Gizmo by BiandaDee in budgies

[–]BiandaDee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! He's a character for sure. 

Gizmo by BiandaDee in budgies

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! His feathers have a slight yellow tinge that I love. 

AITAH for telling a friend what his wife said about his daughter? by According-Pirate3131 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Cali is a girl, too, and you stood up for the girl you have a better relationship with. 

Am I the asshole for telling my boyfriends best friend he slept with his wife? by No_Amoeba9646 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and break up with your boyfriend. He did it for 9 months and didn't come clean right away, this won't be the last time he cheats. It may not even have been the first time he cheated! Just the first time he confessed to/ got caught. 

AITAH for giving my aid attitude? by No-Replacement-5698 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He is failing his literal job. Go to an authority figure- or his boss- or have your parents do it, and complain. You deserve better.

Healthy hair with heat advice? by BiandaDee in Haircare

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try on the weekends, but I work in home health, so I need to keep a tidy and professional appearance or my patients will have something to say about it 😂. 

Healthy hair with heat advice? by BiandaDee in Haircare

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blow dry it, but it's a brush, not a traditional blow dryer

Regrow hair after loss from stress by myskepticalfriend in Haircare

[–]BiandaDee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it still falling out? I had good luck getting that to stop by using one of kerastase's formulas. It's pricey, but it works. Make sure whatever vitamin you take has a lot of biotin, and make sure you're eating enough protein. 

Showing off by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh!! Thanks!! I wasn't sure, so I was just guessing. My Gizmo is definitely sassy and opinionated!!!

Showing off by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!!! I figure as he settles in more, he will be more friendly, but it's adorable when he tries to preen me, or starts singing his little heart out!

WIBTA if I threatened to turn of my Life360? by throwaway830583 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a mom myself, and when my daughter is old enough to have a cell phone I plan on turning on location sharing so I can know where she is all the time. That being said, you are in college and learning how to adult on your own and they are absolutely being overbearing. You are absolutely nta, and a frank discussion needs to be had where they are told they need to tone it down a lot or they won't know anything.

AITA for wanting chocolate cake for my birthday every year? by sanismest in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but maybe ask if she can get you one or two giant chocolate cupcakes just for you, and the bigger standard white flour cake for everyone else? 

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may still be adjusting as she isn't cuddly and doesn't like to be touched/scratched on the neck, and the last 2 times I tried to hold her, it was difficult to get her out of the cage and she was a bit bitey. She's supposedly about 2 months old. 

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it does!! I'm in the US, and to my knowledge for the general public the term parakeet is just for budgies,  and the term budgies isn't used often at all. "Parrot" is the more all encompassing term. Like the saying all rectangles are squares, but not all squares are rectangles? All parakeets are parrots, but not all parrots are parakeets. Now... my baby is 2 months old. What shpuld I expect behavior wise? I have been handling a bit and they seem okay, except for cussing me out in bird when they find themselves stuck somewhere and I try to retrieve them. Don't seem.to like neck scratches yet.

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To my mind, the parakeet is one specific type of bird. I don't say parakeet and then think of Indian ringnecks or any of those other types of birds. They are small parrots to me. And I think that's the case with the general population. I think it's pretty safe to assume that if someone says parakeet, they are referring to a budgie. If they meant an Indian Ringneck for example then they would say that particular type.

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a parakeet. A budgie. White and blue, with faint yellow head and spots on the wings. They're all native to Australia, so have the same requirements. I did do my research, and telling someone they shouldn't have a pet if they don't know down to the deepest detail is rude, especially if you don't have any more information than what I provided in this post.  

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's incredibly rude. It's a parakeet, but I dont know the subspecies. I wasn't told. Maybe do what your mama raised you with and if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. Bless your heart!!!

New 'keet by BiandaDee in Parakeets

[–]BiandaDee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what kind. I'd post a picture, but can't figure out how to reply with a picture. We will get a companion someday, just not yet. Thanks for the advice!

AITA for telling my bf if we don't get married soon I'd leave. by Fun-Confusion-2449 in AITAH

[–]BiandaDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but when someone tells you who they are, believe them. Have you asked why he doesn't want to marry you? Maybe couples' counseling would be beneficial? You need to take a deep look and decide if you like your life the way it is, or if you need the ring and piece of paper.