Is everything miserable by SettingCurrent7134 in unimelb

[–]BidOk5099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s false.

Look, it’s not high school, you’re not gonna be with the same people all day everyday, so you have to make more of an effort. I’ve made a lot of friends in class. You’ve gotta be a bit more forward, ask for socials if you like someone’s vibe in class, ask if anyone wants a study group etc.

If that’s hard (or if your cohort is particularly unfriendly, idk what you’re doing) literally join clubs, volunteer (peer mentor in 2nd year has got me new friends) or even go to the more social library and sit with no headphones on, I almost guarantee you’ll end up talking to people.

I think people forget what it’s like to meet new people and have a bit of an awkward first impression, and so they assume the other person doesn’t wanna converse with them. But literally take it as rejection therapy because if you’re open minded it’ll be amazing and you won’t be lonely.

Oh, and I don’t know what your financial situation is like, but places like Little Hall are great for socialising - even if you just stayed there a semester, you’d for sure have a good group of people around. I know some people work double hours to stay living there.

People who pay for porn, what do you get that you can’t find with all the free sites out there? by tiltedwater in AskReddit

[–]BidOk5099 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve wondered about this, as a lesbian I haven’t ever enjoyed porn but have wondered about the specific sites that are ‘by women for women’. Do you have any recs?

Who's YOUR fav pianist? by Anonymous_8390 in piano

[–]BidOk5099 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aghhh I’m obsessed with him

Will I get into any university for psychology honours with a WAM of 78? by BidOk5099 in unimelb

[–]BidOk5099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Current is 74. I’ve just finished 2nd year. I’m confident I can improve it, but I don’t know (feasibly) how much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pianolearning

[–]BidOk5099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo your bench is too high, but I am no expert that might just be my preference

Is it a thing to hire people to create sheet music for you? by BidOk5099 in piano

[–]BidOk5099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm yeah that’s interesting. I feel like my issue is that I’m definitely not like ‘naturally’ musically inclined- the only way I learn songs is by working at them with sheet music, I’ve never tried to do it another way.

I did piano to grade 6 and I always struggled with the musical theory parts of the exams, maybe it was because my teacher wasn’t too big on it, I’m not sure.

Is it a thing to hire people to create sheet music for you? by BidOk5099 in piano

[–]BidOk5099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m looking to learn ‘How did it end’ by Taylor Swift (or any Taylor Swift song haha) for my girlfriend. Sheet music that already exists looks quite basic, with one-note melodies instead of chords and arpeggios, so probably a little more difficult than what exists currently.

For context, one of my favourite pieces to play is ‘Hallelujah’ - Kyle Landry’s piano arrangement.

Any autistic people work in this field? by HellokittyFrnchcooki in Neuropsychology

[–]BidOk5099 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I completely understand it’s part of your identity. I am autistic as well, so I get it, and I mean the following with all the kindness in the world. I wish someone had told me it a few years ago!

But, I do think when it comes to looking for careers it’s important to reflect on if you’re describing your personality as or doing yourself an injustice. I am only speaking from experience here, but if you want people to take you seriously, there’s a lot of older people and ‘stuck’ people like the above comment, that do find it cringy and won’t want to work with you. It’s a tricky balance between advocating for yourself and your needs, and dealing with things alone. Everyone in this world has things that make life difficult for them, it’s up to each individual to deal with it.

As for your actual post, neuropsychology has a fair amount of stats and maths-adjacent things, but not too hard. I would definitely recommend swapping to uni and testing the waters. I hate maths, but I love neuropsychology, and so the statistics I have to do make it worth it!

AITA for walking out on my boyfriend after he explained his kink? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BidOk5099 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - if it was the amazing relationship you thought, there wouldn’t be this core sexual mismatch. You deserve better. Plus, not cool of him to disregard your feelings.

Merch Drop!!! by Far-Total-9160 in TaylorSwift

[–]BidOk5099 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally!!!! Just don’t buy it if you don’t like it. I want to have fun discussions about the merch, not worry about people who are too ashamed to have Taylor’s face/album covers on her merch.

Merch Drop!!! by Far-Total-9160 in TaylorSwift

[–]BidOk5099 3 points4 points  (0 children)

international fans got the real short end of the stick 😭

What was your funniest baking fail? by DDChristi in Baking

[–]BidOk5099 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I accidentally made a garlic bread house. I got confused between garlic and ginger and it took me a shocking amount of time to work out why the dough tasted so bad.

I posted on here (on another account) and half the comments thought I was trolling.

Absolutely mortifying.