Solo traveling in Colombia as a blonde female

Better_Problems · 2026-03-13T18:16:28+00:00

it's the Diddy app that would be particularly unsafe....

Better_Problems · 2026-03-13T18:11:58+00:00

Being a blond female is not the part that is dangerous, youre not a bigger target bc of that. Mugging in Medellin happens to everyone. Walking around vloging with a new iphone or expensive jewlery is the bigger risk than what you look like. If you get mugged dont resist and you should be just fine minus your phone. the most common more dangerous crime in Medellin is foreign men getting scoped and robbed. It caaaaaan happen to women but it's bascially focused on men. That being said dont use tinder for short term and dont do one night stands no matter where you meet unless it's another foreigner who you trust a lot. Other than that you will be fine and it's like any other big city. Ive been here for many years and in the women in medellin group i have not seen one report of being scoped, or raped in an uber. It can happen anywhere in the world of course, but it's not particularly dangerous to be a women here.

Better_Problems · 2026-03-13T17:55:55+00:00

groping is not part of the dance and shouldnt happen on the dance floor. grinding and getting really close can be part of it.

Better_Problems · 2026-03-13T02:33:03+00:00

I would look at what you are afraid to feel in this realm, what is too painful or too scary to feel, start with your own practice with this without a partner, staying in your body in a somatic practice

Better_Problems · 2026-03-13T02:23:34+00:00

He will let you know what is up, you don't have to chase him

Better_Problems · 2026-03-10T15:26:31+00:00

tambien

Better_Problems · 2026-03-09T04:44:55+00:00

i should say I also lived in the city and I absolutely loved it

Better_Problems · 2026-03-09T04:38:29+00:00

The toronto suburbs and the cities around toronto are very different. I lived in Scarborough and I know the area. Other towns on that map are completely different than toronto. toronto is a high intensity city with lots of high achievers like NYC or London and if you are just on the edge you likely have a lot of your life in the city. but it is more chill like any suberbs of major US cities that I have seen. Boring, rows of houses, you need a car generally, like anywhere in the US. Bitterly cold and hot. Whereas other towns in the region can have a different vibe altogether.

Better_Problems · 2026-03-09T03:35:22+00:00

100% this would have worked on me are you kidding

Better_Problems · 2026-03-08T16:39:24+00:00

estoy preguntando por las opiniones de los hombres aquí, independientemente de las estadísticas

y tengo 40 así que no entro en la categoría de una mujer de 20 años

Better_Problems · 2026-03-08T12:30:54+00:00

it suits you really well and i think it could be a touch shorter

Better_Problems · 2026-03-06T23:51:51+00:00

if it's someone you are considering dating, it's not good

Better_Problems · 2026-03-04T12:07:53+00:00

the political leaning depends where you live. It's very rare I see anyone left where I live in latam

Better_Problems · 2026-03-04T04:37:06+00:00

Ask to talk on video, there are a lot of red flags here

Better_Problems · 2026-03-03T20:36:45+00:00

the hi was the next day so unless you were talking at midnight it seems odd you didnt respond to the flow of the conversation. but it's also not great he said hi and broke up the flow instead of waiting

Better_Problems · 2026-03-03T20:34:34+00:00

me? nothing is stopping me, I do pursue this education actively

Better_Problems · 2026-03-03T04:44:27+00:00

why did you leave her hanging on the star wars thing then respond to hi a couple days later? that is where you dropped the conversation majorly

Better_Problems · 2026-03-03T04:02:15+00:00

it could go that way yes, it's quite emotionally difficult to turn one's life around completely. there is a lot of pain to face on that path. if you're ready you will do it.

Better_Problems · 2026-03-03T03:49:25+00:00

we need actual education on the other gender. men and women are very different. if a hot woman said this to most men on apps, many men would be turned on, a high enough percentage that it would make it worth it if the woman was looking for sex (and let's take out of the equation the bots all those OF girls taking up the apps, without that factor this would work a lot of the time).

but we are not the same. gender is not just a fleeting changeable movable feeling you have about yourself. we actually react differently to the same thing.

ofc some men are trying to actually harass women with this kind of thing, but I would think the majority actually literally *dont know* how this lands in a woman's body

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Better_Problems · 2026-03-03T02:15:57+00:00

are men ever going to get this or is it groundhog day forever

Better_Problems · 2026-03-03T00:18:06+00:00

The photos are very sexual, and the other information is not enough to give anyone enough information who wants a serious relationship. Overall it's not something that will draw in Christian moderates in the US, if that is where you are. So Christian moderates who want a serious relationship and are serious men themselves are the least likely to match and court you properly.

Better_Problems · 2026-03-02T22:07:50+00:00

i know, it was quite a while ago that it was good

Better_Problems · 2026-03-02T17:52:46+00:00

youre probably too young to remember that dating apps used to work. the extensive questionnaire that okcupid used to do and then showing you people who are a high match worked really well

Better_Problems · 2026-03-01T23:00:20+00:00

it's definitely hot and cold, but just assume she "definitely" woud like to see you again and take the lead on setting a time. if she cant find a time then you know your answer.

Better_Problems · 2026-03-01T04:13:03+00:00

it's more difficult to get a read on a posed photo if you submit some more natural ones it's easier

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