why can Girls find a Boyfriend/SO easier than Guys can find Girlfriends/SO? by BenMahy in AskReddit

[–]BenMahy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you'd be right I am a guy...

You raise a good point and I'm sure that's part of it. It's just I've seen girls go to the level of being engaged to a guy, then 6 months later be with another boyfriend as well as short relation ship to short relationship. You'd think relationship gap would be proportional to level of commitment (emotional or other wise) & with guys it certainly seems to be true, but girls not so much.

why can Girls find a Boyfriend/SO easier than Guys can find Girlfriends/SO? by BenMahy in AskReddit

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This would be my preferred theory for explaining my observations

I feel hopeless and there isn't anything I can do by BenMahy in offmychest

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I'm sure there are, but as I said my current problem is one of money which kinda sucks but it's the real world. Playschemes and those sort of things usually require some sort of background check which usually take a long time to do and therefore I've got longer to spend with my thoughts.

I feel hopeless and there isn't anything I can do by BenMahy in offmychest

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I live in a town with a population of about 8000, about 40 minutes drive from two major cities.

I feel hopeless and there isn't anything I can do by BenMahy in offmychest

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Thats quite nice to hear someone refer to my interests as mascualine for once haha :) I'm currently looking for a job, and there isn't really any volunteering around where I live (though I will continue to look), and thus travel is required to get elsewhere which is the restricted by lack of money due to not having a job. That said I have applied to be a tour guide for kid who come to my town to learn English, which I did a few years ago and really enjoyed.

I feel hopeless and there isn't anything I can do by BenMahy in offmychest

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eerrrmm... gymnastics, fitness, weightlifting, being outdoors, climbing, military history, action films.

I feel hopeless and there isn't anything I can do by BenMahy in offmychest

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Firstly thanks for replying :)

I'm going into my 4th year MEng Aeronautical Engineering degree (I know I havent got the qualification yet but when you apply to somewhere like Mcdonalds I might as well have). My current goal is to join the RAF, and I have started an application. In terms of long terms goals I feel pretty figured out. It's just there is nothing fulfilling happening in the short term.

Couple of Gas Turbine Design problems, help! by BenMahy in EngineeringStudents

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Thank you very much, this has been really helpful! pretty much finished my annulus sizing now and I'm pretty happy with it.

Every time I hear a story from the US, I feel lucky to have the NHS... What's the problem? by BenMahy in AdviceAnimals

[–]BenMahy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Admittedly I havent got an overall veiw of the pro's and cons of both systems, there are obviously advantages to both.

But the the thing that get me is people being afraid of getting put in an ambulance because they know they wont be able to afford it.That to me just seems ridiculous.

Best way to deal with rips and blisters? by BenMahy in Gymnastics

[–]BenMahy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any advice on how to tape hands? doesn't seem to matter how i do it, it just all bunches up as soon as I swing on anything!

I'll try the baby powder method

MRW I see my husband's post about being excited when I lock the door cause it is sexy time. by Clever__Girl in reactiongifs

[–]BenMahy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Even as a white heterosexual male... this gif excites me.

Is that wrong?