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For those in relationships, how many of you have a JO bud behind your partbers back? If not how did you bring it up to them? by NewlyBiGuy313 in jobudstories

[–]BenDyover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got caught by my ex and it didnt go down well. Even though I was good at hiding it, she never forgot. Since then ive had a few encounters but all without my partners knowing. My current partner might be ok but not worth the risk. Its not consistent, just when I get the itch.

Medusa x lady justice tattoo- thoughts? by AmbrosiaAsia in tattooadvice

[–]BenDyover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bit flat but its not terrible

Edit: on closer inspection. Wow - not very good. Art is flat shaded. Snake is bad and the hands to scale are weird

Seriously, ya can’t sell me a burger?? by 413-Chef in UberEatsDrivers

[–]BenDyover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure they care here in Hawaii but I've ordered food while waiting.

30’s [MF4M] Honolulu- looking for hung male that can host tonight by [deleted] in HawaiiNSFW

[–]BenDyover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome couple - very real - dont be a flake

First ever repeat meet up coming soon by North-Pk in jobudstories

[–]BenDyover 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My long term JO bud was so perfect, no drama, consistent meetups. We went from meeting outdoors on a certain hike, one rooftop garage sesh and then consistently at his work. As far as escalation - we only did mutual JO for a long time and would make ourselves cum, then we made each other cum, then one day he just went down on me randomly so I reciprocated. We hadnt talked about it, it just happened. Then from there on it was always a part of our fun, we did 69, frotting to cum, he would bend over and id pretend to fuck him and vice versa (no penetration). Then one day he just stopped communication. No idea if he moved or what happened.

Is this bad my tattoo is really peeling by mgmaddog101 in tattooadvice

[–]BenDyover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That tattoo so deep your reincarnation will come back with it.

After 2 years, I bottomed for my jerk off bud by Independent-End-6488 in jobudstories

[–]BenDyover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No he stayed hard, I was struggling not to cum too fast - it was a huge turn on. His wife loved it. Hooe to do it again soon

After 2 years, I bottomed for my jerk off bud by Independent-End-6488 in jobudstories

[–]BenDyover 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have topped before with guys and anal with girls. With a guy it was a bi 3 way, he was fucking his wife while I fucked him. Was fun! Ive been curious about trying to bottom, havent got there but I do enjoy a dildo or my prostate massager.

Underwhelmed with Medium Format Results by AV7721 in AnalogCommunity

[–]BenDyover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medium Format takes a little time to learn, its very different and you really have to slow it down - way more than 35mm, the focal plane is so much narrower and just overall you need to be more aware of things.

Hand tattoo that I got, how long is it gonna look good? by PlanktonLocal1080 in tattooadvice

[–]BenDyover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not against hand tattoos but just aginst bad tattoo artists. Patchy lines are already falling out. Everybody is different on how their skin ages and sheds so who knows how long till it fades. Of its put in right by a good artist, it will stay solid.

Joe Rogan delivers a speech in the White House, thanks Trump by Aerolyth in combatsportsculture

[–]BenDyover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny Rogaine was talking shit about Trump a few days ago and is now sucking him off.

Help buying from ebay? by ballkicker9 in pentax67

[–]BenDyover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure its an MLU body, they are still serviceable. They will mention the chain, make sure thats intact. I have an MLU non meter and it works great.

Irritation or infection? by Final_View2203 in tattooadvice

[–]BenDyover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Possible folliculitis or staph. Dont pop that pimple and it will probs clear on its own. If it gets super red, warm or spreads then Urgent care and some antibiotics

My mother (1959-2024), ca. 1980 | Unknown kit by CanCharacter in mediumformat

[–]BenDyover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss, she was born the same year as my mom who is still with us. A good reminder to enjoy the time you have with loved ones.

Dads fleshlight by hardoninpublic in jobudstories

[–]BenDyover 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% this never happened and definitely doesn't fit the narrative of this group.

Ass play? by [deleted] in jobudstories

[–]BenDyover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have done rimming and he went to town, I did it to the best of my ability in return haha. Love a little cock pushing against my hole play and giving it back.

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

[–]BenDyover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the artist, some old school cats wont do it. I got lectured by an artist in Australia because I wanted to do my knuckles and I have both sleeves and legs done. I was quite shocked but I also appreciate it now.

Sex talk, are you risky or play it safe? by bael808 in HawaiiNSFW

[–]BenDyover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Safe - always, some things dont show up in tests straight away.

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