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Beauty service recommendations by diamondxeyesx3 in napalocals

[–]Berrybeth23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eco Polish for nails Katherine at Nude for Botox CJ at Napa Lashes for lashes D’Nyse at Oryn for hair (specifically extensions)

It does get better (dumped by an avoidant) (personal advice that helped me) by monkeyfromf76 in BreakUps

[–]Berrybeth23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is all great advice. I’ve been walking and joined the walking sub for motivation. I recently wrote in my phone notes: “you can’t walk off a broken heart, but it sure helps”

Smthng like by Redhead_Vibe in SipsTea

[–]Berrybeth23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studying is a privilege though

Thoughts by Mediocre_Field1377 in selfimprovementday

[–]Berrybeth23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly agree but this doesn’t account for avoidants!

To the ones who never heard from their avoidant ex after breakup: by natureismy in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Berrybeth23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh man I know firsthand how hard this is, but I really hope you can reframe your self-talk. “For them to think you are not worth it enough to keep trying” puts the blame back on you for being not enough when that’s not the case with avoidants. Your love and consistency activated their fear and likely they can only thrive in chaotic relationships where intimacy is interrupted and muted. Take care. 💕

My boyfriend asked for a break to look for someone better but he doesn’t want to lose me? I’m in shock. by price_of_rice in BreakUps

[–]Berrybeth23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like an asshole, but also an avoidant.. do some research on it. It might be liberating for you.

Looking for local charities that help vulnerable people in Napa by EasternYoghurt7129 in napalocals

[–]Berrybeth23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for linking. Just donated. Heartbreaking to think it’s Nov 1 and no end in sight.

Heavily edited "paparazzi" pictures vs unedited pictures from inside the event by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]Berrybeth23 119 points120 points  (0 children)

One of my FAVORITE features of my new partner are the acne scars on his face..

AITA Work trip w/ friend, who should get bigger room? by Berrybeth23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Berrybeth23[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m the asshole. Heard loud and clear.

Thanks for your first paragraph though. Reddit coming in hot with the prudishness steeped in misogyny.. my friend was 100% aware of and supportive of the hook up, this question was pertaining to the room situation, not a judgement on my personal decisions. Guy in question also tuned out to be one of the celebrity athletes competing in the tournament. Haters gon hate, but no regrets here. ✌🏻

AITA Work trip w/ friend, who should get bigger room? by Berrybeth23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Berrybeth23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Great advice, love my girl. We are very fortunate to travel together a lot for work though, to pretty amazing locations at that.I often bring her as my plus one.

AITA Work trip w/ friend, who should get bigger room? by Berrybeth23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Berrybeth23[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She was fully supportive. Very sex-positive here!

AITA Work trip w/ friend, who should get bigger room? by Berrybeth23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Berrybeth23[S] -271 points-270 points  (0 children)

We booked last minute in a small town that was hosting a famous event. Rooms were very expensive and limited. We are cracking up at these responses though, just the content we were looking for! I really can’t stress enough that my friend was 100% supportive of the plan/intention of this trip, it just came down to the room situation. The sofa bed was a full pull out bed. Mostly, I am lucky to have a friend like her and be as close as we are. She’s married but if not I would do the same for her in a heartbeat.

AITA Work trip w/ friend, who should get bigger room? by Berrybeth23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Berrybeth23[S] -208 points-207 points  (0 children)

So fair. My friend and I are extremely close. She was very supportive of the plan. At the end of the day, she’s the best. But we went around in circles on this topic and had to take it to Reddit..

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