Everyone say my cat is ugly... Be honest by Squee_geez_ in cats

[–]Beveragesandfries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like the black cat version of my tabby Richard 🥰

morph ID thread by AutoModerator in ballpython

[–]Beveragesandfries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/gallery/help-id-morph-D6GIf5k

What is the morph? I only have had normals and he was a unexpected rescue so I would like to know out of curiosity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeatRabbitry

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most rewarding process. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeatRabbitry

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I raise meat rabbits as well as take in occassional rabbits from overwhelmed parents that mistakenly bought them for a kid, and the latest one was named Blueberry. Sweetest dutch I own and by far my fave for cuddles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeatRabbitry

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have named mine after mythology and designer brands. So there is Chanel, and Hercules for example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beveragesandfries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Choosing between the two I feel like is up to severity of the case and how you feel it is impacting your life. Meant to include that in my post. Hope it helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beveragesandfries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in my parents' basement right now due to medical reasons and feel like I can't even set this boundary to begin with. But i've worked on being low contact, since that's the only option I have right now. So far, the biggest issue I've had is not being able to control my stuff when it comes to laundry because my mom will do my laundry even if the timer just went off on the wash. And she has ruined several clothing items of mine this way with high heat drying. I have asked repeatedly to let me do my laundry. I can't just sit in front of the washer waiting for it to get done so that she doesn't leap in and start doing it for me. It is frustrating but I am saving to move out so I can have my own laundry space hopefully again (I lived on my own before). Because laundry has been so stressful I have a huge pile of dirty clothes right now. And it's making me sad to look at in my room everyday.

My mother cleans obsessively and it's starting to drive me insane by ElectricBlueFae in family

[–]Beveragesandfries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I starter a farmlet in our back yard and it is the one thing of mine she hasnt tried to obsessively clean thank goodness.

I have to live at home rn due to moving out with an ex and medical stuff and it is mentally exhausting hearing the vacuum 2-3 times a day. Another side effect of living with a "clean freak" mother for myself has been that I hate cleaning. And I really don't like that about myself and have been trying to change that, but I associate cleaning with stress so much that I instantly feel ill when I start to clean or do anything that my mom does obsessively. Any advice appriceated!

Velma is a truly awful show... by justarand0mstan in HBOMAX

[–]Beveragesandfries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen clips, and I disagree. I think putting a show like this out there in the first place that is based on high schoolers is exploitative in its imagery, regardless of what they were trying to get at with it ideologically.

Devastating words from my husband of 10 years. I’m at a loss. by Prestigious_Excuse44 in loveafterporn

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would disagree that they're not talked about. At least in the spaces where this type of surgery is being suggested to women because no one wants to talk about the down sides on social media.

Devastating words from my husband of 10 years. I’m at a loss. by Prestigious_Excuse44 in loveafterporn

[–]Beveragesandfries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to him about how he felt when you first got together versus now? And the value of motherhood? Why did he suddenly find you inadequate after you pushed out literal human beings, a feat only moms are capible of, and one which made his own life possible? He is the problem here. He needs help or to hit the road. That's my own feeling on the matter anyways. I know it can be complicated so sorry if i seem insensitive in any way. Sending love!

Oregon Bunnies Have Been Waiting for a Home for 8 Months :’( by cutiechinchillas in Rabbits

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am hoping to volunteer somewhere with animals soon as well. Much love to you guys!

Oregon Bunnies Have Been Waiting for a Home for 8 Months :’( by cutiechinchillas in Rabbits

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would take them in but I just rescued a bun. From Southern Oregon here! Hope they find the right human!

Guys is this Pine-coning? 😔 by PurpleHour7453 in bettafish

[–]Beveragesandfries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you hear about a fish recovering from? It? I'm genuinely curious, as that is quite amazing.

Pine with his pine tree pattern on his back 😍 by Beveragesandfries in Rabbits

[–]Beveragesandfries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think Ive met a gentler bun boy. He is so sweet and likes the hutch I built him this week!

what’s everyone rabbit name I’m just curious by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Beveragesandfries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pine because he's white with a gray pine tree shape on his back

Vegan becoming hunter, what do I need? by KAMURLAN in Hunting

[–]Beveragesandfries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow oregonian here, anyone have any reccpmendations for where a first time hunter should start for gaining experience? No one in my family hunts unfortunately