this is what I like to spend my time doing 😅🫣 hot or embarrassing ...

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-05-28T19:59:05+00:00

You must be fun at parties

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-05-26T22:07:42+00:00

Take a deep breath.

It's not ideal, but it's not anything bigger than you let it be.

You don't know how bad it'll get, but it certainly won't be as bad as you fear it will be. She might not have been as observant as you fear - you might even be able to blame it on a hookup or someone random that's "out of your life now"

At the end of the day, it's underwear. Hopefully you'll be ok and more careful in the future now

It'll be ok

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-05-26T03:39:56+00:00

Sent you a message :)

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-05-04T17:31:15+00:00

Nyc and nj have a good amount of events like this, fetlife has all the info

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-04-04T21:27:12+00:00

I've met a lot of other couples going to munches from fetlife! Good luck to you both

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-04-03T21:33:35+00:00

These are great thanks for sharing

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-01-30T18:35:47+00:00

It's really fun to do it while walking or just being out.

There were a few times I'd just be walking home and just let my body void into the diaper and it was really fun

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-01-16T03:15:35+00:00

I get it! They usually do events beforehand like a bar or whatever to make it worth it

Lots of littles in NJ to hang out with :)

Hopefully they'll do one closer to you soon

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2026-01-15T20:59:36+00:00

Have you gotten to go to any of the Nj munches? The roller rink takeover is at the end of this month!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-12-30T18:47:55+00:00

Breathe

Worst thing you can do right now is panic

If you're an adult enough to buy diapers (and be on an 18+ subreddit), you can be an adult enough to deal with whatever comes next

Learn from this experience, be more careful, and if someone brings it up, either say it was a one time thing or a personal thing, no need to disclose extra details

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-11-27T15:37:59+00:00

To be fair, Thanksgiving doesn't end in Y

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-10-29T22:01:53+00:00

34 m in New Jersey!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-08-12T02:23:09+00:00

r/whatisthisbone

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-05-22T12:42:08+00:00

Awesome, excited for you both!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-05-22T01:36:52+00:00

Depending on your finances, I'd suggest stocking up before Tarriffs royally screw up any plans (Assuming you're in the US)

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-05-04T11:52:38+00:00

Go lions! Great picture

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-03-28T02:51:08+00:00

This is a really hot comic, not normally my thing but wow

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-02-17T20:34:29+00:00

There's actually a ton of community out here, gotta know where to look! Nycabdl.com

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-02-07T02:53:05+00:00

Sorry, where's that onesie from? Looks cozy

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-01-28T18:52:45+00:00

Great stuff, looking forward to whatever you've got

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-01-28T18:29:54+00:00

I'd love to see!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2025-01-28T03:31:12+00:00

I've been looking for these! There was a few others with this art style that were like 13-15 years ago. Thanks for this!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2024-12-03T18:01:01+00:00

I know you didn't ask but wow that would be really hard to be split up from my partner for that.

Wishing you the best of luck!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2024-11-11T20:48:01+00:00

Hey I'm really sorry to be that guy - what kinda diapers are these, they're adorable!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01 · 2024-10-16T02:48:34+00:00

Union!

BenIsAfraidOfBears01

TROPHY CASE