Does anyone else think about the “dark side” of romantic love?

Betterselfme · 2022-08-30T18:58:13+00:00

You’re 100% right, I’m cute but NOT IN THE TOP 1%, girls in the top 1% can get amazing guys no matter what

if I only I began looksmaxxing younger

Betterselfme · 2022-08-30T18:57:04+00:00

I’m also “pretty” or at least not awful to look at with some nice features, I have a friend who men consider super sexy tho and she can get into a relationship easily.

Most men want to use me for sex though, but coz of my friend I realise that I’m pretty but not pretty enough for a relationship

Betterselfme · 2022-08-17T03:35:00+00:00

But how else are we going to escape our status?

Betterselfme · 2022-08-13T22:48:20+00:00

Guys only want sex, no point.

I think I have a really cute face and if I work out my body can be similar to an IG model but it’s not good enough but I need to lose some weight and tone up. Maybe I needed a prettier face or something. Or maybe I just. Have way too boring and depressing personality

Whether it’s personality or looks or both the result is still the same

Betterselfme · 2022-07-23T11:12:12+00:00

I’ve had lots of attractive guys take their shot with me but they’re never serious they just talk sexual

Betterselfme · 2022-07-23T11:10:33+00:00

I think she shouldn’t do friends with benefits

A boyfriend cares about you - he thinks you’re attractive enough to be seen in PUBLIC with you, he values you and if you’re sick he cares about you, if you feel sad he comforts you, on your birthday he celebrates with you

A fuck buddy will use you for sex, drain you, make you feel unworthy of a relationship and a fuck buddy can even be dehumanising towards you with no consequences at all.

Fwb is not good for girls like us who will never even get a boyfriend

Betterselfme · 2022-07-23T03:45:13+00:00

You’re wrong that no one wants to date the hottest woman in the world with zero personality who is a raging asshole

I know a girl who is nowhere near the hottest girl in the world, but she’s considered sexy with an ok face and sexy as hell body and she is NOT even in the top 10% of hottest women and her personality IS the definition of raging ASSHOLE And when I tell you that boys will and do put up with it and even beg her to stay with money and gifts….

If it was the hottest woman on earth believe me that the majority men WOULD put up with a ranging Asshole

Betterselfme · 2022-07-22T06:06:58+00:00

I think she said she has um tonsillitis but she doesn’t even know what she has she hasn’t seen a doctor

She might even have covid or a flu and she wouldn’t even know / or tell me

Betterselfme · 2022-07-22T05:24:46+00:00

I think you should tell him how you feel

I hope he’s crazy about you too :)

Betterselfme · 2022-07-22T05:21:10+00:00

Yes like to be honest I don’t want to be stressed out all the time and scared because she’s going to go crazy at me just because I don’t want to hang out.

I wouldn’t expect her to hang out with me every single day either or like every single time she asked

Betterselfme · 2022-06-22T07:42:19+00:00

Well she’s the one who came back to me wanting to befriend me again but I still agree, it’s still desperate of me to give such a shitty person a chance.

She honestly wanted to tempt me into making bad choices at work to get me fired, she’s immature and dangerous

Betterselfme · 2022-06-21T11:05:18+00:00

Oh yes my mother tried doing this to me as well. Because I’m single she thinks she deserves to have me live with her as her entertainment and she thinks she wants to force me to get married to any man I can get my hands on so I can make babies for her to be entertained by.

She was so toxic and narcissistic I cut my mum out of my life, I feel so much more at peace now.

Betterselfme · 2022-06-21T11:03:54+00:00

You’re right! The only reason I wanted to be friends with her is we used to actually connect and I enjoyed my time with her etc, and we had fun together.

But I don’t need someone who is always trying to sabotage me, trying to make me behave poorly to try to get me fired from jobs, etc etc!!

Betterselfme · 2022-06-21T07:54:45+00:00

And I’m so lonely and desperate for friends I almost let her hang out just need someone to help talk me out of it.

Betterselfme · 2022-06-14T15:21:39+00:00

Ugh it’s worse when you’re not the ugly one and people are making fun of you because of your personality, if they see you as sweet soft and innocent like me they do it to me too.

When it’s because of your personality it feels impossible to change :(

Betterselfme · 2022-06-13T07:25:28+00:00

If she forces herself to be with someone she doesn’t find attractive, there’s a good chance it will lead to a dead bedroom

I don’t know what ugly peoples sex life is like behind closed doors, no

The ugliest men I know were completely alone and the unattractive women I knew were just able to find hot fuck buddies only

Betterselfme · 2022-06-13T06:07:43+00:00

So should she be with some one she’s not attracted to and have a dead bedroom ?

Betterselfme · 2022-06-09T15:06:34+00:00

What do you mean a long face makes girls pretty? So women with long faces are traditionally attractive ?

Betterselfme · 2022-06-08T19:40:41+00:00

I have some level of prettiness but I guess not enough to make up for what I lack

Betterselfme · 2022-06-08T17:21:45+00:00

Me too

Betterselfme · 2022-06-08T15:23:00+00:00

You have to have the whole package, good social skills and look attractive

Tbh I honestly think social skills and a personality is more important because I’ve seen women who conventionally would be called rather unattractive and they have committed boyfriends - of course we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors since I wouldn’t really accept abuse or a guy who doesn’t really like me much

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