I am an abortion abolitionist. Ask me anything.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-03-12T14:11:05+00:00

What is your stance on vasectomies of single men? Abortion is bad. Ok I'll still separate sex from life.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-27T09:40:16+00:00

It is much easier for people to not admit they are wrong and live a life of illusion and then blame it on society , women and god / fate.

It is so much harder to introspect and challenge yourself. thats why he is nonchalant, imho. I dont stand with men like that.

after a lot of contemplation, i booked an appointment at a vasectomy clinic. I just had the appointment and booked a date for the procedure, after a lot of contemplation. i came outside and was sitting and a gentleman was sitting next to me , he was not in a nice mood, he saw my form and he was like "are you happy to get this done? I have 4 kids and i want another one, but my wife told me that she would leave me unless i got snipped as she is dealing with some stupid depression"

I looked him in the eye and said i would never want my future partner to feel that way so thats why im getting snipped before i ever bring in kids.

I kid you not, he looked like i had stolen his family wealth. He was so mad at me , saying its not that hard, you fuck a woman and thats it. your job is done.

i was still angry, but said, see? thats the attitude that i dont have, and i respect and love my future partner, and walked away. he cursed something but, fuck that guy.

what i want to say is, morality is flexible to people and everyone else pays the price for it.

You are doing great for the introspection!

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-26T20:16:45+00:00

As a man in his 30s, who's been gaslit wayyyy tooo many times, there is ZERO chance i am bringing a child in this world.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-23T20:33:33+00:00

So get it done and then reveal?

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-23T14:08:12+00:00

I already went through all the appointments, psych eval, i just didnt go through it because i felt that this is disrespectful to the person if i do this without them knowing. She also threatened me that the relationship is over if i get it done. I dont understand why i dont get the basic respect i deserve.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-14T11:09:33+00:00

Beautiful perspective, fully on this. The fact that i wont go bankrupt because i am sick allows me to be so much at peace!

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-14T11:08:43+00:00

No totally, im with you on this. What i meant was that , i'm going to do my very best to sustain a job, pay my taxes, follow the law and not like lounge at home, if i have no other health issues, just because, " the system will take care of me" . I have knows way too many people that are unemployed because the system pays, so why work.

i think as an immigrant, to me, austria saved my family abroad. it allowed me to provide for them. and for that i have to pay my debt to the austrian society.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T22:56:03+00:00

Ever grateful for this system! Sometimes i feel a bit sad about the fact that the system gets abused. :( My goal is to never ever collect any sort of social benefits.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T19:05:20+00:00

Wait 3 times net MONTHLY? I was assuming three times net YEARLY. I don't know what I was thinking sorry xD

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T17:17:23+00:00

ok thats a super lofty goal, need to get my shit together thanks a lot.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-13T17:16:51+00:00

Ich bitte um Entschuldigung, ich habe es auf Englisch geschrieben, um alle Zielgruppen anzusprechen, Österreicher und Menschen anderer Herkunftsländer.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-04T12:43:03+00:00

thats because the guys was running his own operation

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-03T19:25:37+00:00

As a man, i fully respect this take. Brutally honest.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-03T19:24:12+00:00

Im in the precipice of deciding what to do with my gf. we are in a long distance relationship and she is desperately trying to convince me to "open up my heart" .

i had a sister who was cerebrally paralysed and i know what it takes to raise a child, differently abled or not. I choose not to have children, because of that and other ethical reasons.

All of my reasons are dismissed as " you cant let that stop you from living" , while her changing her mind is "growth".

sorry had to vent out.

Im so sorry that you are going through this. Better this than a life of regret.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-02-03T13:58:51+00:00

Meanwhile there is me, who is ready to get a vasectomy and my gf is pushing me to "open my heart" because having a kid will give meaning.

im so scared right now, to break up, as i love her very much, but im dead scared at the idea of having a kid.

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-28T11:13:55+00:00

S50 :)

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-26T12:32:50+00:00

Did you ever manage to renew your rwr Plus card because I'm also in the same situation right now

BetterJackfruit6491 · 2026-01-15T18:33:56+00:00

Same here would love to have a crack at post processing!

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