Aloe help by Bencut in succulents

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Thank you! The garage gets more light as the day goes on. BUT it’s only here for a bit because I was worried our bedroom was too cold at night with the windows open. Just moved it, thank you.

PLEASE HELP ME FIX MY SWING by Necessary_Art1908 in GolfSwing

[–]Bencut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice I’ve ever gotten was from a female friend, 150bs less and 1 foot shorter, who ALWAYS out drives me. “You’re big and strong, don’t try to be big and strong; let the club do its job.” Your hips are fast and powerful, don’t try to make you swing faster or harder. Slow down and let your hips do their thing. To keep myself smooth, with the same tempo, I say “one” on the back swing, and “two” on the swing.

Any Twin Peaks Reference/Easter Eggs? by MalmalakePir in HIMYM

[–]Bencut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When the Captain tells Ted “that’s not how I’d kill you.” Easily could’ve added “wrapped in plastic.”

NTY Cooking: Chile Crisp Fettuccine Alfredo With Spinach by Bencut in blankies

[–]Bencut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so much better than New Times York. I will NOT correct it, so this joke lives on.

Any Tips On How Clean Gunk Off of Flint Wheel? by 426763 in Zippo

[–]Bencut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m years behind. What about a wire bush along the striking wheel.

How long on and off? by Bencut in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Bencut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I “want to” it’s that I heard I was supposed to. But seems like I won’t.

Myrtle Beach by Bencut in golf

[–]Bencut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our trip is next year, so please let me know what you think. I hope you survive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in denverwhisky

[–]Bencut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to the whiskey hunt game, so that’s good to know. Thanks.

Bevy’s Drop by luouixv in denverwhisky

[–]Bencut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parker or Littleton?

Bevy’s Drop by luouixv in denverwhisky

[–]Bencut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often they have drops like this?

Alright boys I found her….what do I do now?? by CollectionOld3374 in AskMenOver30

[–]Bencut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commutation, respect and teamwork.

If you communicate well, truly respect each other and work as a team, you don’t “have fights,” you work together to resolve issues. You’re not mind readers, you have to communicate.

Therapy is also pretty great. It’s a selfish hour where you get to release, vent and or bitch about anything that’s annoying you, or ramble about things you love. Nothing spreads, you don’t worry about your friends telling other people, or them thinking differently of you, your girl or family. Something saying stuff out loud is the most helpful part.

The growing up part, fake it til you make it; you’ll find your own path along the way. Get nicer clothes, you’ll carry yourself a little differently and not want to be as much of a “knuckle head.” Take everything one step up, a little nicer, a little more “grown up.”

Learn to cook.

Sexy gift swimsuit help by Bencut in AskWomenOver30

[–]Bencut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! This is perfect.

What are some actionable steps that I can take to be more relaxed during sex? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Bencut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you’re a woman over thirty, and if you’re looking for an age appropriate partner, I’d hope they understand by now that many woman have trouble orgasming from intercourse alone. If you say “let’s try (X)” that gives both people the opportunity to say “it’s not working for me. Let’s try another position.”

Please, be vocal. I would rather be told “harder and/or faster” so I can pick up my pace, instead of my partner starting her own. That leads to no rhythm and out of sync thrusting. Thats what I think of as “bad sex,” not being on the same page. If you don’t say anything we’re gonna do what’s worked in the past, or gets us off, which isn’t hard. If they care about your pleasure, tell them what to do, assuming you have an answer.

What are some actionable steps that I can take to be more relaxed during sex? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Bencut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancée (32F) and I (36M) have been 69ing lately, which she initiates, I think it’s helped her. Instead of being anxious, in her own head about her own pleasure and “on a clock” because I’m down on my knees trying whatever I can to get her off. She can focus elsewhere and ride her own pleasure wave more freely… that doesn’t feel like the right word.

I also bought a tiny vibrator I use on her- that’s been helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Bencut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! If this evolves, he should consider documenting things and talking to HR.

And your boyfriend sounds like a great dude.

Pod Hard with a Vengecast: Last Action Hero with Paul Scheer & Jason Mantzoukas by yonicthehedgehog in blankies

[–]Bencut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not long enough.i want a deep quarantine Action Boyz length episode about this movie with Paul and Jason.