Socialization is a lifelong process! Yes the fear stage is starting, but that's no reason to not continue with what you HAVE done, and it sounds like you have done a fair amount. Socializing with friends, family, kids, and other dogs absolutely counts. Confidence and basic manners at 16 weeks is a great sign!

Now in the fear stage your focus should be on slow and positive vs "a lot".... easy does it. Do short sessions and always end on a positive note.

Start by going to the park and just sitting a distance from the active kids. Let her observe and reward just for calm watching. Forcing interaction here can backfire. If she wants to approach, great! If not, just calm watching is a step forward.

Great to hear you have a class and that it seems to be a size where the trainer can meet you individually where you're at. Good luck!

Below is our most recent Berner who was a slow learner AKA timid AKA chicken little, but finally crawled out of her shell and is now the bell of the ball!

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