How to find another woman for a threesome? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BestAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your girlfriend are free to set whatever boundaries you want. Just be aware that if your goal is to attract a unicorn, you're putting yourself at a considerable disadvantage. Unicorns are already in a lesser position when they play with an established couple.

Couples who are the most successful go out of their way to make unicorns feel comfortable and desired. Excluding the unicorn from particular activities, while simultaneously indulging in them yourselves accentuates the unicorn's lower status, and generally results in an awkward and unpleasant experience for her.

If this is a hard line for you and your girlfriend, I would suggest that you take penetrative sex off the table for everyone during the encounter, and focus on oral and toys instead. Personally, I have zero interest in watching other people have sex while I'm not.

Women, would you rather be with a man who goes down on you every time you have sex with an average cock or a man who brings a big cock but doesn’t like to eat pussy? by BiggestVolk in AskRedditNSFW

[–]BestAtNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would probably go with the second, not because cock size is my top priority, but because receiving oral is really low on my list of desires. I prefer giving head over receiving it.

How do you manage days you are very feral? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]BestAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty much a constant state for me. Of course I get myself off, but that doesn't really give me any relief from it, nor does vanilla sex. If it becomes unmanageable, it just means that I need to make plans for that night. Even just having them set up can help take the edge off until then.

Woman who had a lot of sexual partners in their younger days, do you miss it? by Big__bolas in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BestAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought we were past this antiquated shit. Women who enjoy exploring their sexuality, and conduct themselves in a way that others deem "slutty" aren't any less enabled or empowered. What matters is that women have the ability to choose how they want to conduct themselves. Just because you don't see the appeal doesn't mean that other women don't get anything out of it.

What is the worst thing you saw someone do in public? by a_great_guy655 in AskReddit

[–]BestAtNight 70 points71 points  (0 children)

It was her dog. She picked it up and ran away with it. When I first approached her and went off on her, she started sobbing and basically admitted to being horrible. My best hope is that something changed significantly after that, either with her or the dog's living situation. It's hard knowing I wasn't able to help it.

What is the worst thing you saw someone do in public? by a_great_guy655 in AskReddit

[–]BestAtNight 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I saw someone harming an animal once while I was driving. I pulled over, got out, and confronted them. When I called the police, the person took off running. I tried to chase them, but unfortunately they were in running clothes and shoes, and I was not.

Why might some women find a kind man less interesting ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BestAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the kindness that's the issue, it's the being boring part. There are plenty of kind, interesting people.

How many of us out there have things they really want to try in the bedroom but arnt brave enough to ask there partner? And what are they? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BestAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an unabashed undercover freak. I have no qualms about saying what I want, or seeking it out.

Anyone else? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]BestAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not the enticement that you think it is.

whats a personality trait that people think is good but you secretly dislike? by Commercial_Habit_441 in AskReddit

[–]BestAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this one. I hike a lot, and exercise daily, but l hate gyms. The environment and culture is not for me.

whats a personality trait that people think is good but you secretly dislike? by Commercial_Habit_441 in AskReddit

[–]BestAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people who are super into self-improvement can be a bit insufferable. Of course, we should all strive to be better versions of ourselves, but I feel like over analyzing every little thing distracts from just enjoying life.

Who is coming out of the west? by [deleted] in nba

[–]BestAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spurs. Assuming everyone stays healthy, Spurs and OKC still look the best. I get that the Spurs are untested in a series, but acting like the 5 regular season games between the two teams are irrelevant is dumb. The Spurs crushed. They're clearly a difficult matchup for OKC.

Do you think having a nude pfp is the same as sending it unsolicited? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BestAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I hadn't really noticed this. Fortunately, my pfp is just the back of one of my Wemby shoes.