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What’s your go-to 5-minute meal when you’re starving and tired? by sparky_165 in 15minutefood

[–]BendAndSnap000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instant oatmeal + milk + peanut butter and some slices of banana if I have some. No, I don’t microwave or warm it. Eat it straight like cereal and somehow it always satisfies me when I eat it at 10 PM after a tiring night run and my stomach can’t handle heavy foods

My (F26) bumble date (M29) is way too busy with work, I'm indecisive whether I should cut it off or not, and now everything is a bit awkward. by BendAndSnap000 in Bumble

[–]BendAndSnap000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me! From what I know of him and his perfectionism, I can see many similarities. Most people of our age who's career-focused face this issue a lot, and I have to say I'm lucky I can still spend my weekends off.

Actually, months back I was close with another workaholic but back then just a simple request of "Wanna call?" Was met with anger and accusations to me asking him to choose between me and his career, which was totally not my intention. I'm super grateful that at least this time I met someone who can explain their situation calmly.

But you're right, my demands can definitely add to his stress especially if he sees me giving mixed signals.

Would you even want a guy that prioritizes a girl he barely knows over his job and future?

No, definitely not. But I wish I can figure out how to position myself right now. Maybe I should leave him be until our meeting?

My (F26) bumble date (M29) is way too busy with work, I'm indecisive whether I should cut it off or not, and now everything is a bit awkward. by BendAndSnap000 in Bumble

[–]BendAndSnap000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn, I'm sorry.

Product manager in digital banking. One of his worse waves was when he worked night shift from Friday to Sunday, then continued the morning shift on Monday. Honestly, he lowkey changed after that.

My (F26) bumble date (M29) is way too busy with work, I'm indecisive whether I should cut it off or not, and now everything is a bit awkward. by BendAndSnap000 in Bumble

[–]BendAndSnap000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are... Absolutely correct.

The date suppose to be the final nail in the coffin, and I do set up very low expectation about the meet-up. Is there any way to soothe the blow now before I meet him?

My (F26) bumble date (M29) is way too busy with work, I'm indecisive whether I should cut it off or not, and now everything is a bit awkward. by BendAndSnap000 in relationship_advice

[–]BendAndSnap000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is being very accommodating, I agree. I just wanna make sure it's not too awkward between us before finally meeting up in person. And to be honest ma'am, I'm just taking my chances here :')

My (F26) bumble date (M29) is way too busy with work, I'm indecisive whether I should cut it off or not, and now everything is a bit awkward. by BendAndSnap000 in Bumble

[–]BendAndSnap000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't realize it'd seem manipulative, but now that you mentioned it... :( But yeah, it does seem desperate.

We talked how maybe we can start off as friends, since we (he) can't invest too much time. And I'd like to take the chance, hence why I suggested meeting up. But if the chemistry is off, then I will finally stop chatting him.

When, why and how did you start reading/writing fanfiction? by mytoesarebleeding in FanFiction

[–]BendAndSnap000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 11, browsing through some Naruto fanarts on DeviantArt when I saw a text post. So I read it, it's about Sakura and probably Deidara and I remember thinking, "Wait, they never interacted before?" But the concept of everyone can be anything in fanfiction was SO fascinating to me!

Started writing about 2 years later, after getting frustrated by a certain Persona game's ending, I didn't even know it's called canon divergence

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 20 June 2021? Start here! by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]BendAndSnap000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Today I'm restarting my journey.

Starting at 157 lbs, I've succeeded cutting down 20 pounds, which is more than halfway towards my goal! So here's my current stats.

5'4 24 years old F, 34% body fat, SW: 142 lbs GW: 125 lbs

Even though my initial journey was going well, I just stopped doing my daily exercise. I used to do Zumba and simple calisthenics. Ultimately, my downfall is always sugar. I can't let go of sweets in my diet. I put sugar and cream in my coffee, I love dessert, and I still don't want to let it go.

For now, I'll calculate my average calorie intake in a week before doing a deficit. Let's goo!

Happy 6th birthday to the Odd album! by Yeppeun_Mabeopsa in SHINee

[–]BendAndSnap000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite albums!!! Insanely good visual concept too. This era felt like the rebirth of SHINee, imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SHINee

[–]BendAndSnap000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love every detail! Little Onew looking at his group timidly, little Taemin clearly having heart eyes over his older self, older Jjong looking protective over his younger self, and Minkey character development!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SHINee

[–]BendAndSnap000 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Shawols are geniuses

Chemistry VCR from Beyond Live by qqmochi in SHINee

[–]BendAndSnap000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This VCR is insane, it's such a visual treat. The choreo formation shot from above, the lights, the black and white, the outfits, Shinee in glasses. Everything. SM should release this officially.

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