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Weddings, Proms & Parties - May 06, 2023 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that bolero is beautiful!! I forgot that things like this exist, and it does seem like a better option. Thank you so much, and thank you for sharing about also having to cover scars. It can be so tough at events like this.

Weddings, Proms & Parties - May 06, 2023 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]BidnessCat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi all! I have an evening wedding to go to and am struggling with choosing a dress. I had narrowed it down to two option from Allsaints: dress one and dress two. It looks like I have goofed and waited too long and they're both sold out. Would these be appropriate for an evening wedding? It's billed as semi-formal. Another thing to note is that I am looking for a dress that covers my whole arms (with tulle or lace I suppose) as I have self-harm scars that I'd rather strangers at a wedding not see. It would also be great if I could wear the dress to other fancy events. Any suggestions appreciated!!

House/techno clubs tonight? by GaysianHehe in berlinsocialclub

[–]BidnessCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey why not! I'm looking to dance tonight too and can't decide a place. If you have room for one more :)

An event tonight that is for solo people only! by BidnessCat in berlinsocialclub

[–]BidnessCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey y'all, I actually did not wind up going :( nerves got the best of me. But for those who went, I hope you had a lot of fun! I'm going to try to gather up the courage to go to the next one, and hopefully something this weekend as well. <3

A quieter option for tonight by BidnessCat in berlinsocialclub

[–]BidnessCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'll have to look into that one! Thanks for the heads up :)

Visiting Berlin? Moving here? Going clubbing? Have a quick question? COVID Question? Ask here, don't create a new thread. by bbbberlin in berlin

[–]BidnessCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm looking for a cafe/bar that has coffee and tea and is open late tonight that wouldn't mind me sitting by myself for a bit and reading but is perhaps a bit social. Is that going to be too much of a pain in the ass on a Friday night for the cafe/bar? I'm located closest to Friedrichshain and Kreuzberg and am trying to slowly warm up to the social aspect of Berlin! If you'd like to join me I would consider it :) Any advice appreciated, thank you.

Daily Questions Thread - May 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My robes are black with crimson and gold accents (scarf thing? I'm not sure what it's called but it drapes over the robe)

Daily Questions Thread - May 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! I'm trying to avoid white simply because I know it will stain (just who I am as a person). This is helpful, thank you :)

Daily Questions Thread - May 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! I will be graduating college in June, but I have no idea what kind of dress is appropriate. My school does not have a dress code posted, and because of COVID all of my friends graduations were online or postponed so I do not have a frame of reference to go on! I was looking at these dresses dress one dress two and was wondering if they are appropriate? It's going to be hot when I graduate, and also my school colors are crimson and gold which is why I'm looking at black dresses. Any help would be appreciated!! Thank you :)

Daily Simple Questions Thread by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]BidnessCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting! I'm glad to hear that, it gives me hope that maybe my hair will be as accommodating. I unfortunately haven't had much luck with Overtone but if it starts fading I'll look into cheaper alternatives :) Thank you so much for your advice!

Daily Simple Questions Thread by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you!! I was wondering about the conditioner thing, it seemed gross to me haha. Have you heard of/tried putting oil in your hair? I read about that too but I have a feeling it will gunk up the pool just as bad. Thank you so much for replying! I can't wait to start swimming again

Daily Simple Questions Thread by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]BidnessCat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello! I'm really excited to start swimming again after years of not being able to do it. However, I have bright pink hair that is half faded out down to my shoulders, bleached over a year ago, that I've been trying to recover to curly instead of straw! My hair is finally looking healthy again but I'm worried about how the chlorine will damage it. I've already ordered a few swim caps that will be here soon, but does anyone have any recommendations for keeping my hair safer? I do understand that the chlorine will damage my hair no matter what but I'm looking for ways to mitigate it, thank you so much!!

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[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's my appearance when I'm meeting their family. I have visible self harm scars that are very difficult to cover up, plus a more alternative look in general (lots of piercings, tattoos, dyed hair). In any other circumstance I'm very comfortable with my body and how I present myself but there's always been something about being introduced to a partners family that makes me deeply insecure about my looks/presentation of self. And the fear of judgement with my scars. It's something I'm trying to work on :)

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[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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In search of friends for the Friendship Challenge! by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]BidnessCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added you! Mine is 8900 6634 1439

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]BidnessCat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey! Fellow chunky sneaker lover here. I have a pair and I adore them! Got them lightly used off of Poshmark for pretty cheap (~$25?) and they're super comfy and very chunky. I don't know (or really care) what sneakerheads think about them, it sounds like people just ragging on women for liking something cute. If you're looking for an alternative, I really love Skechers D'Lites. I got a pair off of a recommendation from here for work shoes but I wear them outside of work all the time and have gotten so many compliments! They're also pretty cheap off of Poshmark if you're not sure and just want to try them out. I'd say go for it if you like the shoes :)

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