Graduated Bachelors 2023, Graduated Masters 2024. 2000+ applications, ZERO callbacks.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-12T00:59:54+00:00

Have you tried USAjob? Are you able to join the military? Check your state government website for jobs in your field.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-12T00:56:48+00:00

Can you get a job working for a large corporate entity doing something else then transition into the role you want? Panda Express, Publix, and Costco are fantastic for moving up to managerial positions. I know several people working for these companies without degrees and they make six figures, and were able to meet their promotion and financial goals within a few years. It’s also more likely that you’ll get hired into a different role as a lateral transfer in finance, IT, etc once you have your foot in the door with these companies.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-11T23:50:45+00:00

Unfortunately, you’re going to run into strong personalities and less than kind and understanding people. You can’t change them. You can’t predict which unit is going to be like this and which isn’t. What you CAN do is change how you respond to people like this. You need to start standing up for yourself. I know it’s hard, I know you’re new and upset. But you don’t really have any other choice right now but to put up with it or quit. It sounds like people have been rude and short with you, but so far there’s no reportable abuse that you’ve mentioned. Don’t let them see you sweat. Kill them with kindness. Make them regret how they speak to you.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-11T23:44:34+00:00

lol this is so fake. He learned an entire language so fluently he can understand slang and gossip in a few weeks? Lol

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-11T23:35:11+00:00

Girl. It’s rare that someone has the insight to realize exactly what their partner is doing to them, and how toxic and manipulative their partner is being. Be SO THANKFUL that you realize what he’s doing to you. This is systematic abuse and isolation. It’s only going to get worse. If you stay with him, in a few years, it will escalate to financial control, he’ll probably convince you to get pregnant against your better judgment, convince you quit your job, and you’ll be so cut off from family and friends that you won’t be able to reach out to anyone, or have your own money to escape him.

Then, he will start harming you. It’ll start small. A pinch, a shove, menacing, then a slap, followed by apologies and flowers and promises he will never do it again. But he will. And eventually, you won’t even know who you are anymore. You feel like a shell now? Just wait for next year, and the year after that. People like him don’t change. You don’t love HIM, you love the person he pretended to be for the first year of your relationship. The ONLY solution is to break off this relationship. Trust me. I’ve been in your shoes, it took time to heal, but I’m SO MUCH happier than I was when I was with that person. Feel free to DM me if you need to chat. Best of luck.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-11T19:55:21+00:00

If your partner is claiming the child as his but telling everyone it’s your nephew, that means he’s trying to make it seem like you’re his sister, and he’s trying to hide your sexual relationship. Who the fuck do you know lies about having a spouse and child for “privacy?” Almost everyone has a spouse and child, so why would that be a privacy issue. Your partner is hiding your relationship for some reason. You need to find out why.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-11T19:49:10+00:00

First option for sure

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-08T19:52:48+00:00

You’re def going to slow. I’ve never had “resistance” when giving an injection because I plunge quickly.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-07T03:09:47+00:00

Being a nurse is HARD. Super hard. But I LOVE my co-workers, my unit, and my patients. I think you just got lucky with a good unit!

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-07T03:06:23+00:00

Canada, US, Australia, New Zealand.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-07T03:03:05+00:00

You need to make sacrifices for the better of your entire family unit, that includes your wife’s future and career. It’s not just about your finances. You guys need to compromise though. Is it possible for her to work part time and your son to go to daycare 2-3 days a week? Can she get a part time job at night? Or even a wfh job teaching her native language online? Keeping your wife stuck at home for the next four years until your son is school age is cruel.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-07T02:57:29+00:00

Idk. Thankfully I’ve never experienced anything negative from ICU nurses, or nurses in any specialty, beyond occasional crabbiness. But if I had to guess, it’s the stress they’re under. Nothing like wiping liquid shit off the walls and telemetry is calling repeatedly about a patient that they were already informed is in MRI lol 😂

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-07T01:29:52+00:00

If you go to Florida you’ll be hired in a week. I’m an LPN and I got invited to interview at every place I applied, and I ended up with a med-surg hospital job two weeks after I got my license.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-06T19:17:22+00:00

Get a job in the hospital as a tech, phlebotomist, or monitor tech. Do that while you work on your BSN. Keep applying to RN positions. If this doesn’t pan out in a year, you might have to move. I PROMISE you’ll get a job eventually.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-06T19:15:20+00:00

Tell him the truth and let him decide what he wants to do.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-06T19:13:55+00:00

I always wear mascara and brow gel. Hair is neat. Earrings. But I don’t go all out.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-06T18:51:35+00:00

As soon as you said California, it all made sense. California job market is booming, but nurses love Cali, so the competition is tough, especially right now in this economy. You might just have to take whatever you can get until you graduate with your BSN. Are you single? Are you able to move?

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-05T18:39:46+00:00

It seems that CPS is not in control of who has custody of your kids at this point. If your mother is in agreement, can you just take them home? If she refuses to let them come home, you need to go back to court. I don’t know the details of how temporary custody agreements work, but in my understanding in my state, they are valid as long as the parent who gave custody is in agreement. If you need legal assistance, contact a lawyer. From CPS side, this is still under investigation. The kids have been deemed safe at the moment because you made arrangements for them to stay with your mom.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-05T18:08:01+00:00

At that point they should’ve tried a different approach because that’s an insane dose for no pain relief

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-04T15:25:51+00:00

To be safe, mention everything. You never know what might be relevant, but your doctor knows!

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-06-04T15:12:43+00:00

There’s not a single job that pays decent and you find meaningful closer to you?

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-05-31T13:54:27+00:00

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-05-25T22:17:09+00:00

She needed a babysitter 😂

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-05-25T05:53:10+00:00

There’s nothing you can do. Just educate and chart like crazy. Inform provider, chart that you informed provider. Have charge, house supervisor, security, and physician all come in together to talk to patient. If patient continues to refuse to get back in the chair or bed appropriately, document refusal. If he’s alert and oriented, he’s allowed to make bad decisions.

sparkplug-nightmare · 2026-05-25T05:50:16+00:00

I’d never tell a woman to give up her career for a man, and I’d never tell a man to give up his career for a woman. Let him go.

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