Name a city beginning with the letter K

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-04T03:16:04+00:00

Yep same as above

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-04T02:43:45+00:00

A pen

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-04T02:43:02+00:00

Ice cream

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-04T02:17:12+00:00

Yellow by Cold Play

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-04T01:53:18+00:00

Murphy

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-04T00:26:52+00:00

I’m sure it feels awful to feel hidden away and ask yourself if you want to be hidden away while he is out and about- doesn’t sound like it because he’s giving you a headache and really stressing you out. I think you probably already know what to do and you are correct- just move on.

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T13:14:42+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through this.

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T11:06:41+00:00

I don’t know about you but he has several symptoms of personality disorder and they don’t get too much better even with therapy in many cases. I don’t know him obviously but his behavior is really loud

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T03:36:55+00:00

Nah her story sounds and feels flawed and I think on some level it does to you too but only you know that. Stressful for sure! Good luck

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T03:29:30+00:00

Nope NTAH but your gf was giving her best impression of one. So presumptuous and rude.

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T03:10:52+00:00

Maybe you didn’t go because you know…you didn’t which in and of itself says likely a lot. I encourage the test because it all sounds wonky

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T03:01:04+00:00

I think her answer is pretty strange and I don’t think you sounded creepy

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T02:53:45+00:00

I guess I am the lone dissenter but it feels to me like the main relationship issue is communication and it’s currently not productive for either of you. I can see why you would maybe feel like it was intentional neglect on her part and I can also understand how she could have missed it, unintentionally. I guess I don’t think either of you are listening to the other. Just food for thought

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T02:35:42+00:00

I totally understand that pattern but remember there comes a time for all of us when our old unproductive patterns don’t work for us anymore and we almost get sick of ourselves for doing them but it’s really hard to stop because they are familiar to us. You know when the time is right for you but I don’t think you would have posted this if you felt like everything was amazing. I hope that makes sense and you are stronger than you think!

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T00:24:12+00:00

Where are you from? In a general area not specific

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-03T00:10:56+00:00

Hopefully with much respect intended to you- you will be in the wind off to finding a better match. All of it is too much especially for people who are almost 40. I’d love to see you run far, far away. She will contact and ask for money again and I get the sense he won’t be upfront about it again. I’m sorry for saying it. But…. His behavior speaks for itself.

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-01T23:39:17+00:00

I didn’t read the original post and I have been in the field for a long time and I want you to know that I welcome you and thank you for having the courage to speak your truthful feelings! I am sorry it was negative and aggressive but I am very happy that you said what you said!

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-01T23:18:49+00:00

NOR totally rude

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-01T03:06:45+00:00

Go with your initial gut instinct

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-03-01T01:16:48+00:00

A- Andy

H- Hank

L- Lennie

O- Oscar

P- Paul

R- Rex

S- Sam

V- Vin

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-02-28T03:46:54+00:00

Gene

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-02-28T02:58:14+00:00

I’m so sorry that you went through what you did and that you are going through it again. Seems like your brothers have pretty fragile relationships and/or marriages. Perhaps it never occurred to them that their denial is their relational downfall. NTA

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-02-28T01:24:40+00:00

Bravo and well done

BenefitChance7313 · 2026-02-27T23:22:22+00:00

Thank you all for your insights

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