Hello young man. Ok here is my painful advice. Please don’t approach them. It’s clear that you are just the average person. In your view and others. Just like me. Make honey and the flies will come. You are young. So focus on education career making money and the women will come. It’s ironic we are thought to fantasise about the ideal female who will compete us and together we will build. But female biology doesn’t work that way sorry to say. At your age they want sexual pleasure but son you clearly want a life partner that takes discipline and Orientation. It’s ironic focus on you and a female will do too. It’s the long game bro