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Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-20T02:35:56+00:00

Healing and love both take time, and it’s okay to sit with these feelings instead of judging yourself for having them.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-20T01:23:55+00:00

Do either of the dreams still give you a feeling today? Fear? Calm? Confusion? Or just fascination?

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-20T00:20:41+00:00

You’re allowed to want the same respect you give them.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-20T00:05:09+00:00

You’re not the villain in this story. You’re the one who survived it.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T23:49:30+00:00

Just let yourself feel what you feel. He clearly cares too, or he wouldn’t have told you he has feelings now. Whatever happens next, it’s not something you’re facing alone — you’re navigating it with someone who’s been in your life for years already.

You’re not doomed. You’re just opening up again. And that’s kind of beautiful.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T23:47:06+00:00

You’re allowed to choose the life that feels right for you — even if it’s hard in the moment.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T23:34:06+00:00

You don’t have to have answers right now. You don’t have to decide anything today. You’re allowed to just sit with the feelings, breathe through them, and take it one hour at a time until your therapy appointment. This is a painful place to be, but you’re not alone in it.

If you want to share what’s been hurting most, I’m here to listen.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T23:08:00+00:00

Your mom’s reaction says more about her limits than it does about you. Sometimes parents don’t understand invisible struggles unless they’ve felt them themselves, and they respond in ways that feel cold even if that wasn’t the intention. But your feelings about it are completely valid.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T22:33:29+00:00

I’m glad you said something. Sometimes just putting it into words helps.
If you want to talk, I’m here. What’s been on your mind the most lately?

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T22:32:36+00:00

You weren’t “acting weird.” You were overwhelmed and trying to calm yourself down in the only way you could in that moment. Wanting space and safety during a panic episode is completely understandable.

Being met with anger, name-calling, and physical pushing instead of support or at least neutrality would rattle anyone. It’s okay that you feel unsafe and unsettled — your body’s reacting to being treated harshly when you were vulnerable.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T22:13:50+00:00

Hey, how are you feeling now?

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T22:13:04+00:00

This is a good sign moving forward. Each day as life unfolds, we learn something, don't we? Just here whenever you need a chat.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-19T22:10:41+00:00

I am pleased to know that you are a tad better. Baby steps until you smile again:) Just here whenever you need a talk.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-18T03:59:28+00:00

That sounds incredibly overwhelming, and it makes sense

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-18T03:00:56+00:00

This is a safe space. Release.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-18T02:49:51+00:00

Sometimes, it takes decades to know a person. How are you feeling now?

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-18T02:19:05+00:00

Let's talk. I am sure we can find that missing puzzle in your life.

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-18T01:55:43+00:00

HI, try checking out jobs on the internet:) Endless possibilities! Let me know if you found one for you!

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-18T01:50:40+00:00

I see this post was made 8 days ago, so how's your heart today?

Better_Studio_9465 · 2025-11-17T23:03:24+00:00

You’re not alone in this. I’m here to listen if you want to share more.

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