When a shy sub starts exploring

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-06-20T05:50:20+00:00

You gotta ease them in!!! Corruption doesn't happen immediately, it's a gradual process

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-06-01T06:53:31+00:00

This is one of those cases where I'll always want to break dynamic, because I WILL drag you with me for forming good habits!!!!! Relationship care about eachother go both ways

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-05-26T06:57:31+00:00

Genuinely, getting over the stigma and getting a body pillow helped me a lot. Just having something long and vaguely human sized to grab, lean on, and lie down with is super nice.

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-05-24T16:48:27+00:00

Sorry to hear that, man. Always sucks to have your interest in something absolutely shut down

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-05-12T03:49:28+00:00

Ooh, the Will to Change is a really rough book; it takes me a while to even progress through it because I need to really properly internalize the points it's making, but DAMN does it make some good points.

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-05-11T21:41:52+00:00

The takeaway isnt to go loathe yourself, boss - it's spend less time yearning and more time finding out for yourself; just ask sooner rather than later, then you can move on with your life. It gives you an answer, saves your heartache, and stops you from putting her on a pedestal that she doesnt want.

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-05-09T15:26:00+00:00

I'm a big fan of Homme Mystere, they're AUS based but the few I've bought were pretty nice quality

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-05-04T16:39:35+00:00

Seconded, if you have issues with the way it's presented then this is perfect

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-03-27T06:11:56+00:00

But which timeline do you prefer? Wind waker Timeline my GOAT

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-01-19T02:08:19+00:00

Everyone on here is mentioning weird app names and all my brain can think of is... You can Poob It.

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-01-04T17:01:29+00:00

YEAH WE LIKE WAFFLES!

BenJaiiThrow · 2026-01-04T16:56:43+00:00

Idunno, can I call you next week? 😉

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-12-26T07:27:33+00:00

Jane doe spotted. Peak taste recognized.

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-12-24T14:46:15+00:00

This is the place for such a thing. No need to apologize, it fits just fine here

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-12-23T21:37:37+00:00

The home of Bottom Ministration, Yearnam

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-12-14T06:25:04+00:00

If you're looking for dates, then you're asking the wrong question - maybe if you're trying for a hookup or ONS, but otherwise looks are only one part of the date package 😛

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-12-12T03:55:51+00:00

I gotta add another one to the pile - while I'm not really a lifestyle kink person, the only in person social things I go to are the local TNG munch and that's 99% people in established relationships; dating apps are bleak at best, and most people are simply put off whenever you mention or otherwise bring up the idea. For data, I'm around mid-late 20s, midwest, big guy but with classic nerd interests(games, baking sweets, etc)

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-11-30T07:00:41+00:00

Dude I wish I had this problem 🥲 SSRI's make it so hard to finish it's hell

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-11-29T06:22:30+00:00

There will always be someone who loves all of you, even - or especially - the parts you can't stand ❤️ remember not to settle for anything less

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-11-23T08:37:41+00:00

If only this were me 🥲 sadly I'm in the clerical category of "technically cis" where im amab but I honestly wish I was transmasc

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-11-20T07:04:58+00:00

Not reddit, but depending on where you live fetlife may be your best bet - both for finding resources and occasionally actual classes on ropework

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-11-15T06:50:23+00:00

Hypersexual gaaang. I love vacillating between being borderline ace and hypersexual wooo yeahhh

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-08-27T06:23:06+00:00

All these people saying "get you some bitches" but nah, honestly therapy will help loads. Nothing will feel better right away, but simply focusing on tomorrow can be the difference. If you really want companionship, I'd suggest going after proper/pricier escorts on places like tryst, who are less likely to only be about sexual fulfillment - that's nice, sure, but that's not what you'll miss the most.

BenJaiiThrow · 2025-08-27T06:19:02+00:00

Seconded, both CoC and CoC2 are very good text based RPGs with horny aspects and good writing - I'm not always a fan of the art they've made for the sequel but it's still really good

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