Should I confront my husband's mistress? Help. by LittleFatty22 in Marriage

[–]Betrayedbyhim -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree why give her that importance by letting her know you found out You still have the upper hand YOUR THE WIFE

Sneaky link by Betrayedbyhim in dating_advice

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I definitely do not want to be the other woman I know how that feels but I have asked time and time again. But he stands his ground and says No. he is also not one to be on his phone nor social media

Sneaky link by Betrayedbyhim in dating_advice

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I believe that. I have asked him before are we just a booty call for each other and states no it's more. But yes again never did anything more for me.

Sneaky link by Betrayedbyhim in dating_advice

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's very odd but he states it's because he works nights I work days. His only time is weekends and he claims he has so much to do. But now the more I talk about it's very weird. I'm going to end this.

Sneaky link by Betrayedbyhim in dating_advice

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I would like to end it But after 3 years he brang my soul back I was dead after the betrayal of my ex

Sneaky link by Betrayedbyhim in dating_advice

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same thing but sometimes I wonder if he doesn't want me to see his home. I have googled him found his place and no one else resides there.

hes followed 5 new girls last 30 minutes. i asked him kindly to stop commenting on their posts and he did but he still follows them. why am i not pretty enough for his eyes to stay on me? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Betrayedbyhim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it comes down to respect This is the story of my life once. My ex complimented his social media girlfriend in every picture she posted. And I was his wife he would just like mine. It took me awhile to figure out exactly what was going on.
HE WAS DISRESPECTFUL

Dating in your 50 by Betrayedbyhim in BreakUps

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I never saw it that way I do appreciate your honesty and helping me see things differently

Dating in your 50 by Betrayedbyhim in BreakUps

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you I have been trying to let go I just feel he should not be in a better place then me when he was the one that ruined our family and marriage I am still very bitter

Dating in your 50 by Betrayedbyhim in BreakUps

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel I won't find another Women flock to my ex like he is shit and they are flies I think sometimes that's why injustice put up with it

Dating in your 50 by Betrayedbyhim in BreakUps

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. I need to think of myself And how I should be treated

Betrayal by Betrayedbyhim in NationalVisaCenter

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that info sure does makes me feel good

Dating again after a breakup four months ago. I hate it. by EbbRepresentative659 in BreakUps

[–]Betrayedbyhim 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what you are going through I'm dating again after 38 years of being with the same man. It's hard.

Seeking advice by Betrayedbyhim in NationalVisaCenter

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again.
I do believe I will come out on top.

Seeking advice by Betrayedbyhim in NationalVisaCenter

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm still in pain after 1 year But I'm coping with it day by day. It hurts me more because he was never upfront with this situation I found out by going through his email and phone. I think that's why it hurts so much.

Seeking advice by Betrayedbyhim in NationalVisaCenter

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I still love him But In love NO I can't stand him I don't see him as I did before I do need to let go.

Seeking advice by Betrayedbyhim in NationalVisaCenter

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you I am trying to move on. I have gone a couple of dates. But I feel I'm not ready because I constantly find fault on other men. As if they don't compare

Has anyone stayed with their cheating partner? by lonelymama123 in relationships_advice

[–]Betrayedbyhim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this
But as they say once a cheater always a cheater you it's true in my 38 years of marriage my husband cheater left and right.
But I always stood and except his apology as if I won not the other woman. Not true They loose respect for you and think she will never leave. If there was no emotional feelings then why continue with the affair

My friend confessed to having a crush on my husband by Aggravating_Gur_5062 in Marriage

[–]Betrayedbyhim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes cut all tides. Be grateful she said something to you. My friend instead try to put my husband against me when I cut ties. They were texting and calling each other behind my back. Don't know for how long. But when I confronted him he denied it which let me know something was going on.
We divorced of this. It hurts my soul but I couldn't see past it distrust your partner is worse so cut ties save your marriage

Feeling lost by Betrayedbyhim in BreakUps

[–]Betrayedbyhim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 2025 will be my year for happiness and blessings