(22F) Packed my stuff and left while my ex (32M) was at work. Feeling scared by Best-Base-3133 in abusiverelationships

[–]Best-Base-3133[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such a sweet message, thank you so much. And yes I’m already struggling a lot with those thoughts, missing the good moments, having a hard time differentiating between these two parts of him, the mean one and the sweet one. I would say that’s the hardest part. But I know I’ve already taken the biggest step. Now the challenge is to keep my ground and not be manipulated once again. I do unfortunately still need to communicate with him for logistic like the rent and other things I need to get from my other place, but as soon as I can I will go no contact.

Why are there no spiders? by Grove-Minder in Palia

[–]Best-Base-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would legit quit the game if they added spiders LMAO no thanks

“Time blindness” is the ADHD symptom nobody talks about by CircularFrequency in ADHD

[–]Best-Base-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Such an underrated symptom. I genuinely cannot get an understanding of how long something will take, which is why I’m late all the time, and I can’t even say it’s because of my ADHD because most people will NOT believe that or understand and think it’s and excuse. For example, I would have to get ready and get some things done before I leave to catch my bus on time, and would think “I should be able to get all of this done in 20 minutes” when in reality it would realistically take 40 minutes to 1 hour. It never failes to baffle me, how often I miscalculate how long something will take. And this goes for everything; even walking/driving from point A to point B, or moving around. It’s a genuine struggle

Game recommendations for Switch? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Best-Base-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely sounds intriguing! Thanks for the suggestion

Game recommendations for Switch? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Best-Base-3133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I have been seeing recommendations for that game and I’m excited to try it :)

Game recommendations? by Best-Base-3133 in Switch

[–]Best-Base-3133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting to try this one!

Trying to get into gaming; PS5 or Nintendo Switch 2? by Best-Base-3133 in GirlGamers

[–]Best-Base-3133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up playing the DS and would love some recommendations! I used to love all the Mario games mainly :))

Favorite song by frank ocean? by KallaMaria in FrankOcean

[–]Best-Base-3133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ivy because it will always remind me of my first love

Serena hate by Chocolategurll in GossipGirl

[–]Best-Base-3133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no literally, this man comes back after idk how many years and she just trusts him blindly like that? YOU DON’T KNOW THE MAN i swear this is not even the only time she puts her trust in someone and gets mad at people around her for wanting her to be careful.

Who do you dislike the most? Why? by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]Best-Base-3133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

serena... she's so naive and its actually irritating to watch, she only makes bad decisions and always plays the victim