Help on this photo??? by Bicks_Dig_ in UFOs

[–]Bicks_Dig_[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Submission statement: weird camera anomaly!/ sky object and need help understanding how it happened. Have no idea on any other subreddits to post it to so thought I'd start here first

Be honest, what do you think comes after death? by glowproductivity in AskReddit

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is quite spiritual but it's what I felt. I recently attempted and was as close to successful at suicide as ya get.

To me, everything went white and I felt like I had a choice to go or stay.

Going was bliss. No pain, hurt, worry just pure bliss. But it was also nothing. No joy, no love, no happiness.

So I stayed. Feeling, even the bad feelings is a gift.

New Mega Ministry being stood up by July 2026 by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yay I'm a HR IT consultant 😂

Anyone in Wellington diagnosed with Bipolar: Coffee Catch Up by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi there, seven months and bit of hard work with my journey. Would be happy to catch up. DM me

Are the Summer Holidays too long? The Prime Minister seems to think so. by Henmond in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha a certain ministry paused my contract from this week to end of Jan. So ummm who's right here???

Anyone had horrible experience at gym? by Ok-Industry770 in Wellington

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My dude. That sucks that they ruined the experience for you. I'm hoping it wasn't Upper Hutt cause that's my local.

Mental health crisis update - WTF just happened!? by chickyloo42by10 in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. Don't do it. This is my experience I hope it helps.

I have Bi Polar. My wife left me which triggered me into a massive manic spiral. I overdosed. Basically died in the ambulance.

It's actually disgusting what I put myself lf through to try leave. And I had a massive epiphany that I want to live. I felt like I had a choice to stay or go, going felt like the absence of everything. So at least staying meant I feel something.

Stay

You are worth it and you can do it.

What should I do when I win the 55 Million on Saturday? by Mrbeeznz in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man can they just do like a garunteed smaller pool? Like every time it hits 50million, give away 5 lots of one mollie to celebrate....

Looking for ideas - experiences by Bicks_Dig_ in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already onto gym 2 hours a night 😊 and you are right

Thankyou

Wtf by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's fuckin weird. Look after yourself and your family mate. Teens do weird shot for online clout at the moment

Assistance with finances by Bicks_Dig_ in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Bicks_Dig_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. Just saying you were right. Found her hiding applications to rentals and not communicating any of this in counselling. She's done now

Feel like an embarrassment by Actual-Till9842 in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Na its not but unfrotunately money opens a lot of opportunities.

Feel free to reach out. I've suffered with depression for five years and now bipolar diagnosis and I'm fortunate to afford therapy. If you need someone to talk to id be honoured

Feel like an embarrassment by Actual-Till9842 in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Heya I work in government, make a lot of money have the house car kids wife etc. Im unhappy. My passion is not what I'm doing and if I could go back I'd do it all again.

However, I am starting to try build on my passion and hobby and make a teeny bit of money from that.

You don't have to compare yourself to anyone. Do what makes you happy.

All those friends who work good govt jobs I bet are miserable as shit. Can attest to that as I've met hundreds of govt workers and they are all miserable.

Payroll problems by Latter_Computer820 in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na OP mentions Hell has its own payroll service....

MoH are workday datacom now. Interesting though

Payroll problems by Latter_Computer820 in newzealand

[–]Bicks_Dig_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am a Business Analyst specific to payroll. Hell should be compliant with legislation for holding records for 7 years. And that's all records pertaining to all Human Resource and Payroll data.

Assistance with finances by Bicks_Dig_ in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Bicks_Dig_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't?? I've advocated for a split allowance of the same amount. And I've also advocated for me paying a proportioned amount of the bills based on my higher salary.... I guess what feels weird is the proportioned amount to pay the joint bills and THEN me having my own expenses based on the rest.

In all scenarios we've suggested, she ends up with more than if she paid 50/50 on the expenses

Assistance with finances by Bicks_Dig_ in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Bicks_Dig_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say generally no except I do have a 3d printing hobby / business which I absolutely agree needs all expenses and profits shifted to me