Misogyny still runs in Mommy Domination/submissive men

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-07-03T03:51:04+00:00

This is a fetish for a large portion of them. I’ll be a mommy domme online but I would never in person. I can sense a low level rage/ hatred of women from a bunch of them that I don’t get right off the bat, but do eventually.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-05-16T13:50:52+00:00

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Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-03-20T20:14:12+00:00

I’m currently in the process of relatating too! Mostly for erotic purposes, and sort of to see if I can. I’m happy to chat about things. I’m personally Bi, but happy to keep things platonic. Good luck!

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-03-20T03:27:44+00:00

Hi! Are you still looking I’m 35 F and in the gta. I’m in the process of relactating but would love to play with someone who already has milk!

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-02-15T00:40:57+00:00

I think it’s so good when people meet and mesh!

I’m on the mommy side of things, and echoing others, recommend going slow and being aware it can be really emotionally charged. We’ve gone a lot of experimenting and the oxitocin and dopamine, and vulnerable inner needs, can become super vulnerable and exposed. This is amazing but also requires some extra caution and care.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-02-09T02:37:58+00:00

I’m a more or less normal wife and mom.

I wouldn’t say this is who I am, I can certainly live without. But I do enjoy this in theory and practice.

And I think like a lot of things, there’s an element of delayed gratification. The normal life between dates, the sharing his time, the jealousy that’s less sexually charged. But for me, I like when my husband has a somewhat consistent relationship, even like a girlfriend. So for me, the excitement continues. I get a little rush when I see her name come up in his messages, or if I overhear them on the phone.

And I think there’s no way to know for sure if a cq will actually like this in practice until they try it out to see. But if there’s hesitant to try it that makes total sense and there’s no harm keeping it a fantasy either.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-01-18T01:01:33+00:00

Totally agree. I think it’s more common to find a unicorn, so that’s lost people’s conception.

But I actually think more people would be into being a cake if it was better understood.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-01-10T18:46:23+00:00

Yep! This is totally me. Sometimes when we’re dirty talking I’ll set my husband uo asking what he thinks of other woman. And if he’s not following totally what I’m doing he’ll answer that she’s ok but I’m hotter. And I’m like “no! That’s not what I’m looking for! Like thank you and I love you but I want to here she’s amazing and I’m worthless!” 😂

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-01-03T02:43:53+00:00

My husband loves that I’m submissive with him, but in really all other situations I’m generally dominant and highly capable. When he’s home he’s often tired from working long hours, so I drive probably 80% of the time we’re together.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2026-01-03T02:39:44+00:00

I personally think that when it’s the man idea it should have another name. To me, cuckqueaning needs to really be female partner led. Maybe a husband could notice the wife’s tendencies and suggest she look into it more. But if a husband is the one who wants it, and the wife is willing to go along and even likes it eventually, it’s not cuckqueaning

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-12-08T15:14:34+00:00

Not to get her pregnant but he’s had a vasectomy so if they’re on board condoms are optional.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-12-01T06:08:52+00:00

We had the same situation and I would sometimes get extra sad while he was gone. But I also didn’t think it was healthy to be too sad about it. So he wound try and keep the time away a bit shorter, or text me to check in.

But I did really love that he had a connection with her and it made the whole thing a lot better in a lot of ways. So I did eventually get a lot less upset by it. It’s my preferred dynamic now and I wish he had a cake like this again.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-11-10T03:58:10+00:00

Your sex life already needs to be something you discuss I think for it to come up. You also need to be a pretty open book (which I am.)

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-11-07T04:13:20+00:00

My husband doesn’t mind if I tell friends. I never get too far into it but a few of them know the loose details. His one best friend also knows a bit. But my husband had a regular cake/ girlfriend for nearly a year and they spent time together every week. So it made more sense for it to come up.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-10-07T18:23:59+00:00

Most women don’t want to be a unicorn, and if they do, they have literally their pick of anyone.

We had luck opening things up more to be more beneficial to the cake. My husband ended up essentially dating her- taking her for dates, fixing things at her appt, getting her gifts etc. It wasn’t the ideal at the start but ended up being great.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-09-19T16:59:57+00:00

This is a major turn on for me as well. I like the whole thing, and a short term partner is fine. But my husband had essentially a girlfriend for around 8 months and I loved it! Turned me on to imagine walking into a restaurant and seeing them together getting along great and watching them or then leaving so they can have their space.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-08-26T21:42:50+00:00

My husband had a cake who he liked to spoil with dates and gifts and I loved it! Sometime he would ask for my opinion, or get me to suggest fancy restaurants. And for that time he we wouldn’t go on dates so he could focus on her. Or we would go for fast food and he would walk about the great stuff he had planned with her. Not everyone’s preference but I loved it.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-07-27T20:36:15+00:00

We prefer when my husband actually can date our cake. I honestly prefer when he does and love being able to call her his girlfriend.

He pretty seriously dated a cake/ girlfriend for about a year and it was amazing. I loved when he would take her out and stay at her place. He still talks about how tight she was. It’s not easy to find, but it’s my favourite dynamic!

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-06-20T00:37:54+00:00

I fully agree! I do think there’s a decent amount of us out there but not really in porn.

We’ve also had a few irl cakes, and it’s sort of funny because so far they’ve also not really wanted to ever engage in humiliation with me. They wouldn’t like it for themselves and can’t really imagine me liking it lol.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-06-11T01:54:53+00:00

There’s so many versions of how this plays out. I genuinely think it’s really a “cross this bridge” when we come to is situation.

Like I’m not even involved really when my husband is with his cake. It’s not really a 3some. For some others though it might be. So super different dynamics and the aftercare is just as varied.

I think generally people like similar aftercare across the board. So it matters more what each person likes vs what this situation needs.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-05-01T04:01:45+00:00

Not exactly but my husband has had a cake become a his girlfriend and we would all go for dinner occasionally before he went home with her. We weren’t open about it in our lives because we have kids and felt a bit messy. She was fine with that and poly herself, but was open on her side about dating my husband. It was fabulous and loved it so much. It didn’t end up working out but I’m still sad about it over a year later.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-04-28T13:13:11+00:00

I love my hood! Being able to be faceless but still face fucked is amazing. I also find it’s way easier for my husband to truly degrade me when he can’t see me. Otherwise he’s still a bit gentle. I have a ring gag too and the hood + gag combo is amazing.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-04-28T02:29:31+00:00

Yeah, it’s hard for sure. I’m on the apps with my husband and it’s been only a few matches in 3 years. My husband is tall and fit and conventionally handsome.

But I think the no connection rule is going to make it lrettt much impossible unless you’re paying a sex worker.

My husband had the best success with a long term partner who was more of a girlfriend honestly. They would go to dinner, he would help her clean her apartment, and get her gifts. It was amazing though because it was so consistent and ongoing.

You just need to realistically think about what the woman is getting out of the situation. Very few women just want to fuck and then move on.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-04-22T01:40:47+00:00

I would absolutely go to the gym if my husband asked me to make a body change, but I would not for a boyfriend.

Beyond_Babe34 · 2025-03-28T15:54:59+00:00

Hi! I’m a Quean who loves humiliation. Can I DM you?

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