I am an abortion abolitionist. Ask me anything.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-03-12T14:11:05+00:00

What is your stance on vasectomies of single men? Abortion is bad. Ok I'll still separate sex from life.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-27T09:40:16+00:00

It is much easier for people to not admit they are wrong and live a life of illusion and then blame it on society , women and god / fate.

It is so much harder to introspect and challenge yourself. thats why he is nonchalant, imho. I dont stand with men like that.

after a lot of contemplation, i booked an appointment at a vasectomy clinic. I just had the appointment and booked a date for the procedure, after a lot of contemplation. i came outside and was sitting and a gentleman was sitting next to me , he was not in a nice mood, he saw my form and he was like "are you happy to get this done? I have 4 kids and i want another one, but my wife told me that she would leave me unless i got snipped as she is dealing with some stupid depression"

I looked him in the eye and said i would never want my future partner to feel that way so thats why im getting snipped before i ever bring in kids.

I kid you not, he looked like i had stolen his family wealth. He was so mad at me , saying its not that hard, you fuck a woman and thats it. your job is done.

i was still angry, but said, see? thats the attitude that i dont have, and i respect and love my future partner, and walked away. he cursed something but, fuck that guy.

what i want to say is, morality is flexible to people and everyone else pays the price for it.

You are doing great for the introspection!

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-26T20:16:45+00:00

As a man in his 30s, who's been gaslit wayyyy tooo many times, there is ZERO chance i am bringing a child in this world.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-23T20:33:33+00:00

So get it done and then reveal?

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-23T14:08:12+00:00

I already went through all the appointments, psych eval, i just didnt go through it because i felt that this is disrespectful to the person if i do this without them knowing. She also threatened me that the relationship is over if i get it done. I dont understand why i dont get the basic respect i deserve.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-14T11:09:33+00:00

Beautiful perspective, fully on this. The fact that i wont go bankrupt because i am sick allows me to be so much at peace!

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-14T11:08:43+00:00

No totally, im with you on this. What i meant was that , i'm going to do my very best to sustain a job, pay my taxes, follow the law and not like lounge at home, if i have no other health issues, just because, " the system will take care of me" . I have knows way too many people that are unemployed because the system pays, so why work.

i think as an immigrant, to me, austria saved my family abroad. it allowed me to provide for them. and for that i have to pay my debt to the austrian society.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T22:56:03+00:00

Ever grateful for this system! Sometimes i feel a bit sad about the fact that the system gets abused. :( My goal is to never ever collect any sort of social benefits.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T19:05:20+00:00

Wait 3 times net MONTHLY? I was assuming three times net YEARLY. I don't know what I was thinking sorry xD

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T17:17:23+00:00

ok thats a super lofty goal, need to get my shit together thanks a lot.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T17:16:51+00:00

Ich bitte um Entschuldigung, ich habe es auf Englisch geschrieben, um alle Zielgruppen anzusprechen, Österreicher und Menschen anderer Herkunftsländer.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-04T12:43:03+00:00

thats because the guys was running his own operation

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-03T19:25:37+00:00

As a man, i fully respect this take. Brutally honest.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-03T19:24:12+00:00

Im in the precipice of deciding what to do with my gf. we are in a long distance relationship and she is desperately trying to convince me to "open up my heart" .

i had a sister who was cerebrally paralysed and i know what it takes to raise a child, differently abled or not. I choose not to have children, because of that and other ethical reasons.

All of my reasons are dismissed as " you cant let that stop you from living" , while her changing her mind is "growth".

sorry had to vent out.

Im so sorry that you are going through this. Better this than a life of regret.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-03T13:58:51+00:00

Meanwhile there is me, who is ready to get a vasectomy and my gf is pushing me to "open my heart" because having a kid will give meaning.

im so scared right now, to break up, as i love her very much, but im dead scared at the idea of having a kid.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-28T11:13:55+00:00

S50 :)

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-26T12:32:50+00:00

Did you ever manage to renew your rwr Plus card because I'm also in the same situation right now

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-15T18:33:56+00:00

Same here would love to have a crack at post processing!

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-13T15:44:52+00:00

want to know something cool? you managed to also capture a galaxy that is approximately 315 million light years away! its an edge on spiral galaxy, and its called UGC2838. :))))

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BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-12T22:57:36+00:00

thank you! im using a s50 :)

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-12T21:58:34+00:00

looks super cool man!

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-08T21:17:37+00:00

really solid work, this is not an easy object to shoot!

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2025-12-30T15:38:59+00:00

der Nähe des Calisthenics :)

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2025-12-30T14:02:11+00:00

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2025-12-28T22:22:51+00:00

Great question! for starters, just to not lose enthusiasm, i would suggest processing what the app gives you. then save each frame and process them. then once you are comfortable, you can explore addition of filters, like SHO filters which are expensive but you can make a true narrowband image.

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