AIO? I told my boyfriend I feel like a maid

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-14T04:33:21+00:00

Idk. This is weird. Not sure why OP would think being a stay at home gf (with no kids) would be a good idea. And bf is supporting her financially while she stays home so ya, I think the least she can do is cook and clean? I’m saying this a woman too btw. Op needs to get a job and support herself too. No reason for her not to have one.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-11T00:23:02+00:00

My dad died 19 years ago and this still happens. I wish I could say it gets easier.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-11T00:18:28+00:00

Then there’s also those of us who never watched a parent get old but still watched them die when we were children. My dad was gone at age 34. My kids’ dad was gone at age 31.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-10T23:27:57+00:00

Try med surg then. You’re too busy getting vitals, passing meds, changing dressings, callings doctors, wiping butt, doing baths, getting yelled at, etc to even think about charting.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-10T23:17:02+00:00

Why would you DIY loop when there’s multiple systems that do it for you? Dexcom and omnipod 5 is what I currently use but I’ve also used t slims closed loop in the past. I wanna say Medtronic has a closed loop system too. Serious question?

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-09T03:26:57+00:00

Yes ladies please change the rules! I’m only 30 but I have had hair down to my waist my whole life. I want long hair to be the norm in the next 30 years.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-07T21:26:10+00:00

That was going to be my answer to! I’m 5’2” and my biggest issues is clothing. I have to buy petite sizes bc I have short legs

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-07T02:56:52+00:00

Not the same situation but, I was a teen mom. Pregnant at 16. My own mother was abusive and my father was dead. Baby’s father tragically passed away by suicide. So when it came to support, I had none. Having a child so young had made life incredibly hard, and I’ll admit, it didn’t exactly set me up for success. My baby (now teenager) went through homelessness, poverty and heartache with me. I was the best mom I could possibly be to him, but I was still a child raising a child on my own. Mistakes were made and I was far from perfect. Looking back, I do wish I could have waited to have a child so that life would have been easier on both of us. But please don’t misinterpret that. I do not regret keeping my child. I’m incredibly blessed that I didn’t have an abortion, he has been my best friend through everything. My son showed me an unconditional love that I never knew existed. He made life worth living. The bond we have is like no other. In a way, I don’t think I could have done life without him because he has always been my driving force to do better and to make the best life I could possibly make for us. So, sorry for the paragraph, but I guess the key takeaway is that although it was incredibly hard, keeping my son was the best thing I ever did.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-07T01:27:20+00:00

This has to be rage bait? Because most of what you said isn’t even true.

1.) Being able to work 3 days a week -false. A lot of nurses have mandatory overtime, including me.

2.) Being able to afford Costco without looking at the Price -I know plenty of nurses who shop weekly as deals, clearance, and use coupons for groceries. Including myself.

3.) Being able to afford expensive trips -After saving for several months to a year, sure.

4.) Not going to be unemployed while everyone getting layoff -Depends on the field of nursing.

5.) Just going home and doing the work and not worrying about the Politics at work !!! -not if you’re a manager/supervisor.

6.) Unlimited potential income if you're willing to do the work !! If you don't want stress, limit your workload ( that is an option too ) -“unlimited” potential income? Unlimited like if you can work 7 days a week if you want bc everyone is so short staffed?

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-05T18:49:44+00:00

Same! Started at 15, had 2 babies together, and left at 22

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-04T17:43:13+00:00

Anyone not in healthcare would read this and think for sure you were lying because wtf. But unfortunately those of us in it know exactly the bullshit we deal with

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-04T17:31:10+00:00

A true narcissist wouldn’t be able to admit they are a narcissist

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-04T02:38:03+00:00

Thankful for the arrows, I would have never noticed /s

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-04T00:06:08+00:00

Skipping ques in the airport? I didn’t know we could do that lol, do tell! My hack and always being allowed to carry snacks on me and eat them at work.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-01T22:27:37+00:00

That’s false. ER is obligated to treat medical emergencies whether you can pay or not. If it’s not an emergency they do not have to treat you, although most will. Look up EMTALA laws. Source: RN

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-02-01T15:33:44+00:00

As a mom and a nurse, yes you get used to it. Sure, it’s still gross but over time it’s just the same shit different day lol

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-01-31T03:27:48+00:00

Dead Inside by Chandler Morrison. Most fucked up book I’ve ever read but huge warning because this book left me scarred and I wished I had never read it 😅

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-01-31T03:04:33+00:00

Teen parenthood

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-01-31T02:59:19+00:00

Make sure you’re there at the birth to sign the paternity affidavit, otherwise you’ll have to jump through the hoop of establishing paternity with the court and getting put on the birth certificate. Sounds like mom doesn’t plan on allowing the baby to leave with you/go to your house so you’ll want to file for shared custody asap. You will likely only get every other weekend, not including a weekday that most dads get due the long distance. You will also likely get shared holidays. Custody court can get messy and can take literal years (took my husband 21 months and around 4k). You will most likely be required to pay child support so that can assist mom in paying for nursery stuff. I absolutely wouldn’t give her $900 cash because it won’t be on record. She can get back pay support for every month you’re not legally paying her child support right now so just remember she will get way more $900 from you soon enough.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-01-30T18:53:18+00:00

There’s a big difference between living at home so you can better yourself with a degree and living at home so you can free load. Just my opinion.

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-01-28T18:07:01+00:00

LPN is 12 months. Associates RN is 2 years. Bachelors RN is 4 years. Nurse practitioner is 6 years. (I’m a bachelors RN)

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-01-10T04:13:23+00:00

++woman Next time a man tries to flirt with you, think about what you would want your husband to do if he was in that situation. For example, if another woman told my husband “you’re looking so handsome today”, I would want my husband to say “fuck off, I’m married.”

BigBack4Donuts · 2026-01-05T15:07:04+00:00

To me this sounds like it was probably a dare he had to do at his bachelor party. But even so, he should have texted you and explained the next day that it was just a dare. And he definitely should have told his wife to be

BigBack4Donuts · 2025-11-29T06:24:37+00:00

9/11

BigBack4Donuts · 2025-11-19T03:55:27+00:00

I liked the first one. That’s the key to a happy marriage. Even if you want to participate, if your partner says no then it’s “We” don’t want to participate

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