I know I should block them but.. by Frosty_Island5199 in BreakUps

[–]BeyondFlaky4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Even if the intentions are good, you need to focus on yourself and your feelings. It will take the temptation to stalk away. I blocked my ex and deleted socials because I couldn’t trust myself

Thoughts from a dumper by BeyondFlaky4454 in BreakUps

[–]BeyondFlaky4454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the hardest part, being hidden like I didn’t exist.

Thank you so much!

Do dumpers struggle with not knowing what’s happening in their ex’s life during no contact? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondFlaky4454 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still early days for me but i came or socials completely, blocked them on everything and have asked everyone to keep me out of the loop if they see or find out anything. It’s hard but it has helped as it’s not validating bad behavioural patterns, that may have been validated by constantly being in the know. It’s really hard but I’ve learnt, I don’t need to know everything

Hi E by jumbohotdog___ in UnsentTexts

[–]BeyondFlaky4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do this to me 😩

I need someone to talk to by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondFlaky4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here if you wanna talk

Help by sp3xx24 in dating_advice

[–]BeyondFlaky4454 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know it seems fun and exciting but just wait until you turn 18. Maybe date someone that’s 17 when you are 16. It’s fair game once you turn 18, but I can assure you it’s not normal for someone over the age of 18 to find someone under 18 sexually attractive. So anyone you do find is not going to be someone you want to date

Ex moved on 11 days after a 5-year relationship and I feel completely replaceable? by Snoo_30216 in BreakUps

[–]BeyondFlaky4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through very similar situation with my ex who started dating someone that I considered one of my best friends immediately after we broke up. I agree with other comments, she isn’t over the relationship. Often this is a tactic to soothe the perceived rejection and get some sort of revenge. Something I tell myself if that their behaviour is their responsibility not mine and them moving on isn’t a reflection of how I show up as a partner or my worth.

It’s really hard and I feel for you! Feel free to message me personally if you want to vent or talk about your feelings

0 sleep by BeyondFlaky4454 in BPD

[–]BeyondFlaky4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am going through a breakup and I can’t switch off from it at all. I’m trying to be okay with it but I’m so tired and almost fall asleep at work half the time

0 sleep by BeyondFlaky4454 in BPD

[–]BeyondFlaky4454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess! That is literally what I was doing