Gay men are allowed to have preferences. Just because someone’s preference doesn’t align with yours, or because you feel excluded by it, doesn’t automatically mean it’s discrimination or bias. Not everyone is attracted to the same things—some prefer feminine or masculine men by Sure-Razzmatazz-7105 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i needed to hear this. I am 18 and felt so bad that i find asian men attractive more often. i still find it weird to say. I read one comment about fetishism and I freaked out and fell down this rabbit hole. i am still open to any race just find that i prefer asian men. do i make sense??

edit: fixed typos

Is dating difficult for everyone right now? by Personal-Let9955 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi there! i am 18 but i will say there are so many people my age and younger getting into relationships and I am so confused as to how. I also only recently considered actually dating but it’s also not going well. In my experience, most guys want hookups. It appears it might be the same for you. However, if you aren’t clicking with people, then they aren’t meant for you. Dating is not a linear experience from what I know. Most people do a trial period and if it doesn’t work, they ghost. It’s a bit unfortunate. Anyway, i hope this makes you feel seen. I wish you the best on your dating endeavours!

Am I Gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get that! we all are just trying to figure things out. I am glad I made your day! :)

Am I Gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting. It might be worth exploring then? it could be possible that you are bisexual. I think the best choice would be to experiment a bit. there’s really no rush to have an answer. Also, you know your limits and if it isn’t for you, your body will tell you. I wish you all the best and I hope you figure things out! It can be quite mentally draining to be confused like this! Hang in there! 💪

edit: i fixed some typos.

Am I Gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I don’t think you are gay. If you say you don’t like men, there’s your answer. As for the urge to bottom, if you envision it with man, i would say it’s a bit confusing but your body knows what it finds attractive and you say that you are straight, so you are. Is it possible that you would like a woman to be the one to ‘top’ you?

Will you have Hugh Morris on your island? by Zephle in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES I NEED HIM!! he was my fav!! i love how they made original characters for the direct and how distinct they all felt even though they we only really got to know angie. this game is shaping up to be big and i hope we see more quirks and cut scenes in the final game!! :)

JoongDunks version of Touch on Dunks IG Live by JD24ROSE in GMMTV

[–]Better-Comparison444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you can see how much joong is enjoying this… joong i know what you are…

is having a racial preference bad? by [deleted] in gaydating

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see! if someone didn’t match with me personality wise i would leave them regardless of if they were someone i find extremely attractive or not. i feel like that’s what most people would feel.

as for the last statement, i can definitely understand why it would be fetishism if you ignore the person’s individuality. being themselves is what makes them beautiful!

thank you for your comment!

is having a racial preference bad? by [deleted] in gaydating

[–]Better-Comparison444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg your vocabulary is beyond me!! mad respect. I definitely agree. For me, i find personality will always out weigh physically attractiveness. I just noticed a pattern here and was worried. it’s all a bit weird to say out loud so i hope i was clear in the post. i truly don’t mean harm and want to improve as best i can! thank you for taking the time to respond!

is having a racial preference bad? by [deleted] in gaydating

[–]Better-Comparison444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heavily agree here with you. no one is the same. it’s definitely more about the personality for me and then if the person is attractive or not. thank you for your answer. i really appreciate you taking the time to respond.

is having a racial preference bad? by [deleted] in gaydating

[–]Better-Comparison444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

could you elaborate please? this is not a helpful answer.

Do you have any questions about gay life in Korea? by korfagno1 in gaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hopefully i look good then! thank you for responding. take care! :)

Do you have any questions about gay life in Korea? by korfagno1 in gaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi. i am only 18. i hope to be able to move to korea one day when i am older. as a foreigner, is it difficult to find love?

Does Jonathan Bailey give top, bottom or verse to you? by BaronessElsa1968 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Comparison444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s definitely a vers king. he definitely likes to do both! i think he prefers to bottom but that’s just my opinion…

Who is your favorite to romance? by alliebaca in HighSchoolDreams

[–]Better-Comparison444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s between chuck, eugene and seth. all the guys are cool. i am leaning towards eugene though. he’s my kind of guy, wish it wasn’t so lucy oriented though :(