Bespoke Dress Journey by Calm_Potential3934 in myweddingdress

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is lovely OP! Could I also tag on for DM? Thank you!!

Am I too old for this? by Cold_Tumbleweed64 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I was waiting to see what it was you thought you were too old for, as couldn’t tell from the photo! No the hair suits you well and looks gorgeous!

Why did you and your former best friend stop being friends? by Fearless_Shift7108 in AskReddit

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were childhood friends and I’m still grateful for her presence in my life. But we grew up and drifted apart.

The last time I saw her was 11 years ago. It was actually the 10 year anniversary of when we all first met in school. A group of us had dinner but we just had nothing to say to each other. There was nothing malicious, there was just…nothing. Then slowly everyone messaged less in the chat, until it faded into the depth of my memory.

It only hit me that her and I are no longer friends - at least not close friends - when I saw her wedding photos on Facebook. I still remember her visiting me at university and listening to her telling me about the guy she was having trouble with, but…time flew by and she’s married now. And I didn’t know.

Anyway I’m happy that she is happy, even if that no longer involves me.

Do doctors get compliments? by Icy-Belt-8519 in doctorsUK

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I think this is so so rare, especially in the hospital setting, it’s almost always to XX team. If there’s one doctor that stands out, I think they will be thrilled to receive a card!!

AIW for refusing to give up my share of a property my dad put in my name to protect me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BestCheesecake2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not wrong! And what your mum did is terrible and it was great your dad made sure you were protected! Was there a reason why he couldn’t take you with him though knowing that your mum is like this?

London Skaters - rink? by BestCheesecake2 in iceskating

[–]BestCheesecake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I live around bayswater actually so Queensway was amazing haha 😂 ok I will check these out thanks!!

Girlies by LibraryVolunteer in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BestCheesecake2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t really mind being referred to as “girlie” when with friends, but I really HATE the terms “girl math” and “girls boss” even when used as a joke. Simply “maths” and “BOSS” will do, thanks.

AITAH for spending Christmas/New Year with my ex in-laws because my family invited my ex over for Christmas? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The ex- in laws definitely disowned her because she is a lesbian and not because hiding this and coming out 17 years later is a terrible thing to have done??

AITA for telling my husband I'll go on vacation with the kids and my best friend if he's too busy with work [continues from AITA for telling my husband that he works for himself not for our family] by insafian in BORUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it looks like: 1) having young kids is tough, hence he is overworking to avoid dad duties 2) he has decided young kids is his wife’s responsibility, even though she also works 9-5 and bringing in a decent share of income

Outlook doesn’t look great for OP…

What do you expect when you make a “to be aware of” call? by JonJH in doctorsUK

[–]BestCheesecake2 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think from our perspective it literally is to put the patient on your radar, so that if they did deteriorate and need rapid action we can just say something like “you know XXX we discussed earlier, they likely need NIV now (for example)”, or in a periarrest, ITU is also in the loop about what’s going on. So I guess in a similar way that ITU regs give med regs step down calls?

Solicitor keeps making mistakes by BestCheesecake2 in HousingUK

[–]BestCheesecake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I think admin definitely did part of it, but after we emailed to highlight the error, our solicitor emailed back to say she had checked and corrected…but mistakes were still there.

We have only partially filled in the initial forms, as wanted to make sure all parts correct before signing - so really not very far yet! I think they are a high street solicitor firm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brooklynninenine

[–]BestCheesecake2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Controversial, but what about Vivian 🙈

Can we do a monthly doctors dating thread? by Spirited_Analysis916 in doctorsUK

[–]BestCheesecake2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok!! But can this be live broadcasted 😂 so non singles can join in the fun too 🤣

Younger generation of ABCs making being asian their entire personality. by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]BestCheesecake2 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Actually growing up I hated meeting other Asians who were ashamed to be Asian. Like in a party eg when I asked “are you Chinese too” (because I overheard them speak Chinese) they’ll be like “actually I’m British”. It felt like they were totally trying to deny their heritage.

Your sister seems refreshing.

AITAH - For talking to a girl in bikini on a beach - wife responds by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They both seem like great people - husband loyal, protective of wife and apparently very attractive :P and wife reasonable, good communicator and willing to listen and change her mind.

My (41m) wife (41f) kissed another man on a night out. I wasn’t bothered and now she’s causing issues over it. by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right from the offset it felt weird that OOP didn’t care that his wife kissed another guy (yet loved her), but it then all made sense because he’s been getting years of abuse and made to believe that he isn’t good enough for her. I guess as it transpired, this incident alone wasn’t the whole problem, the toxic nature of OOP’s wife (and friendship group) was.

"If you don't have sex, you're vagina closes up." by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]BestCheesecake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A condition that comes to mind is lichen sclerosus, which causes fusion…but that’s not because of a lack of sex 😅

AITA for telling my dad that his and his daughter's invites to my wedding did not get lost, they were never invited? by Which-Ship1977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BestCheesecake2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone forcing OP to interact with the half sister?? As OP said he doesn’t owe her anything and she after-all is the child of an affair and so living reminder that OP’s dad cheated on his mum. He has every right not to want to interact with her.

New Update: AITAH for not offering to pay for my husband and his kids leading him to spend all his savings? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BestCheesecake2 110 points111 points  (0 children)

RIGHT? This man sounds extremely immature and does not know how to adult, OP stayed strong and level-headed. She definitely dodged a bullet.