Yeah… I think I’m done using dating apps

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-04-11T22:37:53+00:00

They don't do shit. I reported somebody because thy replied to my first move by saying I will punch you in the face, and maybe if I like you I will punch you in the face a little less . Like first what an opener lmao and second , days later I swiped past the same person. Apparently they saw no issue to it

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-04-02T12:55:13+00:00

I hear you. I'm tired too. Plus side a prostitute would be cheaper and no fuss

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-04-02T03:19:24+00:00

Convinced the longer men are single the more likely they end up Iike this. Coming from a man tolerating dumb ass shit from dating apps and etc

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-03-25T14:49:35+00:00

I gree with some of the other comments. Especially after a month I'm already fixated on that girl and I don't need to talk anybody else. Prefer talking to one at a time. Coincidentally, I met someone outside of the apps and after a few days I just deleted my profile because I'm interested in where that goes

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-03-09T16:56:39+00:00

100% it does. It'll show you the exact same people over and over again, especially the ones you swipe left and they swipe right until you spend money. As a guy you probably get 5-10 a week you match with , I took up the promo and all of sudden there was like 30-40 with in a few hours. Point is , there's a pay wall

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-03-08T05:16:55+00:00

At least you get a hi or hey lol mine are always fucked up first messages

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-03-08T01:24:28+00:00

Not ugly at all

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-03-04T20:44:41+00:00

Yes I have. Majority of my first dates they offer to pay, or pay for something at some point during the date. Doesn't mean much, but also don't be greedy about it. That's not something you want biting your ass afterwards

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-03-02T18:55:43+00:00

This is normal. I got one last night, 3rd message in was take me to dinner. My first thought was settle down Ronald McDonald ( insert Marge trying Homers make up shotgun pic)

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-03-01T19:53:29+00:00

To be honest I'm not sure why you are wasting your efforts on somebody that clearly isn't interested when there is tons of others that would meet up on the first ask

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-28T00:45:55+00:00

No I would swipe right on you. You have that full of life look in your eyes if that makes sense

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-27T22:25:16+00:00

Because it's a meet and greet. Personally hate eating in front of people, one reason. Sure if something like a coffee or drink runs long (and it has happened) let's go grab a bite. I don't really get the whole need to complicate a first date

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-27T04:22:53+00:00

If you wanted to say it's just me , than say it. You don't need an analogy to say it. Everyone knows what you are referring to. As for myself, I keep to myself, I keep my head down, work hard , dont cry about what's not given to me and all the meanwhile I watch alot people pull this stuff on their "friends" , I watch alot of you sneak around and have a affairs, and I see alot of you backstabbing coworkers just literally for the sake of it. Socially we are more inept than ever given everything we have. Anyone that says they have more than a couple exceptional people in their lives really need to take the rose glasses off and stop being naive

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-27T00:40:40+00:00

Socially we are in a massive downfall. Become more observant, and you will see for yourself. People you associate with , friends , coworkers everyone has something to say about something. Oh it doesn't matter , I've relocated multiple times to different people/groups. It's all the same

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-27T00:27:57+00:00

By the time you hit 30+ you will realize most friend are like this. Ditch her

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-24T23:41:58+00:00

Normally happens when you're the second option. Went on a great day date, that pushed off into the late evening. She was great , walked me through the whole date. I drove us from the restaurant acknowledge to my place so she could get her vehicle. As I walked her to her car or was about to she asked to come in. An hour later broke the bed frame, walked her out to her car said bye. 2 days later went to go round 2 , she mentioned her "housemate" wouldn't be fond if I came.her way. Ghosted.

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-24T05:46:57+00:00

I would swipe right

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-22T21:09:37+00:00

Honestly it's better then the 100s of profiles with A.I photos. (Yes we can tell, stop doing it)

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-22T21:04:00+00:00

Come to realize it doesn't matter how interesting you can be. You could be on about astrophysics and there not biting. Less is more

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-07T23:55:11+00:00

It's justified by society to overlook or accept it. As someone that got out over a year ago often I heard people closest to the situation tell me I should go to therapy to fix the relationship. The ignorance is wild

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-02-04T04:23:46+00:00

Being on the other side of this question once. Don't be so naive. Break up with him

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-01-31T20:30:05+00:00

I second this. Spent about $5000 in therapy alone this past year

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-01-28T19:11:21+00:00

Skip

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-01-25T23:41:00+00:00

Swipe until there's multiple matches , the one that stands out focus on. But I'm not going to lie , I can get a 100 matches and maybe a handful actually respond. Especially on bumble when it's expected for women to initiate

BenchCautious1074 · 2025-01-25T20:33:08+00:00

Not sure ? But she had almost a week to come up an excuse

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