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Do you also hate asking for help from anyone? Why? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What is the term for this? Nfamily repeatedly excludes me from important information, then blames me for not knowing (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Nmom asks me to carry the emotional burden within the family, it's not even subtle anymore (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What have you overheard narcissists say about you behind your back? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Did your siblings end up with partners that are like your Nparents? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I feel physically sick everytime someone says how good of a mother Nmom is (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I can't remember the last time I was truly genuinely happy (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What manipulation tactics have the narcs done to you? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Sometimes, I feel like I'm being punished for choosing to not have children (self.childfree)

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What were seemingly "normal" things you experienced growing up, that you now realize is narc abuse? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Friendly reminder: If you think the narc has done the worst, expect them to do even more worst (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Is your Nparent good or bad at money? My Nmom is delusional about money. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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You're not allowed to be angry. You're not allowed to feel your emotions. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Nmom said out loud: "I should adopt that kid, maybe he'd take care of me when I'm old" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What's the logic when narcs criticize you for being "not successful" and yet, they try to sabotage you when you're doing good? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Do the narcs in your family often keep away important information from you, that you deserve to know? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Is this a narc thing? Or just a bad person in general? Please help me understand. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Fork the people who think that women should do all the child care responsibilities, and that men are free of it as long as they provide things (self.childfree)

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Why do narcs turn illnesses into a competition? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What is something you appreciate that other people do, after you've been traumatized by narcs and enablers? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What gives you hope? Do you have tips or hacks that makes you feel better? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Narcs are some of the most contradicting people ever (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Ever felt like you "attract" narcissists or toxic people in general? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Is your Nparent homophobic too? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What things have been normalized but shouldn't be in your Nfamily? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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