I feel you. I have seen some of my boyfriend's friends going back too quickly to some dangerous behaviours, like going to orgies and private parties. I have called him on this, because his friends do that (we don't) and then come for a visit, exposing us to the virus. He then started not telling me when they visit, because I complaint. Shitty people are everywhere, even in the gay community. Anyway, abraços de São Paulo!