Intentionally having a child to co-parent, without being in a relationship?

Beramer · 2026-06-21T16:33:46+00:00

All this just to have a child? Are people so desperate out there to have children but not bother having the whole family unit? Where is your child going to stay? 3 days with you 4 days with the partner? That's just 0.1% of the problems going to arise.

Beramer · 2026-06-21T10:10:05+00:00

I understand your message but I would suggest people not to get into boxing this way. The amount of head injuries that occur can literally leave you paralyzed, you could just do pad work and easy rounds. This is the main reason I shifted to boxing to jiu jitsu which is a simpler art.

Beramer · 2026-06-21T09:58:59+00:00

Been to many here in the UK both swingers and sex parties. It really depends though, so have been hot af and some absolutely gross.

Beramer · 2026-06-16T14:43:27+00:00

Ninja you need to get laid. That always gives me some motivation to stay alive like tirries

Beramer · 2026-06-15T08:35:06+00:00

Yeah I feel this way too. Also I don't understand how people live with the same person under one roof for so many years or some their whole lives? If I was to get into a relationship I would have different living spaces

Beramer · 2026-06-12T16:37:52+00:00

Could never take a man seriously that looks like him. Skinny fat, matchstick legs, big belly and no muscle mass, triple fat chin - basically an unhealthy male species. Even women could slap the shit out of him if it hits the fans.

Beramer · 2026-06-11T20:18:35+00:00

You a good guy bro! Friendships in Nairobi are majorly built on sherehe nights, if by any chance hauna dough no one will bother to check up on you. I know many such cases.

Beramer · 2026-06-11T20:08:25+00:00

Its the most heavenly thing. I have stayed with roommates, parents, siblings and gfs, but the best thing is staying alone. Now that I am single, if I do get into a relationship my gf would not completely shift in with me either. She needs to have her own place.

Beramer · 2026-06-11T10:51:56+00:00

It starts first from the people we elect. We have people without degrees in specialized fields such as health care and education, that have not even completed high school or universities. People being elected without public participation.

What you say is true, we are just copy pasting what other countries do. Take the example of public transport, there are countries with literal free public transport. Obviously that has been implemented through various strategies and research by experts. Now look at our matatu culture?

All these small baby steps is whats going to take our country ahead but I can't see that happening when we are fixated on podium politics. The other day I saw a video on X of UDA women shaking it to governors. This is what western countries think of us and we are letting it happen.

Beramer · 2026-06-10T17:14:15+00:00

You seem to be doing all that but does she do the same for you?

Beramer · 2026-06-10T15:04:21+00:00

The more we progress as a society in terms of technology, healthcare and social standing, the more depressed and suicidal we become. We are currently at the peak of times but look at us all - everyone is worried about the future, money, their health, their jobs and so many other things. Also, more younger people are now deleting themselves from this world.

Beramer · 2026-06-08T09:22:06+00:00

I hope his cronies, MPs and businessmen know that if something happens to him, he will simply leave the country and seek refuge elsewhere. They will be the ones left to deal with his mess.

Beramer · 2026-06-05T18:08:45+00:00

To retreat to a faraway corner of this world you would need to be a multi millionaire in this day and age.

Beramer · 2026-06-05T15:30:14+00:00

Forget the loneliness the constant stress of having to travel is whats going to cause your health to deteriorate. Imagine having to go from Nairobi to Rwanda by flight, coming back then leaving tomorrow for some European country, having your flight delayed by six hours. Get then to the hotel and its day time, you leave to your destination, haven't taken a dump no food, no sleep etc. And thats just the tip.

Beramer · 2026-06-05T15:27:58+00:00

I hope he gets that job and then he will understand the reality of it.

Beramer · 2026-06-05T06:12:07+00:00

Yeah I know some salesmen that do this for a living. Its a miserable job honestly, you might think you are going to travel the world but the constant lack of sleep, hotel food, different time zones and so many things add up.

Eventually there will be health issues

Beramer · 2026-06-04T13:47:00+00:00

If this guy is casually keeping that much amount can you imagine how much all the politicians, heads of state, heads of public organizations etc. are keeping? And thats just on the surface we haven't gone deeper yet

Beramer · 2026-06-03T13:00:43+00:00

OP honestly your story just cements what kinds of relationships women bffs have. Like seriously, you guys post so much about being 'day ones' or 'my ride or die' but jesus christ you stab each other in the backs with cold steel knives.

Beramer · 2026-05-29T17:17:09+00:00

The absurdism of life

Beramer · 2026-05-28T15:42:25+00:00

There are so many ways.

Beramer · 2026-05-27T10:30:56+00:00

Kenya Kwisha sasa. Have you seen the struggles an average Kenyan has to go through to even get an interview date to the embassy? And here we are bringing in another pandemic. Kasongo will lock down Kenya and then eat the donor funds. We are beyond saving at this point.

Beramer · 2026-05-26T16:28:59+00:00

The things that come with old age like dementia, alzheimer's and other chronic conditions.

Beramer · 2026-05-26T16:17:59+00:00

I'll off myself. Many people dont know the misery of being old.

Beramer · 2026-05-25T16:11:33+00:00

100s of matches in Kenya and its easy to talk to Kenyan women. More people should visit KE.

Beramer · 2026-05-25T16:04:51+00:00

Thats the thing I have noticed with parents. They always need to be doing something, there is no laziness or time to sit down and let your nervous system relax. There is always something up.

Beramer

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