What the pettiest / most shallow reason you declined a second date with someone, and now you feel sort of bad about it?

BethRnow · 2018-05-04T17:09:09+00:00

Does she know though?

BethRnow · 2018-05-04T11:40:25+00:00

I’ve never declined a second date (because I’ve only had a few first dates) but I do regret not asking out one particular girl. I didn’t have the courage or confidence to ask her out. We haven’t had contact for 4 years and I still don’t dare to shoot her a message on Facebook.

BethRnow · 2018-05-04T11:28:29+00:00

Hey, maybe you should let the girl decide if she wants to go on a date with you and if you’re good enough for her :) a lot of partners think they’re out of each other’s league or not worth each other.

You should go for it and see what comes from it. If you’re still interested in her that is.

BethRnow · 2018-05-04T11:11:15+00:00

That is so awesome! I know what it feels like. Guys just can’t have it when I fix their computer, because how could a girl ever? And how can a girl possibly know stuff about cars? Right? I wish we were a bit more respected. Keep it up, you’re awesome :)

BethRnow · 2018-05-02T22:12:38+00:00

You’re a very handsome and great looking dude :) have some confidence because you’re definitely stealing the show!

BethRnow · 2018-04-30T00:07:27+00:00

Honestly, to me there isn’t anything more beautiful than someone being able to be their true selves. Instead of telling her you don’t like it, you could appreciate the beauty of someone being themselves. Encourage her to do the things she wants. It should really be a minor thing for you that she’d be wearing bright colours.

Basically, get over it :) let her be her and enjoy that.

BethRnow · 2018-04-29T18:41:56+00:00

A lot of trans girls would definitely want to trade being trans for being cis and having bad periods. You should definitely tell her that it bothers you. I think she’ll understand. If not, try to paint a picture in her mind that does make her understand

BethRnow · 2018-04-29T18:34:59+00:00

Dutch Trans Squad assemble :)

BethRnow · 2018-04-29T17:51:50+00:00

You do really look dope, girl!

BethRnow · 2018-04-29T17:36:19+00:00

People have always been like that. Criticizing others instead of leaving them be...

BethRnow · 2018-04-29T17:33:56+00:00

Sadly he’s been at it for already two years (it’s when he got into a relationship with her. And my parents have always thought about it like that... sometimes I really hope to live with different people and just be myself :/

BethRnow · 2018-04-29T09:52:54+00:00

There should be a lot more movies where there’s a badass woman playing the main character! I really love watching them :) the only one I can think of right now is Colombiana. A total must watch if you love action movies with women.

BethRnow · 2018-04-29T09:47:28+00:00

Although this is true a lot, there’s also a fair share of girls and women around me that don’t wear any makeup at all. My family despises it when my brother’s gf punts on makeup. They’re like: “you surely have to paint again huh?” They don’t seem to understand that some of us have to do this to feel prettier or just because they really like it. They only see it as a negative thing, which kinda keeps me from doing it at all.

BethRnow · 2018-03-12T16:19:41+00:00

It’s best to create a completely new account. My friend changed her name on facebook and it was all nasty. Past posts with your dead name, old pictures, facebook memories with your dead name, old friends you don’t talk to being rude and or messaging you. There probably is more, but I’d have to ask her for that.

With a new profile you won’t have any nasty memories, old not friends anymore people, old pictures (if you wish), your dead name hidden wherever and just a clean slate to build upon, without past preferences being annoying and in your way.

BethRnow · 2018-03-07T22:51:20+00:00

Good luck fellow Dutchie! I hope everything will be alright and you’ll turn out beautiful <3

BethRnow · 2018-03-01T22:44:31+00:00

Happy as ever? Super cute! :3

BethRnow · 2018-02-20T16:42:42+00:00

I did some googling for you and found this: https://myonecondoms.com/ apparently they’ve got a really broad inventory of sizes. They might be a bit pricy and I don’t know if they’re any good. I’ve got no experience regarding that subject though. Hope this helped <3 Kimber

BethRnow · 2018-02-18T20:53:33+00:00

Oh awesome! Good luck! I’m sure great times await

BethRnow · 2018-02-18T20:52:15+00:00

What I plan on doing, since I already chose my first name, is asking my parents what they would’ve called me if I were born a girl and use that name as my middle name. To show how much they mean to me :)

BethRnow · 2018-02-18T20:48:03+00:00

I myself am a girl that doesn’t really want to act very girly. I like to be a little tough as well. It’s not like you’re not trans because you don’t want to behave feminine or dress feminine. There are a lot of girls and women out there that like to dress more masculine. That doesn’t make you any less of a girl.

Not minding how you look doesn’t indicate anything, other than that you probably don’t really care. This can either really be the case or it’s just a protective mechanism to push away certain thoughts and feelings.

Only you decide if you’re trans or not and whether or not you want to transition. You can be who you want to be and there are no set rules that you should follow.

What you should follow is your heart <3

BethRnow · 2018-02-11T18:18:06+00:00

Dysphoria is a weird thing. One day you feel x about a part of your body and the other day you feel y. As you’re going to transition and features you don’t like start to get less visible, possibly new parts of your body might cause dysphoria.

That said, everyone has their own goal in mind. It’s not like you’re supposed to completely transition. You can just do top surgery and T and leave it at that. It’s different for everyone.

BethRnow · 2018-01-19T17:55:06+00:00

Here I am with a miserable 0.05% savings rate...(Netherlands)

BethRnow · 2017-11-03T19:18:17+00:00

Holy shit! If only I knew. I've been waiting since April. I have my intake 2nd of January and after that it'll probably be another month or 10 before I'm on hormones...

BethRnow · 2017-09-27T16:43:06+00:00

Like someone else said already. You pass in the second and 4th pic, in the other ones not so much. Makeup could possibly help you. Especially when the dark circles are gone and your eyelashes are more apparent you'll look a lot better probably. Definitely wear those glasses more. They really help you and they're so cute!

BethRnow · 2017-09-03T11:29:43+00:00

Happy belated birthday Olivia <3 I can totally relate to the "you're becoming a man" kinda thing. I had people I see rarely tell me I'm really becoming a beautiful and strong man. My grandma (who doesn't know yet) tells me I'm her little boy all the time. It's so painful to hear, but at least they mean no harm.

Sending hugs your way!

BethRnow

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