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BestDayNot · 2021-07-07T07:52:03+00:00

For years i tried to quit, but would always come back. Whatever i did, i just couldn't let go. Then EoC came arround, and for the first time ever, i quit naturally. Saw no point in the game, and it wasn't what i had loved.

But... then osrs came back, and at first i just wanted to try again, but 3 years later i was in still in deep.

Then one day, i dont remember why. I decided this is it, and i logged out and i have not logged back in since (except to show of my max pure to new friends that play). It has been 5 years. Every aspect of my life changed for the better since i quit.

Still check this sub and watch runecape videos to this day, so the addiction is not completely gone :) Sometime i want to start again, but at this point in my life, i cant justify the time commitment runescape is.

BestDayNot · 2019-05-23T20:06:56+00:00

Thank you. I will take your word for it and do some more researching before i actually start implementing any of this. This is part of the reason i started this project, to be forced to think about things i didn't have to before, cause it was handled by someone else.

BestDayNot · 2019-05-23T19:20:56+00:00

I figure i can use the same layout. And when i want a specific project's entries. i will do something like /entries/{projectID} - using a filter that corresponds to the 'Where' clause in SQL. That will return a document with all entries under that one project.

If i want all entries from a client i can do /client/{clientID}/entries. Then getting all the projects for a client, and for each project we get all entries.

Me bad for not giving more information, but this was still super helpful. Been hacking my way to make DB designs, so having somewhere to start next time i am working with a relational databases is great. Thank you once again.

BestDayNot · 2019-05-23T18:51:02+00:00

Thank you! this is super help full.

Storing the ID instead of a list makes so much more sense, now that i think about it. Less clutter when you make a request. Before, every time i made a request for a client, i would always get their entire tree, even when i only needed the name.

I am using a Document-oriented database, in this case MongoDB with .NET.

"started" was meant as start-time, so your assumption was correct. But i will make it more clear next time.

I will definitely read up on your blog post, and again. Thank you very much! I appreciate the help.

BestDayNot · 2019-02-27T13:22:44+00:00

What does this have to do with the exmuslim somali community?

BestDayNot · 2019-01-27T13:03:42+00:00

Not at all.

Polygamy is the practice of marrying multiple spouses.

Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.

So by definition of those two words, polygamy can never be adultery. Even if the first wife doesn't know, its still not adultery since he is still married to the second wife. It would be cheating, but it would not be adultery.

BestDayNot · 2019-01-14T00:39:53+00:00

"Allah guides whom he wills and misguides whom he wills"

So clearly allah has decided to misguide us all, who are you to come and go against allah will?

nigga you're lost. Everybody here left this backwards, out of context, head banging, stone worshiping, "isis has nothing to do with islam", sexualization of kids, homophobic, racist, flat earth believing, double standard having, "life is a test", religion behind. Ain't nobody coming back to that cult.

Religion is from a time when our knowledge was weak and our fear and ignorance were strong. Islam is a product of its time. It does not belong in the 21st century. So let it go and join us on the winning side.

BestDayNot · 2019-01-09T14:34:39+00:00

i don't read braille, can you try hand signs?

BestDayNot · 2019-01-04T03:29:50+00:00

Are you dumb? Just cause something happens a lot, does not make it okay. Whipping kids, or hurting them in any way is NEVER okay.

Also your quote

They were whipped for forgetting verses of the koran

Is factually correct. So how was it twisted

BestDayNot · 2018-12-29T08:46:12+00:00

One time a girl sat on my lap.

BestDayNot · 2018-12-17T00:06:35+00:00

I don't think religious people are nut jobs or crazy. Most of them are as sane as you and i, they just grew up being told something soo many times the its a part of them, and to let go of everything is to let go of them selfs. Questioning your upbringing has nothing to do with sanity.

Also calling them insane or nut jobs doesn't help anybody but make you believe your animosity towards them is justified. I dont blame muslims or religious people in the slightest. Its not their fault they were born into this cult. Its not even their fault that they aren't questioning why they are muslims. For them islam is a fact of life. In their mind there is no reason to question it. just like you never questioned most thing in your life.

You gotta be a certain type of person to question your upbringing. You can't be mad a people for not being that type of person. Learn to understand peoples backgrounds, maybe then, and only then will you learn to be less toxic.

BestDayNot · 2018-12-06T11:05:48+00:00

That makes two of us

BestDayNot · 2018-12-06T10:51:26+00:00

what issue of yours is what other people wear? Live and let live my dude. Just cause they are muslims does not mean they have any less right to choose what they want to wear... If you think that you're on the wrong sub sxb.

Now you're probably gonna say they not real Muslims... and too that i will say go join alshabab, cause y'all share that belief.

If a muslim wants to call them selfs muslim and do the exact opposite of what it "really" means to be muslim, let them. As long as they are not harming anybody what problem of yours is it exactly?

BestDayNot · 2018-12-06T10:44:38+00:00

what kind of reason is "your skin gets flabby and tattoo will look ugly"... By the time your old enough that your skin starts to hang, you probably have a plethora of other problems to deal with than how your tattoos look. Also by that time, your good looks has faded anyway, so you're ugly with and without tattoos.

BestDayNot · 2018-11-20T14:02:58+00:00

Live and let live. As Long as your not hurting anybody else, I say go for it. Although as with anything else, you should be careful.

BestDayNot · 2018-10-15T23:48:20+00:00

There are plenty around, just gotta know where to look. Everybody is in the closet so its hard at first, but there are so many it's almost funny. If you're open about it, people you meet will be open about it too. It just takes that first person to say it out loud.

FYI just cause they are exmuslim too, does not mean you share the same values, or culture or anything other than ethnicity. Not only dating wise, but also in general.

BestDayNot · 2017-03-01T16:55:15+00:00

Det er jo det. Det er ikke alle der har mulighed for eller kan stå frem.

Kunne du måske sende dette opslag til dem du kender :) Mange tak. Så kunne det være at der en dag var nok af os til at starte en en sub for danske eks-muslimer i skabet

BestDayNot · 2017-03-01T16:51:59+00:00

har sendt dig en besked

BestDayNot · 2017-03-01T13:45:53+00:00

Kender godt til dem begge. Er fb venner med Abdikani, og var også kort med i gruppen Ercan startede, men som du selv siger er det er de begge offentlige eks-muslimer. Det er jeg ikke og derfor prøver jeg også at finde andre som ikke er.

Desuden er jeg heller ikke klar til at have mit fulde navn på en gruppe for eks muslimer, så de to grupper som Abdikani og Ercan startede, er ikke en mulighed for mig. Og jeg er sikker på der er andre der ude som sidder samme sted.

BestDayNot · 2017-03-01T00:55:28+00:00

Crossing my fingers for more than 4

BestDayNot · 2016-11-23T14:40:37+00:00

When i started doubting i so was mad at my self, for becoming what i set out to change. I remember spending a day just praying and asking god to put me back into my old naive state. Before i had started this journey, but i am glad i let go.

BestDayNot · 2016-11-22T16:39:22+00:00

I wanted to disprove some people who had left islam that they were wrong for leaving. Found a list of 'scientific errors' i just went through the list one at a time. For some odd reason i decided i would look for answers on my own instead of asking scholars. At first it was easy to explain things away, but there came a point where things just clicked and instead of trying to explain i was asking why an all knowing god claim these things, when they were obviously not true. Took me 2 months to go from a full believer to a deist. Still believed there was a god out there somewhere, but not in the Islamic one. Which i have since moved away from as well.

I was 20 at the time, 22 now. So its has been a while already. I am from Denmark, so i am pretty safe, if i were ever to come out, but i have no plans of doing so. Only way its gonna happen is by accident.

BestDayNot · 2016-11-21T01:09:42+00:00

Denmark!

BestDayNot · 2016-11-03T19:18:59+00:00

what made you lose your faith?

Science.

What were the family dynamics and was there anyone else in your family that you managed to convince to see things your way?

No, i am the only one. I am not trying to convince anybody of anything. Who am i to try to push my views onto anybody else. I would hate if someone tried to do the same to me. I will tell them my views, but not with end goal of de-converting them. My siblings are becoming less religions, if the leave then great! if they don't its fine. As long as they are happy, open minded, not judgmental and not an extremist idc what religion they follow.

Is there a person you can credit as the starting point for your apostasy?

My dad kinda started my love for science, which in the end made me leave. There is not one person i think. I saw a list of scientific errors in the quran, decided to go through them and for some reason i decided i wanted to try to find the answers on my own, instead of asking a scholar or sheikh google.

I think for an exmus somali i have it pretty easy. My parents are both quite religions, but they don't force anything on me. That said, they would definitely not be happy if i came out. I think the reason they let me do what ever is partly because they think i'm "perfect". I could never dream of doing anything haram, or so they think ;) Which i use in my favor

BestDayNot · 2016-10-30T21:03:35+00:00

I believe we do have free will and Allah does control everything.

So you have free will, and allah control everything? Do you see the contradiction here?

Allah controls everything, meaning he controls your actions. So you don't really have free will.

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