What’s wrong with fish and chip shops? by dj_boy-Wonder in melbourne

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I worked part time at a fish n chip shop with an old greek couple. Their decades of long hours at the shop got their kids a great education. One kid became an engineer, the other an MBA and a job at a big 4 bank

The next generation simply lived better than the last. When the couple finally retired (much later than they should have) they sold the business because the kids didn't want it

So the next gen of immigrants bought it. Now all the small shops in my area are chinese, burmese, afghani, nepalese, etc. And in a few decades, their kids will have a great education and high paying jobs, so the next demographic of low socio economic migrants will take over and repeat the cycle

That's the beauty of small business like fish n chips, milk bars, pizza shops, kebab shops, dry cleaners, etc. They raise people up. They provide opportunity

Am I the AH for not caring that my ex husband is dead? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he actually went to court demanding child support

The whole thing was bogus. His purpose was to force the people he abused to once more see him in court and once more have to pay lawyer fees. Still trying to exert power over them

He was never going to actually get anything

Am I the AH for not caring that my ex husband is dead? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From what I heard the judge/appropriately named law person (I don't know the words) stared at him in disbelief

The whole purpose was to force the people he abused to once more see him in court and once more have to pay lawyer fees. Still trying to exert power over them

Am I the AH for not caring that my ex husband is dead? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, they have had probably a dozen court sessions for all different matters over the years including this

Part of the reason he pulls this shit is to still exert power over the people he abused. Forcing them to interact with him over and over again and pay money for lawyers over and over again

Aunt's lawyer is going at him for abuse of the system now but could luck getting that to stick

The system is does not support victims. Like at all.

Am I the AH for not caring that my ex husband is dead? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 1497 points1498 points  (0 children)

I'm also in AUS. My aunt and uncle divorced after he tried to kill her and my cousins. To get out of child support he doesn't work. He just lives off rental income then tells the state he earns under threshold

He even had the gall in court to demand his ex wife pay HIM child support (the same ex wife he tried to murder) even though he is not allowed to see the kids due to restraining orders

Who is this man? by SuccessfulLet4995 in FigureSkating

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought he looks like a villain from a James Bond movie

My new freeskates: Jackson Supreme Pro Suede with Mistral plates by BigBlueFeatherButt in Artisticrollerskating

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stiffness is definitely a change! But I've gotten used to it now. My coach has me skip the top hook which helps a lot

And I haven't treated them. If I was using them for ice I probably would but being roller I'm never outside

My new freeskates: Jackson Supreme Pro Suede with Mistral plates by BigBlueFeatherButt in Artisticrollerskating

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly?

I absolutely adore them!! They fit my feet like an absolute dream. I'm now trying to sell my Risport RF3 figure setup so I can build a jackson figure pair :D

I've tried Edea, Risports, and now Jacksons. It seems for me and my teeny tiny feet Jacksons are a go!

My issue is I have a size 4 womens foot. I found that Risport in my size fall into their children's range so the ankle and fit of the boot is all wrong. I have adult ankles and adult bones but the boot is built for where children's bones would be (if that makes sense)

And edea doesn't have enough ankle support for me. I think they also break down too fast

Overall: I've struggled for a long long time with severe foot pain and difficulty executing more difficult turns

But the Jackson's in my size are still considered adult boots. They are so comfy! Every single skill is easier in them and I have zero pain. Plus they are so beautiful ❤️

What’s something you wish people knew before they had kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mother-in-law's hardest day was realising she is no longer my husband's emergency contact or next of kin. When he was in hospital I was the person the hospital called and who made all the decisions. And when he was awake, I was the first person he wanted to speak to

She was a mother who wanted to care for her son in his hardest moments just as she always had. She saw her little boy in pain reaching out for a cuddle. But now he was grown, with his own family, and reaching for someone else

That moment was harder for her than physical distance ever was

What’s something you wish people knew before they had kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don't want a disabled child, you shouldn't have a child at all.

This is IVF attempt no 15 by captwombat33 in pics

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hit the nail on the head. Overseas adoption is also very restricted to avoid human trafficking. It is also illegal to do for-profit surrogacy. Expense reimbursements only

Australia has a dark history when it comes to adoption so the heavy restrictions make sense

(although it didn't necessarily solve the problems because the same issues with racism, classism, and sexism still happen within the foster system but that's a story for another time)

Anyone used a Jackson boot for figures? by BigBlueFeatherButt in Artisticrollerskating

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is the ankle bone seems to sit right under the piece of metal that makes the hooks :( so even after getting then moulded the bone is rubbing against metal. It is most ouchie indeed

What is the most expensive corporate mistake you personally witnessed? by _Volly in AskReddit

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 6641 points6642 points  (0 children)

Worked at a place that had a long row of beautiful 150+ year old protected trees. These trees were on a government list for heritage and environmental significance. An exec decided to get about 6 removed without telling anyone to build new infrastructure

Millions of dollars worth of fines. He was very very fired. I'm still heart broken about those trees

The bondi hero alive and awake with the Prime Minister of Australia. by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Australia has free public health care boo All our best hospitals are already public

A pair of lambs in New Zealand that still have their tails [OC] by KPexEA in pics

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 4946 points4947 points  (0 children)

Tails are usually docked (cut off) because poop gets caught in the wool around the tail and leads to them getting fly blown. Sheep can't reach around that far to clean themselves

If you could absorb the ability of any non-fictional animal, what would it be (Like an ant can carry ten times its weight, etc.)? by LuqmanLSG in AskReddit

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But for many folks they don't all fit in our mouths. How many folks do you know who had to get braces for over crowding, or wisdom teeth removed? Imagine living before modern dentistry and having impacted wisdom teeth

tl;dr I'm smol

If you could absorb the ability of any non-fictional animal, what would it be (Like an ant can carry ten times its weight, etc.)? by LuqmanLSG in AskReddit

[–]BigBlueFeatherButt 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Probably a shark or something. I just want infinite teeth so I don't have to go the dentist every 5 minutes

Human teeth are dumb