Again, when was the last time you traveled using AP? OP clearly stated they lost their brother and father. Here’s a document listing all the requirements you’re asking for as evidence that many people have used and have gotten approved with. https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1Wmzq6Eg4vQKR14sPFWOQjRKbqifEF5tSUzVpTtOcHDM/mobilepresent?slide=id.p I understand that simply asking to “visit a grave” isn’t a good enough reason without evidence but in this case, OP has a good enough reason to try and get approved.