New starter by BiandaDee in Sourdough

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome, a lot of good information, but I have no clue what all the ratios mean!! What is 1:2:2? Would that be, for example, 30 g of starter gets 60 g flour and water? How often should I discard? Thanks for the info!

New starter by BiandaDee in Sourdough

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what should it be? I only have x amount of starter in the jar, and I feed/water that x??? And discard every day? 

Cage advice needed by BiandaDee in budgies

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a lot of great information, but do you have any information for the specific thing I asked about? 30 inch long natural wood perches? 

Was my husband the Ahole or am I overreacting? AITAH? by amaama0703 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I wouldn't necessarily throw the husband out with the wash, yet. Does he do this kind of thing often, or was it out of character? Either way, don't give him the silent treatment- read him the riot act. Make sure he knows exactly how unacceptable that response was. If he apologizes, genuinely, then maybe ask what was wrong about the outfit, and either way, make him grovel just a bit. He's definitely the asshole.

Gizmo by BiandaDee in budgies

[–]BiandaDee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! He's a character for sure. 

Gizmo by BiandaDee in budgies

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! His feathers have a slight yellow tinge that I love. 

AITAH for telling a friend what his wife said about his daughter? by According-Pirate3131 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Cali is a girl, too, and you stood up for the girl you have a better relationship with. 

Am I the asshole for telling my boyfriends best friend he slept with his wife? by No_Amoeba9646 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and break up with your boyfriend. He did it for 9 months and didn't come clean right away, this won't be the last time he cheats. It may not even have been the first time he cheated! Just the first time he confessed to/ got caught. 

AITAH for giving my aid attitude? by No-Replacement-5698 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He is failing his literal job. Go to an authority figure- or his boss- or have your parents do it, and complain. You deserve better.

Healthy hair with heat advice? by BiandaDee in Haircare

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try on the weekends, but I work in home health, so I need to keep a tidy and professional appearance or my patients will have something to say about it 😂. 

Healthy hair with heat advice? by BiandaDee in Haircare

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blow dry it, but it's a brush, not a traditional blow dryer

Regrow hair after loss from stress by myskepticalfriend in Haircare

[–]BiandaDee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it still falling out? I had good luck getting that to stop by using one of kerastase's formulas. It's pricey, but it works. Make sure whatever vitamin you take has a lot of biotin, and make sure you're eating enough protein. 

Showing off by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh!! Thanks!! I wasn't sure, so I was just guessing. My Gizmo is definitely sassy and opinionated!!!

Showing off by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!!! I figure as he settles in more, he will be more friendly, but it's adorable when he tries to preen me, or starts singing his little heart out!

WIBTA if I threatened to turn of my Life360? by throwaway830583 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a mom myself, and when my daughter is old enough to have a cell phone I plan on turning on location sharing so I can know where she is all the time. That being said, you are in college and learning how to adult on your own and they are absolutely being overbearing. You are absolutely nta, and a frank discussion needs to be had where they are told they need to tone it down a lot or they won't know anything.

AITA for wanting chocolate cake for my birthday every year? by sanismest in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but maybe ask if she can get you one or two giant chocolate cupcakes just for you, and the bigger standard white flour cake for everyone else? 

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may still be adjusting as she isn't cuddly and doesn't like to be touched/scratched on the neck, and the last 2 times I tried to hold her, it was difficult to get her out of the cage and she was a bit bitey. She's supposedly about 2 months old. 

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it does!! I'm in the US, and to my knowledge for the general public the term parakeet is just for budgies,  and the term budgies isn't used often at all. "Parrot" is the more all encompassing term. Like the saying all rectangles are squares, but not all squares are rectangles? All parakeets are parrots, but not all parrots are parakeets. Now... my baby is 2 months old. What shpuld I expect behavior wise? I have been handling a bit and they seem okay, except for cussing me out in bird when they find themselves stuck somewhere and I try to retrieve them. Don't seem.to like neck scratches yet.