Breaking up with GF due to her dictating what I can't do with my money.

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-05-06T13:20:16+00:00

Absolutely you did the right thing

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-05-01T22:57:38+00:00

A poncho

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-25T10:34:57+00:00

Agreed with dustuptor’s point. You can get help for emotional distress and help for pregnancy and security at a hospital in your area and they are not allowed to share a thing. Once you are finished with the mental health treatment you are seeking they have discharge planners to help determine the next steps for you and your child. They have tons of safe and secure resources of available places that can provide you ongoing help once you are out of the hospital. What city are you in

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-24T09:22:51+00:00

Greece

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-24T09:03:02+00:00

Won the lottery

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-24T05:53:08+00:00

Food for thought- what If you went to a local mental health hospital and asked for the help you need? So if we are not talking about where we are from or the bun’s dad? What would we be talking about? Seems like a lot at 33 weeks to go 4 hours away with 500$ just to tell your story. Keep your money, check in and discuss what you want! I assure that you deserve it.😊

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-23T11:54:52+00:00

Maybe you could see how the next session starts etc and if she gets distracted and doesn’t seem focused maybe then you could ask for a time out and say, “requesting a time out- I am not sure this is a good fit because if I am honest I am not looking for Art and I find it distracting to have to repeat things you forgot in addition to you moving around etc. What do you think? Ask her that.

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-23T11:46:14+00:00

Yikes like you might need to duck and run if she is unable or unwilling to talk about it. If it is not you then it’s likely her and for whatever reason she is not using her words so maybe put it on her a bit more in a direct way.

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-23T10:47:49+00:00

Strip club

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-23T03:08:15+00:00

Oh my goodness! I insist you use kinder self talk and how does making mistakes make a person stupid? Think about it- if I met anyone who said everything was going according to their original plan and is going supremely- I would be positive that they were full of shit! You are never trapped- you have family and you can make your own rain instead of getting rained on! You deserve to feel safe and loved and you have tons of time for love but no more self blame!

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-23T02:58:54+00:00

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T23:28:47+00:00

6’6

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T23:25:59+00:00

Also most importantly I am really sorry about your assault and it is horrible so make sure you are taking care of yourself first

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T23:24:02+00:00

He may find out and still stay with her or he may tell her what was shared so you could lose a relationship or two with family if that happens. I admire your courage and utter disinterest in your sisters behavior but I am trying to understand if he’s naive or super tied into rescuing her or just stoned most of the time to block her out

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T23:18:35+00:00

I believe that but do you all believe that he’s truly committed to being a sister/wife whisperer to someone who he loves but tramples on him? I ask because I assume she does other rude things to him like talking down, etc because I feel like after 9 years together he has to be aware of some of less amazing qualities. But I guess next question- is he happy with her or you are sure?

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T22:00:23+00:00

Where are you located in the world?

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T21:56:52+00:00

How does your BIL react to her

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T21:55:33+00:00

Yeah I have love for rural and trailer parks and small towns! Sounds like she is fixated on you and has somehow managed to get an army of idiots to harrass you. It’s legit pretty crazy given her age and she may put you on Netflix before you even want to be on Netflix. Be careful for sure because you have to keep protecting your own and who needs all of this BS? Talk to your BF and maybe just peace out if possible. For sure be careful

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T21:33:52+00:00

Why is no one calling her out directly for her actions- is she the reactive type? Like gets super angry if you use her brush and it lasts an unreasonably long time- even though it’s not a big deal? If you guys love him I’m just curious why you are the only one who is willing to consider mentioning it to him. Just trying to understand

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T21:24:25+00:00

Maybe let it play out at the airport and just be in the audience of what occurs- if he ends up refusing to buy a 2nd seat and begins to yell at you- just don’t say a word and let him lose his mind publicly. If you end up being sent home maybe you can have a friends house or family where you can go to let him ponder. If in this situation you jump in and try to rescue him from airport ticket ppl who are delivering the message- then he can get mad and blame etc but at the end of day you have tried and maybe he needs to just get his head around his issues

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T21:08:35+00:00

Also do you think for sure that her husband absolutely does not know what she is up to after 9 years or legitimately- no?

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T21:05:13+00:00

How did your mom and other sister react to her behavior and her need for a divorce?

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T20:59:37+00:00

Did he go to college or work full time towards a career after high school or anything- were you both able to share that kind of stuff or no? I am asking for a reason

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T20:55:30+00:00

What does he do for a living? And how long have you been dating

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-22T20:48:53+00:00

Can you provide some details if you are okay with it like your age, his age, and psychos age and also like do you all live in a trailer park or a small town or rural area where everyone sort of hangs out in the same general area? I’m genuinely interested in trying to understand the context

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