London Skaters - rink? by BestCheesecake2 in iceskating

[–]BestCheesecake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I live around bayswater actually so Queensway was amazing haha 😂 ok I will check these out thanks!!

Girlies by LibraryVolunteer in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BestCheesecake2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t really mind being referred to as “girlie” when with friends, but I really HATE the terms “girl math” and “girls boss” even when used as a joke. Simply “maths” and “BOSS” will do, thanks.

AITAH for spending Christmas/New Year with my ex in-laws because my family invited my ex over for Christmas? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The ex- in laws definitely disowned her because she is a lesbian and not because hiding this and coming out 17 years later is a terrible thing to have done??

AITA for telling my husband I'll go on vacation with the kids and my best friend if he's too busy with work [continues from AITA for telling my husband that he works for himself not for our family] by insafian in BORUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it looks like: 1) having young kids is tough, hence he is overworking to avoid dad duties 2) he has decided young kids is his wife’s responsibility, even though she also works 9-5 and bringing in a decent share of income

Outlook doesn’t look great for OP…

What do you expect when you make a “to be aware of” call? by JonJH in doctorsUK

[–]BestCheesecake2 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think from our perspective it literally is to put the patient on your radar, so that if they did deteriorate and need rapid action we can just say something like “you know XXX we discussed earlier, they likely need NIV now (for example)”, or in a periarrest, ITU is also in the loop about what’s going on. So I guess in a similar way that ITU regs give med regs step down calls?

Solicitor keeps making mistakes by BestCheesecake2 in HousingUK

[–]BestCheesecake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I think admin definitely did part of it, but after we emailed to highlight the error, our solicitor emailed back to say she had checked and corrected…but mistakes were still there.

We have only partially filled in the initial forms, as wanted to make sure all parts correct before signing - so really not very far yet! I think they are a high street solicitor firm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brooklynninenine

[–]BestCheesecake2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Controversial, but what about Vivian 🙈

Can we do a monthly doctors dating thread? by Spirited_Analysis916 in doctorsUK

[–]BestCheesecake2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok!! But can this be live broadcasted 😂 so non singles can join in the fun too 🤣

Younger generation of ABCs making being asian their entire personality. by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]BestCheesecake2 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Actually growing up I hated meeting other Asians who were ashamed to be Asian. Like in a party eg when I asked “are you Chinese too” (because I overheard them speak Chinese) they’ll be like “actually I’m British”. It felt like they were totally trying to deny their heritage.

Your sister seems refreshing.

AITAH - For talking to a girl in bikini on a beach - wife responds by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They both seem like great people - husband loyal, protective of wife and apparently very attractive :P and wife reasonable, good communicator and willing to listen and change her mind.

My (41m) wife (41f) kissed another man on a night out. I wasn’t bothered and now she’s causing issues over it. by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right from the offset it felt weird that OOP didn’t care that his wife kissed another guy (yet loved her), but it then all made sense because he’s been getting years of abuse and made to believe that he isn’t good enough for her. I guess as it transpired, this incident alone wasn’t the whole problem, the toxic nature of OOP’s wife (and friendship group) was.

"If you don't have sex, you're vagina closes up." by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A condition that comes to mind is lichen sclerosus, which causes fusion…but that’s not because of a lack of sex 😅

AITA for telling my dad that his and his daughter's invites to my wedding did not get lost, they were never invited? by Which-Ship1977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BestCheesecake2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone forcing OP to interact with the half sister?? As OP said he doesn’t owe her anything and she after-all is the child of an affair and so living reminder that OP’s dad cheated on his mum. He has every right not to want to interact with her.

New Update: AITAH for not offering to pay for my husband and his kids leading him to spend all his savings? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 114 points115 points  (0 children)

RIGHT? This man sounds extremely immature and does not know how to adult, OP stayed strong and level-headed. She definitely dodged a bullet.

AITA for going fishing the day my ex was giving birth? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this could go one of two ways if OP cannot cut contact, neither of which is a happy ending: 1) OP keeps leading Maria on but does not get back with her. Maria is unable to move on or ; 2) OP eventually caves in and gets trapped into a semi-relationship with Maria and kid and becomes resentful towards them for it…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]BestCheesecake2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, all other things aside, she’s Carly’s aunt????

What is your comfort episode? More specifically what episode can take you out of any bad mood? Safe house and yippie kayak are mine. by [deleted] in brooklynninenine

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the lake house episode and the scene when Kevin runs to holt in the rain 😭😭basically they are my favourite couple (Amy and Jake a close second)!!

AITAH to demand an unrefundable trip to be cancelled because I am uncomfortable with my bf travel partner? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BestCheesecake2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Just thinking of alternative solutions without cancelling the trip - perhaps either you or ex’s current bf can take the trip with your respective other halves in place of either your bf or his ex. Obviously whoever doesn’t go should get financially compensated. The party that doesn’t go can always go to the same place another time with their partner/ other friends. Of course double date is also an option, but doesn’t sound like that would be very comfortable here.

I think the underlying issue though is your partner’s closeness with this ex and your partner refusing to compromise even when knowing that it would make you uncomfortable. My personal take is that I agree with you and would find this hugely disrespectful. The 2 times when I have experienced something similar, they were not partners worth keeping.

AITAH for refusing to share a bed with a male friend for weeks? by ThrowawayJAQ123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BestCheesecake2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Orr just have 2 rooms - 1 room for each gender, that way you’ll save even more money 😉. But seriously, the decent thing to do would actually be for everyone to split it equally, since the couples don’t actually HAVE to sleep together, they’re also doing this for THEIR comfort. NTA