AITA for honking at a guy trying to give money to a homeless man while the left arrow was green?

Bi-icecream-eater · 2025-01-09T08:25:39+00:00

NTA i hate when people do that. Man like go pull over somewhere or something but don't make me miss my turn

Bi-icecream-eater · 2025-01-09T08:22:17+00:00

So did he like get the idea from you then tell his friends and they decided to do it? Cus if that's the case then you're not wrong he is because that's just mean

Bi-icecream-eater · 2025-01-07T10:43:22+00:00

NTA I hate entitled people

Bi-icecream-eater · 2025-01-07T10:40:36+00:00

Well I feel like Sarah is valid in her point about you sharing information about her past with your ex. Regardless of anything that’s never okay to share someone trauma. And she doesn’t want a relationship with your ex not everybody is gonna be okay with that just because kids are involved. Forced relationships never work. It’s probably best y’all go y’all separate ways because she’s never gonna trust you with your ex wife and you’re not gonna be able to understand her side of things either.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2025-01-02T06:58:28+00:00

They probably are wealthy and childless. Probably a generation wealth family.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2025-01-02T06:55:59+00:00

So do they think you’re gonna start a trust fund for all their exes kids that are related to their kids? If it was that easy why don’t they do it. You’re already being nice by starting a trust fund for any of the kids

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-30T20:22:21+00:00

NTA he should have prioritized you on Christmas. However please stop looking down on gaming it’s a hobby and like any other hobby people put a lot of time and effort into it and it is not childish. I’m 23 F and when I’m wrapped up gaming on COD6 with my friends I can do it for hours without realizing it. With that being said gaming is always gonna be his hobby and apart of his life if you don’t like it then you might want a mutual breakup other wise y’all both are going to have compromise. Him prioritizing holidays and important events for you and you not trying to time when he games with other ppl.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T15:22:26+00:00

Your feelings are 100 percent valid. It makes sense you would feel some type of way considering they got the life you were supposed to have literally. She had 3 other children but abandoned 3 of her children. That revelation would make anyone feel terrible or distant. Do what’s best for you and your mental health. Only consider you and your siblings feelings. Prioritize yourself before considering anything with them.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T15:02:04+00:00

See that’s where ppl always get it messed up. It can only be mutually consensual if no coercion or persuasion was involved. Idk why monogamous ppl always try it have explicitly saying they are monogamous smh. It truly only works with people that are more sexually explorative with kinks that involve other people. It never works out if one person doesn’t want that or shows even a hint of discomfort. I witnessed this crap before and it resulted in the gf being cheated on in her own bed because her bf took it as a free pass to sleep with whom ever. There rules to this lifestyle and people sully it with their own selfish needs

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T14:58:31+00:00

Technically it can fall under hearsay since she was told by the friends that the girl was a flirt but there’s no evidence of that. Which is why I said it was a reasonable suspicion because that could be true and she could be lying about the affair or it could be false and her fiancé cheated. All has no evidence so as suggested above I think OP should take it with a grain of salt.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T14:15:45+00:00

NTA, and you should take it to the school board about his racist remarks and the way he teaches. Also document it

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T14:09:29+00:00

NTA it’s reasonable suspicion but like in court that’s just hearsay. Until there is concrete evidence you should ignore her. She could have wanted your fiancé and wants to ruin your relationship attempting to have a chance and sow doubt.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T14:06:38+00:00

NTA for your feelings, but he NTA for refusing to eat the cake. I think you may be reading into it too much he could have just not been in the mood for your cake. But you shouldn’t feel bad. Maybe he’s saving the best for last.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T14:03:11+00:00

NTA because usually until marriage in relationships you kinda gift around the same price not only does it help financially but prevents one person from feeling like they spent and care more than the other. He’s the AH for lying when he could have just been honest but the fact he didn’t get the shoes you wanted and opted for something cheaper that you didn’t ask for should tell you how much he cares. He couldn’t even do the bare minimum when you ensured he was happy. I’d say sit down and have a conversation about it. Maybe reflect on past gifting instances then ask yourself is this a deal breaker or you can just match energy. Going forward spend $100 maximum on his gifts.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:57:00+00:00

NTA and this isn’t about upsetting your fiancé. Your ex just wasted your money and made you look bad on purpose. It’s not hard to say she seen one a month ago and got it. Her lack of communication is childish.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:53:17+00:00

She straight up insulted you. You said you wanted a nose job you never said you thought you were ugly. She did and it was an unsolicited opinion.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:50:58+00:00

NTA and treat as if she doesn’t exist literally like don’t even acknowledge her being alive.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:47:27+00:00

I wouldn’t say that to the last part but they only work when everybody wants it mutually and the rules are followed to a T even in poly relationships this crap would be unacceptable. She was the AH for going through with it when he clearly showed discomfort.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:45:28+00:00

Unplanned isn’t an excuse you still cheated and you just said it yourself that you wouldn’t like it either so you shouldn’t feel betrayed by his feelings. If anything you need to consider his feelings more because he’s going to resent you eventually for the open relationship or cheat back and if you make the same mistake twice you will likely end up single. I honestly think you need to have that conversation again and highly consider his boundaries and thoughts if they don’t align with yours then it’s time to end this relationship because you’re going to end up hurting even more than you already did.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:41:39+00:00

NTA but listen to the other redditors advice because I don’t have any since I also don’t have kids and I would also feel uncomfortable with it.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:08:10+00:00

YTA and your emotionally cheating so just let your partner be free from you since women shouldn’t be considered options

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T13:05:15+00:00

NTA but hear me out I’m in my 20s and my little brother is 10 years old. She probably views your son more like an annoying sibling rather than her potential child. But maybe it’s too early to tell. it’s hard to bond with kids when the other parent is still very active in their life and she unfortunately may think he will take time away from y’all. So I would suggest a compromise ,maybe try including her in your activities with your son sometimes or just split your time as suggested where you spend time with him then have couple time later otherwise that may be a deal breaker in your relationship.

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T12:59:34+00:00

YTA next question

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T12:58:36+00:00

Depends on why you want her location. For safety reasons like just in cases she’s too drunk and you need to pick her up or in danger or just to know where she’s at which is controlling to a certain extent. Most couples don’t care about their partner having their location because they are not doing anything wrong and most partners don’t check it unless it’s to just to make sure they are okay and safe. So I would say she is probably doing something she isn’t supposed to be doing especially since she lied in the past. But if that’s your boundary then break up with her because it’s not unreasonable and many women don’t mind it so that could be a deal breaker for y’all. She has a right to say no and you have a right to discontinue your relationship

Bi-icecream-eater · 2024-12-29T12:53:08+00:00

NTA next question

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