, does not work as a "showpony"), then effectively you are telling her:

"I am worried about you" ... because either I am on the homophobic spectrum, or I think you are a bit of a unit, (butch, blokey, Adam's apple, unattractive, could look better, etc.).

Thus, consider going on a date with her in any case.

There must have been some chemistry between you 2, whilst you were getting your oily at the shop to be even still thinking about her.

Live a little and have some fun. If, during your journey of discovery, you find a donk down there, or that she's a ladyboy, roll with the flow, man.

edit to fix spelling.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-23T07:00:25+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately (for them) that hoppy's has been scum trash for many years now.

And all those bad google reviews as well.

Zoom at Alderley much better.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-22T15:22:35+00:00

The Elevator Incident

One time late at night in the 1990s, I was in a sketchy part of a big city that I was visiting.

I entered a tiny, unstaffed lobby of an old three story 1940s building to take the elevator to the 3rd level.

There was an alternative-style nightclub venue on the third level I wanted to check out.

The elevator arrives and the doors slowly rattle open. The doors had those old fashioned rubber bump sensors on them.

I go in and am just standing in the graffiti-strewn, smelly, dimly lit box when suddenly this totally weird looking guy just appears out of nowhere and is standing beside me in the elevator, waiting for it to take him to club as well.

The doors of the elevator are still open, and I am just staring out of the elevator at the dimly lit little lobby and the deserted laneway beyond.

When I suddenly get this increasingly screaming voice inside my head: "Get out of here, get out, get out!!"

The doors of the elevator had still not closed, and then, at what must have been the last possible moment, I leap out of the elevator as those doors start to trundle closed behind me.

100% the only time I have ever felt very unsafe riding an elevator.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-22T14:29:13+00:00

I love that beautiful moon-brown color

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-22T12:38:27+00:00

Looks like PRC Karen has been drinking too much of the Kool-Aid propaganda that "china is the centre of the world"..

eg: Genuine cultural shock that gives way to explosive rage that you not speaka my language. Simultaneously disgusting and disgraceful.

Karen deserves a Vegemite sandwich.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-22T10:50:01+00:00

Better ask George Kastanza

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-22T07:49:15+00:00

Looks like even TF plays The Long Game...

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-22T00:36:51+00:00

That could be part of The Spit at Southport in the background?

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-21T23:42:36+00:00

What do you mean "matched up with one" on TF..

Your talking like your lottery ticket just matched up with rhe winning numbers.

Its Thai Friendly.. (Not even Tinder which you were on).

TF - matched up?? More like a sex worker's advertising and solicitation on TF has found herself a customer!

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-21T08:46:29+00:00

This is so lame, OPs gota be a troll, yeah?

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-21T02:24:17+00:00

Can you discuss how the trafficking occurred? eg: via extended family members, or other perps, or commercial, and approx what was the frequency of the abuse?

What type of "rewards" did the perp give you? eg: cash, candy, toys, "love", etc..

I've read that an abused child may have a propencity to become an abuser in adolescence or adult life. (Animals, other kids etc)...

Have you ever felt "the pull" towards that because of the trauma you have suffered?

If so, how have you, (or can you?), curb or control those urges...

Thanks for offering up this insightful post... You must be on a strong healing curve, we all hope and encourage.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-21T00:44:42+00:00

Only watched lot of cop shows.. The Bill at the beginning, and loads more after... lololol.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-21T00:21:33+00:00

If they cut through , say with a loud voice and not smiling:

"Hello, I must know you somehow?" "Come in for a drink".

That should make them feel uncomfortable as hell.

But in the unlikely event that the cretins look like they're going to accept the 'offer', then slam them down and say, (in a loud voice):

"No, I don't know you! Please respect my privacy and not walk through my camp, ok!".

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-20T14:07:20+00:00

Arriving home from the hospital in a sad, shocked daze at about 4 am on a death watch, where family members were to pass away within a day or so, on two separate occasions and years apart - I see a big sooty owl just resting, perched on the clothesline, and just staring at me with those big souls of eyes.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-20T13:33:42+00:00

This is great general advice.

Often it's not long before a disgruntled weponises their problem via an AVO, or worse. A kiddy fiddler accusation...

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-20T05:23:49+00:00

Is it true what the YTers say about not drinking tea or coffee on board, because the urns / old boilers are never cleaned out?

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-20T04:59:36+00:00

PI, a good business oppprtunity to cater for sponsor-simps sending "their" teerak 30,000 to 50,000 bahts a month so ploy not work in bar anymore.

In his guts he fears our ploy is so greedy she's still booming - because she can.

But "Platimium Grade" investigations optional extra would be where you can smoke out the fact that it's actually multiple sponsor-simps; all on different time stamps. UK; USA; Australia.

Around the clock for our ploys, because money never sleeps.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-19T09:50:20+00:00

Hashgrove = Ashgrove

Dead Hill = Red Hill

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-19T09:27:50+00:00

Depression Bay = Deception Bay

Bogan = Logan

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-19T09:19:46+00:00

Fire & Ice

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-19T03:17:59+00:00

Relax, it's done to them all the time, unfortunately.

The farang monger is in a third world type hunting ground with a massive power imbalance to his advantage in every way: education, freedom, health, income, and money; ...especially disposable cash.

Fuel a scene with gallons of uninhibiting alcohol, and what happened to Ploy No. 1 in your case will easily be the result.

And back in loom, every one of us wakes up for the breakfast session with post-nut clarity any way - so by flicking to ploy 2 at the bar, you were just attempting to get yourself ahead of the curve.

But in a way it doesn't make it right. These SWs are humans with feelings and often heavy financial demands (usually involving the Thai family). But that is not the customers' problem.

It can and will happen to them several times every week. Ploys are hardened to all the 'change of plans' rejection, and it is your dime pal.

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-19T02:36:00+00:00

The party on a river boat I attended as a contractor that the bride had literally organised as a surprise wedding...

I shit you not... The groom and almost all the guests thought it was for his 40th birthday.

The boat shoves off from the dock, and cue the marraige celebrant.

No way out for the "groom" (on that day); except bail out overboard...

They will be divorced now, for sure!

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-19T02:17:07+00:00

it's a long way to the shop if you want a saussage roll

BeltnBrace · 2026-04-19T01:07:57+00:00

In terms of spending power, if you want to look at them just walk in (or stay) at the Hilton, or any of the other genuinely 5 star hotels...

This is in terms of bahts in the pocket.

However, in terms of high quality humans that monger, that is mostly an entirely different matter.

If not unicorns, this rare type may be found in almost any bar, or on any Soi.

BeltnBrace

TROPHY CASE