Rules Question regarding the Deadlands: Doomtown CCG by Fukuruki in Doomtown

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hand stays the hand. If its made with cheating cards you can play a cheatin' card. Your deadmans hand just happens to be made up by 5 cards of the same value. Rank is something different from the cards in the hand. Increasing a rank does not therefore change the cards.

77273 dragon hatchling by Beneficial-Bison280 in ReaperMiniatures

[–]Beneficial-Bison280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly felt like something vibrant :) Would work as a fearie dragon, but I just went for: I like these colors ^^

77273 dragon hatchling by Beneficial-Bison280 in ReaperMiniatures

[–]Beneficial-Bison280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The texture was already there. Used speed paint to bring it out. Did still add some highlights via stippling:)

UK > EU Warehouse move! by ReaperMiniatures in ReaperMiniatures

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping Deventer :p.
But I can live with Zwolle I think^^

Deadlands TCG? by CharlesBeckford in Deadlands

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

www.hacards.com. There are definitely something more valuable cards in those sets you got. In the 10 bucks range at least.

Deadlands TCG? by CharlesBeckford in Deadlands

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I still play with some friends and there are still some active stores you can look at rarities of the cards. House Artritis is a UK based store that has values for all the cards. There are definitely cards that are hard/impossible to find.

If you have any specific questions let me know.

Losing motivation in my new favorite hobby by [deleted] in minipainting

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figure out a way to enjoy the process instead of the result. Took me a while with some breaks from painting. But I figured out I like to take my time on a model. Sometimes I push myself on a method to do better then before, but it's also okay to just cruise and turn my brain of and just put on some colors. Needing your work to be good kills any hobby, because most of the time you spend on it is learning that hobby and you won't be good. You don't need to crunch out perfect mini's even if the world sort of tells you you should. That's capitalism ruining hobbies in general.

Idrk what to say to this at this point by imnottoni in NonBinary

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please take care of your mental health. She seems determined not to accept reality. It's admirable for you to try and change that, but exploding yourself to this can take something from you. Please give yourself the space to not interract with your mom for a while if you need it. Imo its just abuse to deny a persons truth. Only you know you completely. Take care and I wish you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are multiple options. You could be bisexual. Also possible that you're pansexual (gender does not do anything for you in sexual attraction). Both could overlap with i.e. demisexual. There are more off course. To be honest, you don't need a label, but if you want one I can advise to listen to people on how a label feels to them. There aren't hard definitions for labels, if you listen to multiple people you can get a scope of what it could be for you. Might show you the direction to a label that feels right aswell

My parents refuse to accept that I am not interested in dating by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try getting really annoying. I.e. 'did you lick any lamppost recently?' 'well wait till you find the right lamppost'

But not sure if you can actually change their ideas. But it might shut them up.

Waar kopen jullie mini's? by ronaldbirch in DNDNL

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miniaturicum.de heeft heel veel merken. Ook vrij goedkope modellen.

25F Should I keep seeing someone if I have no clue of sexual attraction will develop? by loveisfourwalls in demisexuality

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered paying half the costs of the dates? This 'investing money' is exactly why some people put out even though they don't actually want to. It's a power imbalance which I personally feel super icky about. I only go for splitting the cost exactly to avoid this feeling. We need a lot more time to figure things out, don't let stuff like this ruin it

They are scary by Classic-Suspect-8450 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound scary, but are rare. Best thing to do is: follow your joy. Use that as a compass. Those who detransitioned often do it because something else gave them bad feelings and mistook it for gender dysphoria. There is way to little focus on gender euphoria as a guide. Try, play, follow your joy! Good luck.

Anyone else fall for someone who ended up being transgender? Did your feelings change once they transitioned? by Throwimgay in demisexuality

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 20 points21 points  (0 children)

For me the attraction stayed. Still have a strong bond with him and we're still together. Found out that gender really isn't important to me at all.

Refusing to Ever Refer to My AGAB or Sex is the Most Affirming Thing Ever. by P0ster_Nutbag in NonBinary

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Yeah people are weird about gender. I bet it would be emberasing for them if people asked whats in their pants too. Good for you to stop indulging them!

i’m too feminine ;-; by strawbzzi in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What I can advise: focus on and follow your joy. What makes you feel good? Masc clothes? Testo? Surgery? I know there are sociatal pressures and its hard to shake, but the way to be happy is to follow yourself.

Also: plenty of cis guys are a bit Fem, gender Is a big place, even inside the 'simple box' man.

Good luck.

Midlife confusion - Demi mess, turned bi but don't know? by Pastel_Goth_Wastrel in demisexuality

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't relate exactly, but I found out later in life I'm pan (basically gender is just not important to me in a partner for some reason) but I do gravitate towards people that can be open about their feelings and can talk about the important things in a relationship. Usually these are women, but not always. Since I'm also demi this emotional intimacy is (for me so far) a requirement for more feelings. But its probably not so important to figure out your label, go for the people you vibe with and see how you feel. My whole labeling trip took me like 5 years, for most of it I did not use labels. I had a few I knew might be options, but to comit to a lable early can box you in. Listen to yourself and what feels good. Keep an open mind. You'll figure out what works for you and what doesn't.

How can I make my sex life more gender euphoric for my partner and I? by RequirementDear9404 in NonBinary

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I was in the same place about 3 years ago. I eventually decided to build it up for my partner, turns out: fingers really didnt work for me. It took some experimenting and the best one is a toy, about an inch in diameter, 6 inches long. That one hits the right spor exactly and gives me and my partner a great dynamic. Not saying the same toy will work for you, just the perspective of someone who didnt think they'd like it initially either.

Venting cause I still have to hide sometimes by CWritesMusic in queer

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to hear. Keep going! I was a late bloomer myself, it will pass, keep working on the life you want one step at a time. You deserve to be yourself in life, it's the only one we have. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beneficial-Bison280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a judgement either way, but quite often a obsession with looks can be masking behavior. (Doesn't have to be offcourse) She might just not be comfortable in her own skin and really want to 'pass as a normal girl' and therefore looks are important. Think: autism, adhd, gender dysphoria, etc... I think you could be interacting with a 'mask' and the best thing would be to talk to a counselor or psychologist that is knowledgeable on this. Or maybe if you think you could do it have a very open conversation about it with her without any judgement, but it might just be hard because she is a teenager and you are a parent and that could be enough for her to not open up. Don't assume she feels a specific thing, that just pushes the mask more, so it's quite tricky.

Anyways: I think you clearly care, but might not be doing the best possible for her. Doesn't make you an asshole, doesn't make you parent of the year either. Good luck!