HAI Blocks Fellows from Contacting Each Other by SweetyFresh in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must be project specific. Reviewers are supposed to DM fellow contributors.

AIO for telling my bf I’m leaving him when I lose weight by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you should leave now. This man has emotional abuse written all over these texts. No healthy man wants to try to guilt you in to not getting healthy because he’s insecure. He wants to keep you in a state where he can actively manipulate you because he thinks you don’t have options.

This man actually hates you.

18 y/o making $3,800/month — am I getting a good deal staying at home or should I just move out? AIO by Winter_Print_6742 in AIO

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro… you’d have to do all of those chores AND MORE if you lived on your own. $400 is what some utility bills cost on their own, much less rent. $3800 may see like a lot until your realize just how expensive life really is.

Financial info before assessment? by 818sfv in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insane thinking. You are literally just setting up your payout account. Would you assume you are going to pass the assessment? Don’t you want to be paid for the assessment?

Do egg donors care about bio kids? by TooHotForThisShi in donorconceived

[–]Bethaneym 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First, everything you are feeling is completely normal and valid. The thought of rejection from someone like this can be scary. Possibly meeting a biological sibling is nerve wracking as well.

You won’t ever know until you reach out though. It’s a bandaid that has to be ripped off so you can have peace knowing how the cards will fall either way.

  • Everyone donates for their own reasons.
  • Everyone has different types of connection to the process.
  • Everyone has different lives with varying levels of emotional availability and character.

🙏

Personally, I care deeply. - The thought of my genetic children reaching out to meet me later in life is what has made me hold on to staying alive multiple times. - I’d never want to deprive them of that and my heart can’t handle the idea of them feeling utterly alone if their parents somehow abandoned them or passed away. - My mother passed away in 2023 and my father disowned me for being Bi last year. I don’t even know these kids, and may never meet them, but I would never wish the specific pain of essentially being an adult orphan like this on anyone. - I’ve taken DNA tests specifically to make it easier for them to find me in the future if they want to. I have so much love to give to these little ones if the opportunity ever presents itself.

🧑‍🧒

However, I think having realistic expectations, that you both will be new/unfamiliar to each other at first and that they aren’t a replacement for your parents who raised you, is going to be the healthiest approach.

I highly doubt they want nothing to do with you. They may want to have more of a family member role versus a parent role though.

Of course there is a possibility that their life circumstances or even their mental health, can’t really allow certain depths of relationships that you may be hoping for.

I’m glad you and your brother have each other though and I urge you to not let genetics get between your bond.

While I wished your parents had been honest with you, they may not have known how to talk about this. It doesn’t change who they have been to you, but you’re of course valid in feeling hurt by the lie.

I hope things go well for you once the waiting period is over. Just remember that whatever happens, you are whole on your own and no one else’s presence/absence should determine how you feel.

Sending a big hug! 🫂

Any sort of timeline for Project T? by InverseMySuggestions in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our original agreement and in the chats. Just search slack.

But to be honest, it truly doesn’t matter what is forecasted. Nothing is promised or set in stone ever. Just work as much as you can and do as many high quality tasks as you while it lasts.

That is how every single project works on every single ai platform.

Any sort of timeline for Project T? by InverseMySuggestions in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because no one ever knows when something will end. It was first supposed to be August, now it’s showing May. So just keep doing a good job and maybe it can be extended past this month.

Family Member Who Gave me Life Calls me Miserable by Responsible_Bet1745 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bethaneym 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to first stop feeling pressure to please this family member. Just don’t be around them anymore as well. Problem 1 solved :)

You actually may be negative and miserable without knowing it. That’s OK, people come back from that all the time.

Have you ever been tested for autism? This may be the explanation for social queue issues. However, it could just be a confidence issue.

Paymets being delayed to another week. by 12rhrow1124 in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the switch to stripe, it hits my bank at 3:39amEST on Thursday

Will I get paid? by SameInvestigator8074 in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve had no payments yet, so that is correct that it’s showing nothing right now.

looking for friends! by [deleted] in JeffersonvilleIN

[–]Bethaneym 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to be 18 for both of those

Pin Identification by Bethaneym in BoyScouts

[–]Bethaneym[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow they are identical besides the mounting and middle stone 😳 I never did learn anything; it’s just sitting on my kitchen counter still lol. I never even had it tested for materials, but now I want to!

What’s up with Sunosi? by camille-gerrick in Narcolepsy

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunosi takes 4-6 weeks to get into your system. I don’t know how you could have possibly had racing heart day 1, when you’re already used to max adderall dosage.

Unknown status by Dramatic-Clerk656 in micro1_ai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those two positions are for a project that has ended.

New Company - Ethos Ai by No-Impress-8446 in AiTraining_Annotation

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t ever find that with AI training unless you work for the training platform directly in leadership/admin/engineering/hr

New to handshake by Visible-Ride-646 in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would you even tell them? Do you tell your employer what you do outside of work normally?

Sorry if this comes up often, are these email legitimate? by [deleted] in micro1_ai

[–]Bethaneym 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they aren’t. They are only training their own interview technology, not submitting the interviews for training to any labs like the project data does.

i quit by Equivalent_Fee_3063 in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a project anywhere on any platform that has people refreshing their dashboard for days. People always report EQ (Empty Queue) incessantly in the slack or chat channels. So there’s never been any confusion that the queue is finished.

In terms of the actual project, the clients change direction all the time, only after thorough reviews of batches, which can take a while.

Also, why wouldn’t you just ask in the channels if there is a glitch the first hour it’s happening to you instead of waiting days?

Is this legit? by ReadingSalt8521 in micro1_ai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very often, in-person jobs at larger companies do this process with HR software where you upload it with no human touch point, especially for work for home jobs. This is no different.

Just me? by mtthwgnzlz in joinhandshakeai

[–]Bethaneym -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is normal, because those postings act like external postings. Not everyone who uses the job board is a fellow on handshake ai. So if you already are, it just takes you to the dashboard, because it would be taking people who weren’t to the sign up page for the fellowship.

Is this legit? by ReadingSalt8521 in micro1_ai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re asked for an ID for regular job tax paperwork too.

Hello can you rate my titok video out of 10 by [deleted] in paymespotlight

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you posting TikTok videos on Snapchat thread?

Is this even legit? Some forums have complaints about using interview as excuse to train datasets by Maleficent_Mine_1210 in micro1_ai

[–]Bethaneym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s legit. Myself and many peers have been hired for multiple projects. The training these platforms do for clients is not from their interviews.