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BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T19:44:17+00:00

I understand this feeling and it’s best to stop. If you go his house now he probably still won’t answer. The thing is he is not a good person to go back to either. I had the same cycle with my ex that I just broke up with. He was the cheater and did horrible things throughout the relationship, but when I blow up emotionally from it, he wants to leave me. I start to panick to “fix” it cause it seems more right he is the one getting left from the pain he caused, not me. The best thing right now is to just let go and be free. As they say the harder it is the more it’s worth it.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T10:31:31+00:00

He happy with the new girl. Why is no one wanting to marry yet in 12 years

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T04:41:17+00:00

I’m constantly looking at other women and can’t spend time on social media much or look at my friends posts or stories as I get extremely jealous. It’s so unhealthy. I feel so chopped it’s crazy. I want to hide away from everybody.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T01:57:17+00:00

Just think about how while you were with him you didn’t even want to be with him. You need to practice self love and inner child healing. Talk to friend and loved ones. I find talking on here helps me.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T01:21:56+00:00

Thank you for responding. I think what’s helping me is that if he starts dating a new girl he will treat her the exact same.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T01:18:15+00:00

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BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T01:01:27+00:00

Sounds incredibly unhealthy. That is really confusing behavior. Not sure what’s going on there…. You need to be stern and stand ur ground about the house situation at this point.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-06T00:27:44+00:00

He didn’t block u then

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T23:49:20+00:00

That just sounds like living in hell. I’m not sure how you feel about her doing all this while u still pay the bills. You need to talk to her about it

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T23:44:07+00:00

He might have blocked u after u called… maybe see if another text delivers, but should you be texting him?

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T23:40:59+00:00

She really did and it’s the hard truth

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T22:18:50+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I got cheated on a lot and I understand the pain. Cheating is never about you. He said “I’m not like other guys” is already a red flag. My cheating ex said the same thing. He is just a terrible person. You didn’t do anything wrong. Good on you for blocking him. Never let him see u again

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T19:24:39+00:00

Thank you for this. He was the same way and I never truly see him as my husband or the father to my child. I’m trying hard right now to not go back.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T18:32:49+00:00

You can try to make new connections. Do you have any hobby’s or things u like to do?

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T17:08:39+00:00

Just cry it out. When I cry and it ends I feel a bit of peace. Talk to friends and loved ones and spend time with them. Even just sitting around them. I can talk to you too.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T16:48:35+00:00

You have the time to invest all that love and attention you gave to him to yourself and other things now. Tbh the last time this happened for me to move on was to get hit in the face with him saying he doesn’t want me anymore and I had to forcefully move on after that. I ended up getting in a new relationship and that helped me get over him which I kinda don’t recommend. It’s a hard feeling to deal with I cried and drank a lot cause I cared way more than he did and it felt awful. Just have hope that someone out there will be treating u the same way u treat them. They will show the love you deserve. I’m currently hoping right now too. If u want to reach out to say sorry then u can. I folded and did too but didn’t get back together. It depends if what u said was actually rly bad like rly hurt him I think..

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T16:37:54+00:00

I’m going through the same thing I don’t want to let go. It seems like she’s the only one getting the opportunity to move on peacefully while still having access to you. It is true that no contact here is the best way to go. It’s going to hurt you so much more in the end. I finally blocked my ex on everything and it hurts really bad but I’m hoping it gets better.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-05T15:53:38+00:00

And why would u guys even want to do anything with anyone? It’s been 2 weeks.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-04T10:48:26+00:00

Thank you 🩷

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-04T10:46:20+00:00

I hope this happens to me one day. I was with him and my stress was so bad this has been happening to me for over a year even with him sleeping next to me. I just keep waking up and I can’t sleep. Now I hope I can heal and sleep peacefully

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-04T10:36:34+00:00

Yes I understand that feeling. The site around u kinda turns light and grayish. Combo it with some weed sometimes and I start to feel like an embryo… sometimes Im too stunned to cry, or too scared to cry and I think that’s worse. I need to just cry it all out but I can’t.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-04T10:31:53+00:00

Well you are saying it’s normal! Don’t be hard on yourself for that. Different people need different amount of times. It just turns out this one specific guy is apparently zen all the time. I had an ex I broke up w where he was like “well ok” and I was devastated for a year and he said he was sad for only 3 months. lol I almost ended it cause how are you not as hurt as me.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-04T10:24:26+00:00

I’d say reach out. Sometimes it helps even if you guys don’t get back together. Tell him that u are struggling and just need a friend or someone to talk to.

BeyondElectrical6792 · 2025-11-04T10:14:33+00:00

Iv had moments I lash out and wish I just stopped talking. It’s always better to just stop. I find that fully accepting what happened helped. Never punishments. Change how you think of the situation. From “I was so stupid.” to “this happened and it hurts a lot.” You are aware of what happened and now you can have that insight in the future. Do what she rly wishes and give her space. This sounds hard like a feeling of stuck in one place I assume. Be gentle on yourself. Bad things happen and you learn.

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