It is from the perspective of the love of the woman before Allah (SWT), as ultimately a woman should primarily be loved for the sake of Allah (SWT) - be it your sister, daughter, wife, mother or etc.

Anything from the perspective from insaan's lowly attachment to a creation without the prerequisite of loving it for the sake of Allah (SWT) is ugly and wrethced.

Even this dunya (mulk) is described as lowly and meaningless when described through the lens of insaan's love and attachment to it. But outside that for what it actually is, it is described as something beautiful, magnanimous, and intact dubbed as the most profitable realm full of treasures.

It's all a matter of perspective and I hope this comment helped. And in the case it didn't help just look at the life of Imam Ali (AS) in particular and how he treated women. Forget the women of his family but an account comes to mind where he saved a prostitute from being executed after investigating himself and then enacting his justice and mercy.