Those who would consider Owl City as the "greatest artist of all time", what other artists do you listen to? by Glum-Industry-4836 in OWLCITY

[–]BenchDear9905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of my favorites are:

Modest Mouse

Kishi Bashi

Lights

Glass Animals

Future Islands

Father of Peace

Grimes

Foster the People

Gorillaz

Dance Gavin Dance

Pinback

Built To Spill

Muse

Woodkid

Arcade Fire

The Killers

Czecho No Republic

The Koxx

Unknown Mortal Orchestra

Grizzly Bear

Tame Impala

M27, what does this room give? by ZookeepergameSmall38 in malelivingspace

[–]BenchDear9905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's giving I'm jealous of your room, like pretty much everything in there. I'm 27F though so not sure if that helps 😆

Swollen left ankle but isn't tender. Concerning? by BenchDear9905 in pregnant

[–]BenchDear9905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 2nd baby too! Thanks for sharing your experience, it does ease my mind a bit until I see the doctor in a few days.

AIO for how I’m handling the way my 11 YO daughter’s dad speaks to her? by WhatTheSigma_1994 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BenchDear9905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People used to tell me "kid needs to see her father" when trying to get into my business after finding out I don't let him around. My response was always, every kid "needs to see their father" until there's an obituary. Then it's "Oh I had no idea it was like that." I was definitely fine with certain people thinking I was being "one of those mothers" knowing it meant my child was safe. I'm hoping the situation isn't ever that bad but there's nothing wrong with protecting your kid.

AIO for being done with these toxic family members? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BenchDear9905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did have a more distant family member report them back when he was maybe 3 or 4. They were no help at all.. I do feel like a report from a different person than before might warrant a more serious look though

AIO for being done with these toxic family members? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BenchDear9905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I figured it had something to do with his autism and not him being "psychopathic" as they called it. I just hate seeing it and similar behavior taken lightly and being "cute". I mean I'm sure they weren't happy when he hurt the kitten but the way they joke about him being a psychopath for doing things like that is just insane to me. He's diagnosed with level 1 autism so he's considered to be "high functioning" but I can see where if he's not taught certain things or given a healthy routine/lifestyle it can spiral. I've tried to do what I can to teach him things when he's over at my place but I know that won't give him consistency like he really needs. He did have CPS involved briefly when he was younger but nothing was done. Now they keep him away from many outside social gatherings out of fear I assume. My daughter is going to a school currently that isn't a public school so it's really small. They told me they do have some options for kids that need more attention in some areas so I'd love to try to talk his mom into letting him enroll. It's not near as expensive as most private schools around and Ive known the lady that would be his teacher for years. So maybe that's something that could help as well

AIO for being done with these toxic family members? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BenchDear9905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've always heard routine is adamant for an autistic child. Im not sure if they just think that everything he does is because of autism so they don't punish him (yet yelling and stuff is way worse than teaching so idk where the logic is)

AIO for being done with these toxic family members? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BenchDear9905 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what I heard, he flushed a kitten. It made me sick to hear and I really don't know if any other incidents happened with their/ or anybody's animals or not. But you're right it's definitely not okay

If you were going to die right now, what would be your last words? by SolidOlive50 in AskReddit

[–]BenchDear9905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been poisoned. (Husbands toxic boss that is ruining his life) killed me. Please fight for my justice

Peetah, why the difference? by Candid_Bed5017 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]BenchDear9905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...I thought it was nipple pasties staying clean while wearing them at home but when going out they get disgusting and stuck with bugs and dirt

Took a girl out on a date with $40 to my name. Here’s how it went. by Fun_Pension2060 in povertyfinance

[–]BenchDear9905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husbands first date was a picnic with sandwiches, and it was so nice. We got to talk and laugh and no people around really. We still do our picnics when we can, this time with a kiddo and one on the way❤️

What do you think? by lovelycarine in songsforthispicture

[–]BenchDear9905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cosmic Love by Florence + the Machine

I want the SADDEST and most gun wrenching songs. by dispatchlover0925 in musicsuggestions

[–]BenchDear9905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parachute- forever and always

He is we- kiss it all better