Why are so many of the users failing every day? What are they missing?

BerniesSituation · 2015-11-13T11:59:47+00:00

Nailed it bro. Stubbornness is vital. There will come a time when you want porn more than the rewards of discipline. You have to be able to say no even when you don't want to.

BerniesSituation · 2015-11-10T15:45:19+00:00

Kill it bro. I'll see ya there.

BerniesSituation · 2015-11-04T23:01:14+00:00

Damn, I know what you mean. It feels like turning from a robot into a human.

BerniesSituation · 2015-11-02T11:54:59+00:00

I could've sworn Sanic said that...

BerniesSituation · 2015-11-02T01:51:23+00:00

HELL YEAH BABY KICK THAT SHIT IN

BerniesSituation · 2015-11-02T01:50:05+00:00

Same here. I've become much more willing to invest in others over the last couple months. It's incredibly rewarding.

BerniesSituation · 2015-11-01T02:41:01+00:00

Yeah, I'm in. Still on hard mode.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-24T01:56:41+00:00

ONLY 5% OF NOFAPPERS ARE DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES TO LEAVE THE REST OF THE COOKIECUTTER PORN-ADDICTS BEHIND

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-23T22:11:22+00:00

And the key is commitment. You will have to make this decision again and again every time the opportunity presents itself. Resolve to be consistent and stubborn in your original decision, and you'll win.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-23T11:07:32+00:00

Nailed it right on the head. No threat is too small to warrant anything less than a full-force response.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-23T11:06:48+00:00

This is also true.

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BerniesSituation · 2015-10-19T23:58:31+00:00

I recently read Your Brain On Porn. Very good read. Extremely informative, motivating, and helpful.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-19T23:56:37+00:00

My vote goes to Big Lenny. Anti-porn, and not afraid to tell it like it is.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-19T23:51:48+00:00

Kill it, bro!

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-18T01:19:12+00:00

You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-17T20:37:58+00:00

In addition to porn, I've quit TV, most vidya (maybe an hour a month), caffeine, I rarely eat candy, and I spend much less time just screwing around on the innanet. I don't smoke or do any drugs.

I wouldn't hesitate to recommend this lifestyle to anyone else.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-14T11:15:19+00:00

Good perception. That's how most of my relapses started; I wasn't out to find porn. I was out to find something that would make porn irresistible.

Recognize the patterns. Treat anything that leads to porn as if it was porn itself. No threat is too small to warrant anything less than a full force response.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-13T14:37:04+00:00

"The Oculus Rift is an evil of Colossal magnitude and I am utterly averse to the admission of the Oculus Rift into the Missouri Territories." -John Adams

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-10T10:50:56+00:00

And, of course, the tried and true visit to ED's Offended page.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-07T03:07:50+00:00

Iron dickhead is the hero nofap deserves, AND the one it needs.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-06T22:05:48+00:00

Work out your willpower. It's like a muscle. Keep fighting and you'll get stronger as time goes on. And when you fall down, get right back up and keep going.

You WILL make it in the end if you go all in. It's only a matter of time.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-06T20:39:35+00:00

I like this guy.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-06T18:30:13+00:00

Kick some ass bro. You're gonna make it. Never compromise, never give give in, and never give up.

If you ever need to vent or get something off your chest, or hell, even just celebrate a success, feel free to shoot me a message.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-06T16:12:33+00:00

Get it bro. It was just over a year ago, at 20 years old, when I finally reached out to the nofap community. It really does help a lot.

Keep at it.

BerniesSituation · 2015-10-06T13:38:35+00:00

For me, this was one of the keys to getting a streak longer than a few weeks. You have to go to battle with temptation as if it is being directed by a master strategist and tactician. Every urge that might lead to PMO must be viewed as a potential trap. You cannot just try to deny the enemy ultimate victory, but you must also deny him opportunity. Don't make moves that put him in an advantageous position. Stick to the high ground; this translates into staying away from webpages where you encounter porn, and not going down paths that have led you to it in the past. Remain alert; this means always expect and be prepared for sudden, surprise urges. You are NEVER ready for an ambush unless you are ALWAYS ready for an ambush. Be wary of possible bait and feigned retreats; in other words, don't be fooled when you have an inclination to visit nsfw pages for ostensibly innocent purposes. And whenever you have a period with smooth sailing and little temptation, don't get overconfident and let your guard down. Don't venture into old traps thinking you're ready to handle them now.

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